In another question I talked about that, and someone said that is wrong...why???
2007-04-04 12:45:39 · 25 answers · asked by Gail Michelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not leaving him, I love Master!
2007-04-04 12:55:37 · update #1
There's nothing wrong with it if you both like it.
2007-04-04 12:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by itry007 4 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Well if this other guy more or less used you and pretty much only acted like he cared, you seem to have forgotten the pain that he must have caused you, for you to still have him in mind. If you've been with your boyfriend for 2 years and you're thinking about someone else instead of him, it's best to let your boyfriend go because this is definitely not fair to him. You might still feel like you love him but if your love for some other guy is stronger, there's no point holding onto your boyfriend and eventually forcing yourself to forget the other guy and settle down with this one. It just doesn't work that way. There's really nothing wrong with you, this sort of thing is normal in relationships. I suggest that you take a breather from both these guys and figure out what is lacking in this relationship that was present in your previous one. Or maybe you could just look forward to meeting someone new and rediscovering the "butterflies". Good luck.
2016-05-17 07:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it. But there's a lot that's risky. Don't do it unless you really, really, really feel the need for that kind of relationship.
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2007-04-04 19:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its wrong because the guy don't own you, you are your own person, why should you bellittle yourself and call him master. he does not run your life, you do. its like he bought you at a store, and you should do what he says. wrong he didn't buy you, and he can't tell you what to do. he should have respect for you and treat you like a human being. good luck.
2007-04-04 12:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Nothing wrong with it if neither of you mind it. If someone had a problem with it, they are just insecure in their role.
2007-04-04 12:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by T Time 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its wrong as long as hes not literally ur master. i think its kind of cute! actually i think im gonna call my bf master for fun haha. thanks for the idea!
ignore what the others are saying, its not like ur saying it as ur bf literally being ur master, its just a joke, just for fun! i guess u wont enjoy that 'master' calling if u dont have a bf. plus it depend on ur relationship. i think its kind of fun, just to fool around about it.
2007-04-04 12:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
News Flash... Slavery was abolished a very long time ago!
I'm not going to tell you it's "wrong" but why do you feel that you are substandard to your partner? You should demand and respect your equality not his domination.
2007-04-04 12:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by a j 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It means you feel less a person than he is. You are consciously putting him up on a higher pedestal than yourself.. Not a good way to structure a relationship...! He may really feel he IS your master and treat you as an inferior.....
2007-04-04 12:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
your "master" he's not the king of the world that's so stupid "master" i feel like punching this guy if he loves u he would NOT let u call him" master".WHAT THE HELL'S THE MATTER WITH U!!??DUMB *** your bf not u well kind of u.
2007-04-04 12:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by l♥ve143~♥~♥~♥ 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Whatever floats your boat
2007-04-04 12:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
every thing wrong with that dont ever give a man that power over u they will get a realy big head and im telling u but a stop to that asap ur insaine
2007-04-04 12:49:59 · answer #11 · answered by sexycrazybitch1c 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋