Family & Relationships - 4 April 2007

2007-04-04 06:32:41 · 11 answers · asked by jess 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this man for 7 years I am 22 and he is 43 . All we do is fight and argue all the time . I feel like I cant even look at him any more . Although I do still love him I dont feel that I am in love with him. He questions every thing that I do and every thing he says sounds like an accusation. Sometimes I feel more like a daughter than a wife . I dont want sex anymore of for that matter him to even touch me . I would like to just be friends but he says that will never happen . I have no friends basically no life . I go to work and come home . Like yesterday i stayed at work 10 minutes over and then i had to stop at the bank I even called to let him know what was going on so he wouldnt be mad at me but still when I got their he treated me like i did something wrong . demanded to know why i was at work late ( I work for my father ) I feel like I am always n trouble with him. I am curently 34 weeks pregnant and already stressed . He drinks every day spends around a $100

2007-04-04 06:31:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

help been marry for 20 years i don't know what to do anymore.everything that i do comes and bite me in the as...................thank you for your help.

2007-04-04 06:26:12 · 26 answers · asked by Rafique 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been dating for about 7 months,he has mental stimulation...I cant tolorate to be around him but for so long before I get irratated and Im sure it goes both ways.Ive tried to break it off but he shows up at my home wanting to talk about the situation. I even think he follows me from time to time. I dont really know what i want or see in him other than physical pleasure these days, He also tends to make me feel older than I am and act older which aint going to fly because the reason he's sprung is my spirit.. I really enjoy the time spent,Im confused and dont really know what to do here.... any advice?

2007-04-04 06:26:10 · 25 answers · asked by tavia20019 2 in Singles & Dating

Our son, is marrying this awful girl, (of which they just had a baby). They suddenly throw out a wedding date after three years of living together - the date is 3 days after Christmas ! And on the other side of the country! We offered to pay for their wedding many times here, but they always had some excuse why they didn't want to get married. Can we object to the date, and if so is it rude?

2007-04-04 06:20:11 · 17 answers · asked by riakay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you like better?

Girls, I an just wondering . Does it matter to you if your B/F gets big s quirts or just little dribbles when he ej aculates ?

2007-04-04 06:15:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 06:15:23 · 23 answers · asked by kerrie w 2 in Singles & Dating

The brides parents are throwing an Engagement party on Cinco de Mayo and they would like to give out a favor. Any ideas?

2007-04-04 06:12:26 · 7 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Weddings

Ours was a love marriage. He has been cheating on me for so many years now. He is crazy of women & would go to any extend to get one. He was caught with women many times. I have 2 kids. To cut a long story short, I recently met a guy who showed lots of interest in me. He is infact a friend of my husband. He used to regularly come home & I somehow became very fond of him. He too got close & intimate. He knows about my problems & does not suggest anything. Calls me regularly & I find great comfort in him. I just cannot forget him. He knows I have feelings for him. One day I am sure, he will go away. What will I do? I have a small job. My husband is doing well, but cannot get over his obssession with women. Provides for us, but otherwise is very indifferent. Do I deserve a better life or should I just be put up with it. Its impossible to leave him, since I won't be able to take care of my kids on my own. (financially I mean). I have no close relatives & I am alone.

2007-04-04 06:10:55 · 7 answers · asked by bamboo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for some reason i find myself looking at taler guys than short guys and i know short guys are real nice but i dont see myself with a short guy?

2007-04-04 06:10:43 · 22 answers · asked by Lizzie1990 1 in Singles & Dating

do guys prefer blonds or brunettes??

ok cause im a brunette, about 5"7 size 8 and a 34B?

is that attractive because i've never considered myself as pretty or anything

thanks for your answers in advance and please no stupid ones

2007-04-04 06:09:47 · 40 answers · asked by Music Lover 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 33, shes 31. We've been together since I was 18 and she was 16. Married for almost 8 years now. Two beautiful little boys and more or less things between us havent been that bad.

When we first got married she always thought I was too flirtatious and assumed I fooled around on the side. I didnt - but because she felt this way she withheld sex from me every so often. Sometimes for 2,3, or 4 weeks at a time.

After begging, pleading, and trying to convince her I was faithful - I got tired of it and 8 months later really did start seeing other women for lack of what I wasnt getting at home.

Well.. I was with 4 women a total of 8 times over the course of 5 years. Seeing how this wasnt the way I wanted to live life, I confessed in November to my wife to clean my soul and be honest with her.

After 15 years of being only mine - she started chatting online and meeting up with guys for sex. Shes very involved in this now with no end in site no matter what I say. Help...

2007-04-04 06:04:24 · 55 answers · asked by Renegade 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't understand why a guy would marry a woman if he doesn't even trust her financially. Why is that? But when we girls ask you guys why--ya would respond with a 'yes, we love you and that ya are ready to begin a family of our own and that ya do love us.' How can that still be? Ya all GUYS explain that to me!!!

2007-04-04 06:04:21 · 1 answers · asked by yangsha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Love. Love’s one of the most important thing part of our life. For me, love from my family is important. Without love from my family I won’t get to overcome so many things that I have gone thru all this years. Love motivates us become a better person and more confident.

Who have been supporting and encouraging me all this years? Of course it’s my family especially my parents. Mummy is the one that I always share my feelings and thoughts. I will tell her every single thing and my problems. Opening your mind to someone is definitely an effective measure because when someone knows what is disturbing you, he or she could help you to overcome it. She is just like me best friend. She always take care of me during the time when in was sick especially when I was small. Staying up for the whole night just to make sure I am alright. Thus, this actually helps me to recover faster because I am sure when you are sick and get good care and love from someone you will recover faster.

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2007-04-04 06:01:36 · 1 answers · asked by rainbow 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have tried everything, ingoring her does'nt help. Last night she was on a good one, there are probely ten messages of her going off on a rampage, saying vindictive things and how she is going to ruin his life. She says she is going to tell everyone he has aids and a herion user and cheater. That's considerd slander I think. They have no kids and were married about a year or so. We are working on the divorce now.....but she scared me, and I don't scare easily but she is really really a freak. I can go on and on about her, but the question is , can we get a restraining order for harressing phone calls? We do ignore them and we are changing our phone numbers again. But she will find them out again and it will start all over. Any help would be apprieciated

2007-04-04 05:59:35 · 15 answers · asked by shawnie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

please post

2007-04-04 05:59:24 · 6 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 05:58:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

See mine boobs are pretty big. But that beside the point see when I wear polo shirt or V-cut shirts. All my guy friends eyes well lets just say thier not looking in my eyes. :) lol

2007-04-04 05:54:38 · 28 answers · asked by ~Sarah~ 1 in Singles & Dating

ok suppose a girl..... lets just say jennifer lopez ( just to pick someone most guys find attractive) now... if she was your g/f would you perfer her with or with out a tattoo... would it make her any sexier or only down grade her ?

2007-04-04 05:54:38 · 11 answers · asked by love2last 4 in Singles & Dating

You dance in the rain with me?

LOL

2007-04-04 05:49:54 · 19 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

noticed this women sitting about 20 feet away just looking at me. When I would notice her looking at me she would then just look somewhere else. Then later I would notice her looking at me again. This happened quite frequently and I did not know what if anything she was trying to tell me.

She never made any moves or gave me any indication of what she had in mind - if anything?

What particular signal if any was she giving me that I was not getting?

2007-04-04 05:49:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have no girl friend all my relationships been bad, may sound silly but I think its because of my big nose, I can't get the women that I want because of that what should I do to get over my this problem

2007-04-04 05:49:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 05:49:01 · 5 answers · asked by hoodlum 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been thinking about it recently and im really confused about it and i feel like a part of me is missing but if i see him it will change my life forever and it might be a mistake so im confused about it and i need some helf figureing this out =[

2007-04-04 05:47:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok...so I am sick fairly often...its just natural...but i have missed 10 days of school this semester and my friends are always calling me and saying OMG youve missed soo much school..I can't help it. It really makes me mad. What should I do? ( btw: its my last year with them)

second: Can they hold me back for missing so much school?
I am a straight A student. I always do all my make - up work. Whenever i am sick i am always doing homework! soo what do you think?

2007-04-04 05:45:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you have ever been torn between 2 guys how did you pick which guy to go to? Did it work? I'm a guy who dated a girl for 3yrs. We broke up a year ago, and she had a rebound relationship with someone else. They lasted about 6 months. Durrng then she & I stayed close and even had lots of sex. she said she still loved me. Well they broke up and she stayed in contact with him. She is 28 he is 20 and Im 26. She is back with him, so is this a rebound again? will it work? I love her with all my heart and she knows that. So, what do I do? I've chased her, bought her things, been there to listen and help etc. She has lied & I forgave her. I know you need to know more but we could be here all day. You can also get a little more info from my previous question if you look at my profile. Please help me, I'm going crazy and I don't want to loose her by being away but don't want to be annoying her by being on top of her all the time

2007-04-04 05:45:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I intended to destroy her marriage like she had mine and tipped off her husband that she was cheating. Didnt say with who neither did I reveal my self to him.
However it seems he had been tracking his wifes movements because he confronted her and was clear with whom she was having an affair.
My husband is angry with me bse he says I betrayed him to another Mans wife, I denied the accusation bse I did not even give the guy any information.He has since left home that the other guy is threatening to kill him.
Should I feel guilty and Men was it so wrong of me, what wld u do if yr wife tipped off the other guy? Is it really the problem or the fact that you have been cheating on your wife?Main issue is the other Guy has all evidence against my husband and not from me.
I do not intend to ask him back bse he is not even sorry.
Please help me and share with me out there.

2007-04-04 05:44:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance was never jealous nor controlling until a month after we became engaged. I have never betrayed his trust and he's never betrayed mine. We had a FAIRYTALE relationship up until now. He worries about me TOO much and it is frustrating. I know that things will only escalate after the marriage. What can I do to let him see that he needs to spend time with his friends as well do I? Breaking up is not an option, I just want my sweet guy back.... Any suggestions?

2007-04-04 05:42:48 · 17 answers · asked by luckgirl924 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife had a 18 month affair, she said she was used and dumped. I love my wife so much for 25 years and 4 children.She confessed and begged for my forgiveness. I've forgiven her but I can'nt forget. Its been 8 months and I still think about all the time they spent together. I know what kind of a lover she is and its killing me. My mind sees ever act they did all the time they spent together and then she'd come home to me. Tell me please how long is this hell in my head going to last ? HELP ME PLEASE

2007-04-04 05:41:42 · 26 answers · asked by michael g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I usually stay up until he gets home, around 11 p.m. and get to bed around 12:30. I get up at 6:30, and he sleeps in. Meals are a problem, too.

2007-04-04 05:39:31 · 10 answers · asked by sleepywife 2 in Marriage & Divorce