Rebound girls? Guys how do you really feel about your Rebound girl?

Question

Okay, so if you get out of a serious relationship of 4 years 2 kids, and then jump into a relationship w/in 3 months of breaking up and meet a girl at a bar to date, does she still mean something? Do you take the relationship seriously or do you know in your mind that it's just action for you?

Answer 1

Depends on the individual, people take different amounts of time to "move on". Could be months and it could be years. You can usually tell by the level of relating the individual is doing comfrontably. But also you need to understand there history. People don't just wake up one day and say to each other, wow this isn't working out, lets just go seperate ways. Also even if he is completly in the right, he still has to be blamed for picking that person... theres a reason why people sell them selves short. Everyone means something to everyone else to what amount, and intensity , is also dependent on the individual. Again ask him these questions, if he doesn't give you the answers you need, then leave him. To take on this much drama you need the best of the best to cope with it, and indesision, insecuities, and hiding from the answering the question. Isn't bs you need to deal with... good luck...