last year i was in 8th grade. i had 6 really close friends but only 1 was going to the same highschool as me next year. When we got to highschool, me and my friend from 8th grade still hung out alot in the beginning but as the year went on she stopped sitting with me at lunch and started ignoring me. she now hangs out with all the popular girls and is totally boy crazy! i tried calling her and sending her emails to see what was up with her but she never picked up her phone when she saw it was me and just blamed it all on me in the emails. i cant take her anymore!! what should i do about her?
2007-04-04 11:01:37 · 10 answers · asked by sugarcookies104 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to FORGET bout her and move on, start making a new set of friends.
As ppl start to get older, moving from junior school to highschool, they change friends etc.....Too bad she's so mean to you that she couldn't even pick up the phone to answer your calls, and if she's turning everything around on you in her emails....then so be it......Let her do as she pleases and You do the same*~ MOVE ON and choose better friends* GOODLUCK*
2007-04-04 11:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're friends change as you get older, especially once you hit 9th grade. we've all been through it. my cousin is now in 10th grade, and girls she was best friends with since she was born, are no longer her friends. once they all hit 9th grade, they turned to drugs/drinking and getting introuble, and she chose to be with a better crowd. move on from her and you'll make new friends, and you may even lose new friends as the years go on.
but remember this, if your friend left you to be with the "popular crowd", she'll be in for a rude awakening once you graduate high school. so remember this, it doesn't matter if you are well known in school and have all the popular friends in school, because when you graduate, it's a whole new world out there. no one cares if you were popular in high school, or if you've had the most friends. that will not get you anywhere.
2007-04-04 18:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by d h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new friends or friends. A lot of changes take place in that transition from 8th grade to high school. It's not convenient for her anymore to be your friend. She was not a good friend & was using you. More drama will come between now and age 23, so get used to it.
2007-04-04 18:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by jimmyjohn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was never your friend, you were hers your still trying to be her freind and she is so blowing you off and blaming you for what she has done, a true friend don't turn their back on you, you need to let her go and she will regret it someday. EMAIL HER ask her what you did so wrong for her not to talk to you and when she replies with the email and explains her self take it and print it out and post it all over the school
2007-04-04 18:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you just wrote pretty much said it all. You were close back then but she changed to fit in or over the summer. Holdf on to the old memories of good times and look to the future. If she isn't being a good friend to you is she really worth holding on to.
2007-04-04 18:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by Carley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is like relationship(love), when the time has come for it to end, it will and it should. If she doesn't cherishes you as a friend, why should you. You can't change people, to her she might think it is you who changed. So I suggest you to let her go, she lives her own life, while you live yours. Good luck!
2007-04-04 18:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by Momo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your so called 'friend' is ignorant enough to blank you for people that she doesn't think are as 'cool' as you, then you should completely forget about her. Think about getting through school with friends that are going to support you and that aren't going to treat you like dirt.
2007-04-04 18:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by pulp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard to lose a good friend, but someone who is acting like that is not a good friend. I would try to forget about her and move on.
2007-04-04 18:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by been there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it seems like she is blowing you off. Why try and be friend with some body who dosent want to be your friend. You should try to talk to her and let her know how you feel. If she cant talk to you yall anit best friends anymore. I think she has found new friends.
2007-04-04 18:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by Shauna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and if that doesn't work drop the friendship.
2007-04-04 18:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by T-Byrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋