and u love everything about him he makes you laugh and he sooo fine but he is also sweet and careing and he took care of me when we were going out but he said he didnt want 2 go back out because of what my ex-best friend told him some things that was not true and he believed her over me when he came to ask me the truth and i told him he said that he couldnt do this because he cant trusy me, he haerd that i was heating on him and i was telling people lies about him and i didnt, i loved him and i still do, i want to go back out with him but he dont but he still loves me, how can that happen? i need all the help i can get so what should i do?
2007-04-04 13:26:32 · 4 answers · asked by crazycherry14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
calm down. don't try to force him to date you. try being his "friend" for awhile. get him back into the habit of hanging out. do things to remind him of "the good times" w/o bringing up the issue that he is reserved about. also go on a campaign to have your ex-friend exposed as being a liar.
you could always accept his words at face value as opposed to confusion & act accordingly. if you want to be petty try to make him jealous by dating others-BE CAREFUL! that will almost certainly backfire on you-cause him to really move on. you could play desperate and needy-tell him you'll do and accept anything to get back in his good graces-BE CAREFUL! that leads to manipulative abusive relationships that leave everyone unhappy.
maybe you just need to give him some space.
2007-04-04 13:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by tidricka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll never figure out why a vicious person would roll out rumors. If he's your one and only he should speak to you directly not listen to a wild third hand hand rumor. Look at the situation this way, he must not be adult enough to laugh off some slanderous females stupid remark.
2007-04-04 20:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by Country Boy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him straight out,that u were honest and meant what u told him..u did none of those things that was told to him,n u didnt lied to him..tell him if he cant handle it,ur sorry n hope that u can still be on friendly terms..gl tc
2007-04-04 23:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ex best friend wants your man or he wants her if he believes everything she says over u may be something going on with that just ain't right thats y u never let your friends meet your man
2007-04-04 20:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋