My heart is broken, I've been told so many lies that I'm filled with anger and need an outlet. Any ideas?
2007-04-04 06:34:35 · 17 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel sorry for you, but i don't think I can get involved with something that you will regret later, and that I'll feel partly to blame if I help.
2007-04-04 07:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Simon M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let go of your anger. Just say to yourself that you forgive him and are willing to let go of the anger. Don't do this for him. Do it for yourself. You are allowing him to continue to punish you with his cheating each moment that you carry the anger.
If you haven't already, let him go. Tell him you can be in a relationship with a cheater and a liar and mean it. Then, go and find joy in your life, alone or with another person when you are ready. The best revenge against someone like this is to live a a wonderful, joyful life. He will then see what he could have been a part of.
2007-04-04 06:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do You believe He may even mind about Your revenge?
Baby, You're too much woman for a cheating ****!
Your best revenge is to dump him out and forget about his miserable face...
He's not worth even a drop from You eyes...
Do not withstand his cheating no more, be strong and decided and face that the relationship has reached to it's end...
Your life will bloom again and You'll be much ahead of this pain...
Truly Yours,
Good luck! Bear hugs! ;-)
2007-04-04 06:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, without a doubt the best revenge you can get is video evidence, and then USE it! You will have him by the Balz then. Otherthan that, just move on with your life and be happy, most of the time that drives them nuts when they see you aren't pinning over them. Good Luck!
2007-04-04 06:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is coming from a man the best revenge is to hit his wallet and hit it hard. Get the cheating husband for the most child support that you can get have no mercy...
2007-04-04 06:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by kenny_in_south_park 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Expose him & her to their co-workers and family. They'll never live it down to any of them..they'll be know as liars & cheaters every place they go. He will never be able to bring her around family once you've told them what he did to you with her. Then, of course, divorce him. With proof of infidelity, take him for all you can! No man likes to lose money & his dignity at the same time! Whatever you do, don't do anything that can cause them to call the cops. You don't need that kind of problem.
Good luck.
2007-04-04 06:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Callie ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Revenge gets you no where . If your husband is in fact cheating , tell him about it ,that you know . Seek counselor and go from there .
2007-04-04 07:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by dolores h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and get on with your life. Be happy and that will drive him nuts when he sees that he doesnt matter to you. Dont let him be important to you and your future.
2007-04-04 07:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DIVORCE !!!!!!! Do not hook up with antone else, because that brings you down to his levle. Where do you live ? In Michigan it is a felony to cheat on your spouse.
2007-04-04 06:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by clubchaos1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leaving him is probably the most legal thing you can do. However, I've heard super glue is awesome!!!! LOL
2007-04-04 06:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋