I usually stay up until he gets home, around 11 p.m. and get to bed around 12:30. I get up at 6:30, and he sleeps in. Meals are a problem, too.
2007-04-04 05:39:31 · 10 answers · asked by sleepywife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What time do you get home from work? Maybe you could nap and set the alarm for 11:00 so your up when he gets in and then stay up a little later. Also suggest that since you stay up for him that he could get up early a couple of days a week in the morning to have breakfast with you. Once you leave he can go back to sleep.
2007-04-04 05:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Primdiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, the two of you are in diff. time schedule isn't it. How about during your days off cook some meal that you can put it in the freezer so that way when the two of you gets home,esp. your husband all you have to do is heat it up and it will still be home cook meal. If your worried about your baby (husband), if he eats breakfast, make him that continental breakfast, cereal, orange juice, and buy that already made cinnamon so when he gets up, the breakfast is already waiting for him even though that your not there to share. If you want to make him lunch,its very simple, make a garden salad,cover it with saran wrap,make a sandwich as well, put all this inside the refrigerator and just leave a note by the refrigerator saying your lunch are inside. This are some ways that you can do without one of you have to cook when your tired from work....
2007-04-04 08:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question. If you can plan to meet each other for lunch and make that your big meal instead of dinner.
Also try to coordinate days off together to get your sleep and spend time together.
Plan for vacations as well.
And if that fails then one of you may have to look for a new job so that you are both on the same schedule.
2007-04-04 05:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make his lunch with a little note...So its like having lunch together, Sleeping well just rest, he will see you when he gets home..and spend as much time together on the weekends.It can work..
2007-04-04 05:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only tip I could give you is for you to learn how to get over not seeing him. That or for you both to find jobs in which you can see each other more.
2007-04-04 05:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by Robert and Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your schedules will allow you to get to be with each other, one of you might have to have you schedules changed....seriously. Otherwise; he'll always be sleeping while you go to work; or you'll always be sleeping while he's at work...
2007-04-04 05:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what "H" says. Your marriage can deteriorate very rapidly the longer this goes on.
2007-04-04 05:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I did this it was due to the children...so that one of us could be at home all the time with th children...this will pass and life gets better
2007-04-04 05:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds difficult! sometimes we have to do our best with the time we have -- hopeully when finances permit, one or the other of you will be able to switch shifts or jobs.
take care
2007-04-04 05:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep week ends reserved
2007-04-04 05:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by sureshcm m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋