Family & Relationships - 4 April 2007

I have been dating the most amazing girl for 3 months. We have discussed marriage and we both argee that it will happen sooner then later. I am madly in love with her. If I do propose if wont be for a month or to. What do others think about proposing so soon? Thanks

2007-04-04 03:52:08 · 34 answers · asked by Protect&Serve 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have fighting more and more..one of her kids is scared of me.. she will not tell me who..she told me that she loves me very much. but she will not have her kids scared of me.she feels bad about the way she treats me...she thinks that she is taking advantage of me in doing things.she is stubborn and big headed, i feel that she needs to give more in our relationship..she agrees ..but she doesnt know if she can.i do compromise in things.she thinks that i mumble about her when she walks away. but i dont.when she assumes i mumble she go berzerk.her sis told me that she is stressin money.. waitn on a suppoert check.she used to hold my hand, snuggle up with me,but now ... nada.she has told to grow up.she told me that i am very immature for her... then why am i still in the house. we r not married. she 35, i am 33.i adore her . i love her soooo much...what can i do?back off?

2007-04-04 03:48:51 · 10 answers · asked by country4skot 1 in Singles & Dating

my exes partner has emailed me to basically tell me how happy they are together. things ended very badly between us and he recently contacted me and others and spoke very badly of her....now they seem to be back on track and she emailed me to tell me of their future plans together.. it seems that all along when i was with him that they were also having a serious relationship which i am very confused about!! My instinct is to completley ignore them and let them get on with it but the thing is I did truely adore him... should i respond to her email and wish them the best or should i just let it go?

2007-04-04 03:47:39 · 36 answers · asked by superf 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I wanted to play the following joke on my brother, but my wife thinks it's sick.

What do you think?

Our mom died in 1989. Back then I had an answering machine that used cassette tapes, and I saved a lot of them. As a result, I have a recording of my mom leaving a message, saying sarcastically: "Hello. This is your mother. Since I haven't heard from you in so long, I thought you forgot you had a mother, so I am calling to remind you that you do. Call me. Love you."

I was going to call him, and play the message into his voice mail...

I mean, he would KNOW it's not a call from the dead... but my wife doesn't think it's funny... just sick.

Well?

2007-04-04 03:41:03 · 24 answers · asked by aspicco 7 in Family

I love a girl but screwed up really bad and now its hard for her to trust me and thinks that if we went back out i would just hurt her again how in the world do let her know that i am there for her? also does anyone have any mind blowing way to make her feel like the type of person i thin she is? to me she is an angel!

2007-04-04 03:40:47 · 1 answers · asked by Marukka S 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend proposed to me in December of 2006. We are planning on having the wedding in October of 2008. I have no idea what to do from here. Give me some tips and ideas please. I have picked the colors Blue, Silver and Purple but have decided that the bridesmaids and groomsmen will only wear the blue and the silver and purple with be in the reception area and with the flowers. Any tips and help would be greatly appreicated.

2007-04-04 03:39:16 · 17 answers · asked by Angelintraining 1 in Weddings

different bridge partners. Now she is mine, she's a very good player, but I feel like she's almost too good at bridge for me. It's depressing.

2007-04-04 03:39:07 · 36 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well you see, I went off my birth control Because I was having problems with it and getting sick and hormonal and being just plain miserable. My boyfriend and are are Monogomous but we still use condoms even though I am on birth control and we have both been tested. sometimes we do not use one until the end or if it is spontaneous he pulls out. But my issue is that we are not as careful as we should be, which was okay when i was taking my birth control faithfully. But I cannnot bear to take it anymore it is just making me too miserable and mydoctor has tried everything. The problem is I have not yet told my boyfriend I have stopped taking it because I think he may get upset. Or not understand why I would stop. A baby would not be a crisis but we dont need or want one right now. I just want to GENTLY explain to him what I am going through and why I stopped and that we basically have to be more careful now. Guys, would you be upset?

2007-04-04 03:37:48 · 4 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Singles & Dating

I mean like 20 years younger.would an age difference like that ever stop you from asking her out?

2007-04-04 03:37:09 · 3 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

well... so d thing is dat my mom is havin some financial prblms and has recently seperated frm my dad. she has been borrowin loans frm her frnds but is unable to pay back. she had a really gud job in a hospital as a gynocologists, but those people wont give her income n now they hve ditched her.
she has no job now . shes a really gud E.N.T. surgeon but has no paper proof to get a gud job . and today shes goin thru depression. i really wanna help her out but she says she doesnt need it.she says i shud b concentratin on my studies rather than thinkin abt all these things . i know im just 15 yrs old but i cud setriously do so much.dont know how but i waz thinkin as i can draw n like makincrafty stuff i cud sell them and make money..even though i hardly know anything abt business
but i need ur suggestions pllzzzzz help me out!!!!!
im in a board class which is 10th grade in india. i cant cope up wit all these things if it goes like that .................
plllzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me

2007-04-04 03:36:52 · 6 answers · asked by ishita d 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-04 03:35:56 · 32 answers · asked by mysteryousmtz 6 in Family

2007-04-04 03:34:56 · 2 answers · asked by mysteryousmtz 6 in Family

sanjaya is horrible
i can not believe he is still on
but i feel bed for him
do u like him

2007-04-04 03:31:44 · 9 answers · asked by katerocks101 2 in Singles & Dating

Pro: She's hot. She's nice. She's funny. She's hot. She's good in bed.
Con: She has too many dude friends. She makes more money than me. We argue and she thinks she's right (yea usually she's right, but so what?) She rubs stuff in. She has annoying habits.

2007-04-04 03:25:38 · 30 answers · asked by Hoopla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Met a bloke a few weeks ago took me for lunch a couple of weeks ago then we met up last week. first time he happened to be on lunch break and driving past the way I walk back to work so gave me a lift back to work, he appeared at my work the next day in a bit of a panic incase I thought he was a stalker as we had bumped into each other the day before and for appearing at my work and wanted to explain he wasn't a stalker but he had broken his phone which he showed me and wanted number again due to broken phone, and wanted to meet up again, we were supposed to arrange to go for a drink at the weekend but didn't hear from him he then appears at my work again on monday in a panic as he had lost my number and saying please would I give him a second chance and showed me his new phone. he was very grateful that I had given my number to him AGAIN and for some reason then said missed you and gave me a hug before running off to go back to work.
all seems a bit odd and not heard from him since.

2007-04-04 03:22:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wallet as birthday present ?

2007-04-04 03:16:07 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I only seem to meet men who want sex!! But don't get me wrong I have met some nice people as far as chatting but that's it. I also traveled to meet a guy once which I wouldn't recommend anyone doing b/c there are some crazy people in this world. Has anyone met any nice people online and actually have a good relationship w/them?

2007-04-04 03:12:54 · 17 answers · asked by Lovely Cappy Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, my new bf is friends with my ex. My ex told him that he likes my best friend and he thinks she's hot. Then, when my ex called me, I asked him and he said,"Oh, no I didn't say that." And he changed the subject. What do you think?

2007-04-04 03:11:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

while my wife was away and she knew my wife was away. She started crying on my shoulder about her husband problems and I held her and consoled her. Then she started stroking my arms and told me what a good man I was and kissed me on the lips. I had an erection and we almost reached a breaking point but I backed off. I told her I didn't know what happened and she told me that we must have chemistry. This was the closest I ever came to cheating. It just fell in my lap, I was not looking for it but I think I handled it well. I feel like a good man today.

The big question today is, should I tell my wife or just let it die?

2007-04-04 03:08:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a relationship for 7 months now. The best relationship that either of us have ever been in.We are totally in love and want to get married 1 day. The problem is I have a 1 year old son. My girlfriend hates my sons mother. She says we have a "bond" that will always be there and now she cant deal with it. She said at first she didnt mind, but the more serious we are getting the worse her feelings are getting toward mom and my son. Is this normal? What can I do to assure her that things will work out. Me and my sons mother have a good relationship and I'm a great dad so I'm not stepping out of his life. I just dont want to loose the best girl I've ever had.

2007-04-04 02:57:00 · 12 answers · asked by klcb 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the main purpose of life i mean y r we here??

2007-04-04 02:55:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wood have gotten kicked off if i put the real words. im an 17 year old virgin and im going to be having sex soon with my long time boyfriend. how do you do it??

2007-04-04 02:54:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated enough but was always interested in "long term" stuff, with the majority of exploration coming in between relationships of 6 months or longer. Now, though I'm happily married, I wish I hadn't been so driven toward "coupling up" when i was younger. Do you think teens should date a lot or exclusively?

2007-04-04 02:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by hot carl sagan: ninja for hire 5 in Singles & Dating

Is it just me being just too much or is my boyfriend getting worse. Me and him have to be apart for a couple of months because he is doing an intern overseas in Dubai.It's crap!We used to be so loving he would be more into me and i kept it cool and confident.He used to hug me from behind and kiss me whenever .When I went to visit him a month ago ..he seemed so different .Like not so loving .At times when I call him , he sounds kinda bored.But he said it's because he's tired from a long day (yeah right).He calls me, texts me and emails me almost everyday. (which he said he does not do for anyone else)Today I sent him a long email and then he replied with a one liner! .We have been fighting over two weeks now.Me being upset because i felt the change and he does not put in enough effort and he is getting fustrated and annoyed because he felt that I am not the person he knew.He said my negativity is pissing him off .What can I even do to save my relationship with him?

2007-04-04 02:53:18 · 2 answers · asked by ciara 2 in Singles & Dating

when you make out with a girl what do you like to do with your hands?? and what do you think is the sexiest thing for a girl to do while making out with you??

2007-04-04 02:50:15 · 8 answers · asked by drunken_monkeys101 1 in Singles & Dating

women,Indonesia,Schlumberger

2007-04-04 02:47:14 · 1 answers · asked by Coch roach 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

had sex? And when will be the next time you have it?

2007-04-04 02:47:08 · 28 answers · asked by Jetty 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 02:42:32 · 13 answers · asked by da rican 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law has been estranged from her husband for 32 years (both never bothered to get a divorce). Now he is approaching retirement and just served her with divorce papers because he doesn't want her to get any of his pension money. They haven't shared a home in 32 years, he never paid any child support or alimony. He just left.

Is she going to get part of his pension? Won't the courts look at the fact that they haven't lived together since 1975? I can't see how a judge can honestly reward her any money?

2007-04-04 02:41:30 · 19 answers · asked by Kimmy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He made the statement, but he doesn't follow through and try to build an intimate relationship. We still talk and laugh and have a good time, but neither one has made an effort to take it to the next level. If he didn't want to be sexual, why did he make this statement?

2007-04-04 02:39:58 · 11 answers · asked by Jayla32 1 in Friends