Crazy ex wife?

Question

we have tried everything, ingoring her does'nt help. Last night she was on a good one, there are probely ten messages of her going off on a rampage, saying vindictive things and how she is going to ruin his life. She says she is going to tell everyone he has aids and a herion user and cheater. That's considerd slander I think. They have no kids and were married about a year or so. We are working on the divorce now.....but she scared me, and I don't scare easily but she is really really a freak. I can go on and on about her, but the question is , can we get a restraining order for harressing phone calls? We do ignore them and we are changing our phone numbers again. But she will find them out again and it will start all over. Any help would be apprieciated

just for everyone that thinks im a whore, they have been separted for two years, she moved somebody in. I met him a year ago, and we live together as a couple, I did not take him away from her. She is making divorce very hard for him. She appeals it. Please don't pass judgement. I did'nt know I would have to defend myself against such bitter women.

Answer 1

Wow. I would definitely file for a restraining order, but there is more than one kind to file; so when doing so; ask about specifics in the restraining order; you can possibly put names down and locations etc...now if she's calling harassing you, I'd call the police. This first of all leads to a paper trail, which you want/need. They can also file a No Trespassing Order on her so she can't come to your property or call you, and then while you're there with the police; they will call her let her know what's going on. If she violoates eithe r one, she goes to jail, which stays on her record permanently. Second of all, keep all documents you have and start documenting going forward. Mention these things to the attorney. I would only keep a home phone and not cell #s.

Like I said, if you file a No Trespassing Order and she calls or comes over, you call 911 and she goes to jail; even if she leaves before they get there; she goes to jail. If she violates the restraining order, she goes to jail. Even if she's not in there long, that's a paper trail. You will need to KEEP everything you have, also buy pepper spray; like at AutoZone...like $10; keep it on your keychain. I've had to go through all of this with my significant other's ex girlfriend.

This was in January. She hasn't been back and things have calmed down. But she has three children to think about, she is crazy and white trash. He's actually had to physically pull her off of my property ..

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Two words: Restraining Order.

There is no justifiable reason you should tolerate that kind of intimidation and harassment. Contact an attorney and your local police/law enforcement officials and, calmly and objectively, explain your situation.

I do recommend changing your number to an unlisted number for your land line and cell phones as well.

Determining slander should be left to a legal professional as it entails numerous legal implications. Again, talk to an attorney.

Hope this helps.

Answer 4

you cant get a restraining order unless theres been an intentional act towards physical harm. theres really not a lot you can do, this si how divorce goes sometimes. if you are afraid for your physical safety, get a shotgun or a big dog. and then answer the phone and make monkey noises at her or something. its fun to taunt stupid people. or send her number to as many marketing firms as you can find, so they call her all day.

Answer 5

she sounds like a real nut, I'm sorry you have to endure that. Call the police every time she calls and document everything she says. You will need clear records of the abuse if you are going to get a judge to give you a restraining order.

Answer 6

Sure,you can get a restraining order. But, they are for people that believe in them. Change your telephone # and move if you want any peace from the crazy lady. You can also put call trace on your phone. Good luck ..........

Answer 7

Geeeeeze... First of all... girls dont go crazy all by themselves. That guy you are with probably did some crappy things to her to make her flip out like this. You need to find out what he did, because he will probably do it all again. YES, you can get a restraining order based on harrassing calls and threats. But honestly... Find out why she is saying all this stuff, and DONT believe that she just wants him back... because I'll bet the guy is saying that to you, and the girl is saying how much of a jerk the guy is. She probably got really screwed by this guy to freak out like this. Be careful.

Answer 8

Well obviously can't pick women who can spell properly. That be as it may...You're living with a man who is still married. That pretty much makes YOU a whore...as long as he is legally married he is not "single" or "on the market". "Working" on a divorce doesn't mean squat. You have options though...you can move out, stop being his whore or you can continue and learn to put up with the phone calls, because THAT is the position YOU have put yourself in...Don't blame HER for YOU making the choice to be a whore.

Answer 9

i could flow into an entire new area with him, in case you reside mutually if no longer then i recommend which you the two flow and do merely no longer tell her the place you reside, if she is in reformatory she already lost all rights to the babies. additionally just to be risk-free i could get the two you and your boyfriend a restraining order. reliable success, i understand its stressful im going throughout the full loopy ex spouse element with my boyfriend to the girl is a druggie and alcoholic yet shes a information reporter and is on t.v. in FL so its thoroughly phsychotic that she is like that. Take care and save you and your new kin risk-free.

Answer 10

Call the cops on her. If you do that, it'll be easier to get a restraining order. Luckily, they have no kids together. If they did, you both would be stuck with her forever.