My boyfriend and I (now he's my Fiance) were walking around his campus about 2 years ago and he ran into this girl. He introduced us and they said a few words, then we went our seperate ways. Well a few weeks later him and I asked each other who we each lost our virginity to and he said, "remember that girl that we ran into at my school, well that was her". After I heard that I got this awful feeling in my stomach and every once in a while I think about it. Just that fact that I was once face to face with the girl he shared such an intimate moment with, a moment I will never share with him. Even though I had his child, I know that tops the girl that took is virginity but I just can't get the feeling out of my stomach. He says to me that it meant nothing to him and that virginities are more of a thing for girls. I'm not worried about the situation at all or about her I just wanted to know what other men thought about the girl they lost their virginity to. Thanks.
2007-04-04 07:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hahaha guys dgaf...seriously
i couldnt care less about the girl i lost mine
too...its more of a thing for girls...
2007-04-04 07:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is right. It is not that big of a deal to us as it is for girls. I don't even speak to the girl I lost it to and I have no desire to. I don't feel any real connection to her. She just happened to be the first girl I had sex with. That doesn't make her anymore or less special to me than any other girl I've had sex with. Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to sound cold here, but trust me, you've got nothing to worry about. The intimacy he had with the girl he lost his virginity to is no more significant than the intimacy he's shared with other girlfriends or with you. Plus, if you two are in love, then YOU own the rights to the most intimate moments of his life. Good luck, girl.
2007-04-04 07:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by bitchlips411 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a chick, so I can't truthfully tell you how guys feel when they lose their virginities, but I can tell you that i've been in a similar boat.
When I lost my virginity, as a girl, it was all emotional and joyous and blablabla. When my fiance lost his virginity, it wasn't even really that big of a deal. He told me that he was happy that he'd finally gotten laid, and he DOES think of it as an extremely intimate experience, but he doesn't see the first one as any different from the ones that followed.
2007-04-04 07:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by kasi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy i guess. My boyfriend hes 18 and hasnt lost it yet because he wants it to be special. We've been datin 7 months and he still waiting. Is it cause my boyfriends a pansy. Maybe but I appreciate it for him. Your fiancé is just the opposite of my boyfriend. He didn’t see his virginity as a cherished thing so too him it was no big deal. I don’t know if that is what you were lookin for but I tried to help.///<3Jess
2007-04-04 07:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by cutiepiejessrox 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it was probably no big deal to him. my bf recently told me that he would have liked it if he lost it to me(but he didnt) so he thinks of me as that special person except i wasnt his first but he cares more about when he sleeps with me then when he lost it. so dont worry about it. virginities are more for us girls.
2007-04-04 07:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it he loves you, you are getting married, and you have his child-
I would say that that trumps his past relationship
he's with you
he has chosen you =)
2007-04-04 07:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys think....wooohoo - I'm doing it! that's it
2007-04-04 07:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by love2dance 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋