I got caught! What should I dO?

Question

Im already not happy with my relationship. It makes me think life sucks. i love my boyfriend i really do. but i found myself attracted to this other guy who told me what i wanted to hear.

My boyfriend found out and got pissed. He thinks it would be best for us to move out seperately but still date. we have been together for 4 years now. I have tried to do this before to save our relationship but he smothered me into staying.

now we are in the process of moving out. he is startin to get cold feet, but me i am not sure what i want to do. my life right now doesnt thrill me in anyway, but i dont want to lose my home with him.

I have no idea what to do. When he cheated i immediately got back with him...i dont know why , but its because i didnt want to lose him. that was almost 2 years ago.

I do want to meet new girls and make good friends but i cant do that with him. he is too controlling.

WHAT SHOULD I DO??

Answer 1

Understand this: True Love has nothing to do with the love, humanity can love anything from a tree to a god and that doesn't make it right. That tree could fall down on there head one day, and it might not be the right god. So everyones got love its the true part that people can't figure out.... heres the secert the true isn't about how much you love its about wether the situation with the person you love is truly for you. Thats the trick and you've said it in your own question, yes you love him, but your not truly happy with him... find someone were the outside situation is truly what you need, truly what you want, and truly how you feel you should treat yourself and your life, because all you got here is love... and as you can see, love isn't enough.... sry it isn't your fault damn TV can only raise you so much on cliche' sayings and sterotypical generalization of everyone and everything....