i am in love with my pregnant fiance.i am considering even marrying her. but her pregnancy has put her in funny moos and these 7 months have been from hell.we have not been intimate for about 4 months and i just needed physical fulfillment. i basically slept with one of her friends and i am feeling too guilty now.would it be a good idea to tell her so i can get rid of the guilt?i still want to be with her.i need her in my life.what should i do.serious answers pls!
2007-04-04 08:52:15 · 13 answers · asked by kwabral y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't tell her, work on your guilt on your own, if you tell her, she will never forgive you, no matter what you say.
There's lots of way to get your guilt out, tell a friend, tell a priest, but don't tell her. But, you shouldn't feel guilty anyhow, you just needed sex, a basic man need, it's not like you have feelings for her. Next time, sleep with somebody she doesn't know, your biggest mistake was sleeping with her friend, talk to this girl and get an understanding that your girlfriend can never find out.
Good luck.
2007-04-04 16:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a guy to have an entire affair with yet another guy ability he's thoroughly gay, no longer basically curious..yet a hundred%. He probable does have thoughts for you yet he won't be waiting to be totally dedicated to a heterosexual marriage and quicker or later he's probable to stray. in case you marry this guy you're making a extensive mistake.
2016-11-26 02:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I noticed that you are rationlizing what you did. Bad mistake. You did what you did because you made the decision. Live with it. Learn from it.
I noticed you said telling her would rid you of guilt. Well thinking of yourself again. Ridding yourself with guilt and causing her bad pain. Does that sound like the right thing to do?
2007-04-04 09:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by tprx899 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever tell her what you did and move as far away from this friend as possible.
2007-04-04 08:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by agkwatson@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make her a big meal and then tell her. but befor u tell her u need to tell her how much u need her in yr life.
2007-04-04 09:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by kevin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes pregant you cant tell her that it will upset her soo much you should have to live with the guilt
2007-04-04 08:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by louis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with her being pregnant that is not good and I feel bad for her because she is going to have to deal with your stupidness how wrong is that
2007-04-04 08:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how can you be in love and let lust over ride your need
Wouldnt it be funny if the baby she is carring was not yours cause one night SHE NEEDED FUFILLED
2007-04-04 09:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't keep it from her. tell her and you better beg for forgivness and swear to her you'll never do it again and promise. my boyfriend did that to me but it took awhile to gain his trust again so i hope your willing to wait. Please don't hurt her again! and good luck
2007-04-04 09:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by *GlensBayB* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...........................
Hahahaha do what you think is right you already messed up.
I would tell her now, cause when she finds out later it'll be even crappier for her.
2007-04-04 08:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋