older men-are you intimidated by attractive younger women?

Question

I mean like 20 years younger.would an age difference like that ever stop you from asking her out?

Answer 1

Umm, I think I would be scared to approach someone with such an age gap. Although, thankfully, I am not having that problem just yet coz I'm still young!

Answer 2

Yes, a little....I mean, these were the same sorts of women who rejected me flat-out when I was younger, so why would things be any different now? Besides, who wants to look like "that old perv", the geezer who shamelessly flirts with women young enough to be his daughters?

If we are talking about out in public, in real life....it would and *does* stop me from saying anything. I'm sorry, but under the circumstances, *she* would have to start things.

Online, things are a bit less constrained, but only because of lowered expectations (of ever meeting, of people telling the truth about themselves, etc.). I would and have asked around online, but with the understanding that things would likely *never* go beyond chat, email, instant messenger, or possibly talking on the telephone.

I know, that sounds appalling, but that is basically how it works for *this particular* chubby, plain-looking, older guy.

Thanks for your time...take care and stay safe. ^_^

Answer 3

Its like dating your father. I just found out a couple days ago my husband Jeff who is 46 yrs. old just went to Nevada to see
his so called girl friend who is 20 yrs. I hope he told her that his DIVORCE DID NOT GO THROUGH, he is still LEGALLY
MARRIED. He told me that he was going to see his sister in Washington, we had sex that night before he let.