my exes partner has emailed me to basically tell me how happy they are together. things ended very badly between us and he recently contacted me and others and spoke very badly of her....now they seem to be back on track and she emailed me to tell me of their future plans together.. it seems that all along when i was with him that they were also having a serious relationship which i am very confused about!! My instinct is to completley ignore them and let them get on with it but the thing is I did truely adore him... should i respond to her email and wish them the best or should i just let it go?
2007-04-04 03:47:39 · 36 answers · asked by superf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I say let it go... She must feel a little insecure to have called you and try and rub it in.. Be the bigger person! :)
2007-04-04 03:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would doubt the truth of the email she sent. I would make a neutral reply-"thanks for your update" and then ignore any future contacts she makes with you. She clearly feels threatened by you. Just get on with your life. Remember to act only out of love and you will draw loving people to you. I wish you the best.
2007-04-04 03:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mother Amethyst 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was a bit confused on this question, I'm not sure that I understood it.
But if you were seeing someone and "supposedly" he was seeing someone while he is/ was with you, I, wouldn't do anything, but pay closer attention and look for clues. She could be telling the truth, or she could be trying to stir up trouble.
You could start by showing up at work unexpectedly with lunch for a surprise. If he's saying he's going to a friend's or something, think of an important enough reason to show up to check on him.
Or you could call him up just to tell him that you miss him, be creative, but not too obvious. If you really feel deep down that something's not right, then think of something to do, but if you REALLY trust him, then let things go. You have to remember, there is ALWAYS going to be at least one person who wants your man and the ones to really be watched is your friends.
2007-04-04 03:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Questions to ask her?
1) How did you get my information; ALL my information?
2) Why was it given to you if I did not pass it along for your use?
3) Why are you contacting me?
Statements to say!
1) Let's both be mature women and not give this many any credit; he's just done!
2) Be happy and make each other happy w/out me!
3) Do not quit your day job worrying about if he still wants me! (He does!)
4) Grow up and find someone else to prank w/ this ish!!
Hey girl, What a fix? I tell you the best thing to do is both! Wish them well and keep it moving! The right man will come along, mentally, physically, spirtually, financially prepare YOU for that time. To say prepare for the day would say pick it out like clothes for the next work day, let it ride, let him and her roll off your shoulders and keep pressing on!
Things to do for you!
1) Get your nails done (Spring Colors)
2) Let ya toes hang out (Spring Fever)
3) Cut or color your hair
4) Walk, exercise or buy something expensive and laugh @ his expense!
Love you toodles,
Nan
2007-04-04 04:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You should just let it go. The ex's new partner should not have contacted you about their future plans or anything. Move on with you own life and get back at them by making yourself happy and successful in your own life.
2007-04-04 03:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by Angelintraining 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to meet up with you so you can thank her personally for her help in you getting rid of the rat,
Men never change, they don't know how,
chances are that he will soon be looking for his next victim
She has done you a massive favour
Don't try and justify anything with her
Just thank her cos now you can find someone decent
2007-04-04 05:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let it go, and move on with your own life. It sounds like she's trying to rub it in, and didn't really mean well when she sent you that e-mail. So don't reply, you'll probably be happier if you just break contact with them and find a guy who will love you and stay with you. You deserve better...best of luck!
2007-04-04 03:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants a reaction from you so the best thing to do is to ignore her, i know its hard as i have been in a similar situation but you have to just got on with things and dont let her bother you.
2007-04-04 03:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well one ho did she get your email address? Maybe she knows there is something wrong with there relationship and all the clues that tell her whats wrong points to YOU. Why on earth are you in contact with your ex and dont expect his new partner to wanna get to know you. Maybe she knew that he was cheating on her with you.
Personally i hate exs being in contact with my partner, for one reason if they are in contact and they are willing to ***** about you to there ex then, then there is something wrong. You are gonna cause problems in there relationship i know because my fiance has had 2 exs pop up and they both nearly broke us up. leave them alone she knows what he is upto hence her emailing you. I have done it as well just a few weeks ago to be honest, shes not trying to cause trouble she is feeling bad as she suspects what he was doing with you.
Put your self in her shoes wouldn't you be feeling insecure. I hear a yes......................So please your best bet is to leave them both alone and get on with your life.
2007-04-04 08:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it,it will bug her that you didn't respond so she will most likely email again to provoke a reaction,please don't stoop to it. Walk away the bigger person.
2007-04-04 03:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by heebygeeby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd just send a quick message back saying "congratulations & good luck - you'll need it".
Then block her email address & get on with your life!
2007-04-04 04:54:57 · answer #11 · answered by Lola G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋