I seen this guy at work one day .. and we both looked at each other ... i walked away i seen him like 2 weeks ago .. and we talked we exchange numbers .. we started talking on the phone ... we meet up for lunch everyday .. and chill here and there ... I like him and he confessed he does to but when he tells me this !!! that he is NOt legally married but lives with someone and is expecting a kid.... So know everytime she calls and hes with me he goes outside and talks to her ...
WHAT DID I DO ?
I dont want to be that girl that DISTROYS a family just cause i got attached to him ... u feel me ? Its like i want to just let it go .. cause in the long run if he ever gets caught .. he will deny ever feeling for me and lie about everything .. and just go back to her .. im worth more and do not want to put my self in that . !!
What should i do ?
I WAS SHOCKED
2007-04-04 06:49:58 · 17 answers · asked by Melissa I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, I think u should either tell him to make a choice or leave him alone completely (completely would be best). You may luck up and have a good relationship but 9 times out of 10 you want. Your self value and worth is much to precious to waste your time on some one who has confusing situations in their lives. You deserve better and no one should be anyone's play toy... Just be patient and don't look for love in the wrong places or you will end up getting hurt. He is showing you all you need to see so of course he is going to think he can get away with having his cake and eating it too. God will send you someone fit for your desire, so take my advise - spare yourself the heartache and pain - take up a new interesting hobby, like learning yourself - I hate to sound so straight forward and demanding but people like that will prey on you for pride and glory - don't be a fool - love yourself first and your soul-mate will follow.
2007-04-04 07:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Tambra H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run the other way! Avoid him like the plague, Seriously! Change your number if you must! You deserve better. If his significant other is expecting and he's out there being a player what do you think he'll be like with you? Besides, you don't want to become a booty call! Who knows how many girls he's doing this too? Trust me, it might hurt a little at first, but you'll feel better about yourself in the long run. Love yourself and know that you're worthy of a good man. If you waste your time with this guy, you might just miss out on meeting the right person.
2007-04-04 14:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Azul1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey get out while the gettin is good. Your right he will deny everything. IF you like him that's cool just back off. How would you feel if you were in that girls situation??? Really it's not about you being bad but its the fact that if he did it to her he'll do it to you. I"ve been in these situations and it only leads to heartache. Walk away and if he likes you then he will leave her and do the right thing.
2007-04-04 13:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by :o) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to leave. If you stay with him, you'll always be reminded of how you helped to destroy a family unit. If you stay, you'll also always wonder when you see him around other women if he's doing to you what he is currently doing with his live in girlfriend. You will never be certain of what he's doing behind your back. You deserve better, you deserve a man of your own, you deserve someone that will be faithful. Let this guy go, don't associate with him anymore, and live your life, and a great guy will come along. :) Stay with this guy though, and no guy will come around because you're already taken.
2007-04-04 13:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kendra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello please do not get involve sexually and emotionally with this guy, it will cause you heartache and pain. i was in the situation and now i have two kids by the guy and yes he is till with the other. my brother did the same, he acted like he was so in love with this girl and after his baby mom had the baby, BOOM! he got back with her and they are now living together and the other girl is left hurt. not saying they are all the same but it's seems to go thay way mostly. you will have trouble and after she have the baby and find out about you so much trouble will come from her and lots of lying from him, please think before letting yourself go. i know quite a few of woman that went thru the BS, including me, take care.
2007-04-04 14:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by seay28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were played sugar. The moment you found out he was involved with someone else, you should've expressed your digust at his behavior and moved on.
He's a jerk...feel sorry for his pregnant gf who likely doesn't know he schmoozes with other women on the side (or worse).
He's not a worthwhile guy to become "attached to"...don't let his bad karma become yours.
2007-04-04 13:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this. You need to stop seeing him and tell him to stop calling you. Let this go before you and his girlfriend get hurt.
2007-04-04 13:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by writeroftheyear1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and find someone outside of work to date.
2007-04-04 13:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by Lee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away girl. You already know he's a cheater
2007-04-04 13:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by Stitch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you already answered the question,
(MOVE ON) Don't get hurt.
2007-04-04 13:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by David R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋