Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

2006-10-16 05:45:17 · 13 answers · asked by Opeyemi Oyebade 1 in Singles & Dating

in a nut shell i didnt have a great childhood...i had the abcense of fatherly love....so as soon as a male showed me the littlest bit of love and attention i grabbed on to him and never let go...i feel like i used him as a crutch in the beginning to fill that missing space in my life...i am now still with the same guy going on 4 1/2 years...i know he loves me to death as do i love him....he has become much more then a crutch like it started.i put my all into our relationship and sometimes i feel he doesn't care as much as i do. I have been insecure forever, i guess since my stepfather has made me feel worthless since i can remeber back but i tend to take out my hurts of the past on my boyfriend. since i haven't been told how beautiful and special i am to someone until my bf came along, i think sometimes i dont believe it when he says it...i get very mad when i catch him with porn, or looking at other girls when im with him,i just feel that my confidence is killing us sometimes..help!!

2006-10-16 05:45:07 · 8 answers · asked by Life....it blows! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am married. I am not a prude by any means. I do my wifely duties. But it absolutely makes me feel unattractive when I know my husband looks at porn. Especially knowing that these women look amazing!! I'm not fat and unattractive. I am 5'8, 36-24-26, fit, mother of 2. I take care of myself to keep his interest. I am confused. Its pretty often (on the computer) It almost grosses me out. Strip clubs...what's it all about? I want to understand this. Please help me.

2006-10-16 05:44:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean i have heard of women going months without even wanting sex

2006-10-16 05:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Start off with yummy steak dinner at fancy lavish restaurant, then take cab to the opera then possibly some drinks afterwards. What do you think? Any other suggestions?

2006-10-16 05:43:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

leave the home dressed like a ho, if you really care for her? Is it because you like her dressed like this or is she just hard headed and refuses to change her dressing style?

2006-10-16 05:43:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was staying with some female friends in vegas. They invited a bunch of people over and we were partying for over 24 hours. Eventually everyone paired up with someone and the party started to die down. This one girl-who is 18-decided it would be funny to pull a prank on me while I was passed out on the couch. She took a bowl of water and put my hand in it while I was sleeping-she wanted to make my piss myself. I woke up disorientated and spilled the bowl all over myself. She thought this was so funny and kept asking if I peed. I was pissed so i microwaved her cell. did i go to far? was I just being grumpy cuz i didn't hook up with anyone?

2006-10-16 05:43:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been dating 3 months now and he says he wants to be with me forever...

2006-10-16 05:41:46 · 29 answers · asked by landime9 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl is really cute in the hall way we look at each other or at least i do and she just looks cause im looking but anyways she thick not fat and i did have a g/f but know i dnt and i want to talk to her but i dnt kno how i should approach her help how shall i greet myself. its been awhile since i have done this. she seems nice and all and i dnt even kno her name.so help me out ladies. how should i approach myself? how would you want to be approached?

2006-10-16 05:41:29 · 4 answers · asked by bigboicj08 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have lived with my boyfriend for about 1 month now and I love it. One problem. I have had a lot of problems with jobs and now that im pregnant it is harder to find a job cause no one wants to hire a preg. woman right? Dr appts., classes, and def sickness. So i havent worked and i havent brought in any money. he has been angry and i didnt get my check from my last job, they ****** me over and i cant get it. he is going to be SO mad and im scared he will make me leave. im tyring and i do other stuff like ALL the cooking cleaning laundry errands, and im ok with that. hes not. he has been on me about working and im stressin alot! doc said it wasnt good, its our first child and i want things to go well i feel im a burden to him and ever since i moved up here i have ****** things up...am i a burden, or is it all in my head? BE HONEST. Tell me what you think.

2006-10-16 05:41:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 05:41:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-16 05:39:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my aunt is 38 years old and she still runs around with lovebites on her neck and below her neck, and she has no shame at all. Should I be embaressed or should I just let it go.

2006-10-16 05:37:57 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

heres the deal i have 2 sons both identical twins named jake and jack and they just started school about 6 weeks ago well anyways to make a long story short they both got indefinitly suspended for deficating all over the princeples office while he was away how should i punish them i dont know and no other schools will enroll them their known as the deficators all around town what should i do

2006-10-16 05:36:12 · 8 answers · asked by tom 2 in Family

my boyfriend and i have a healthy sex life, to start out. but i have caught him looking at stuff on the internet quite a bit lately. i know he is faithful, he works hard and goes to school and comes home. but lately it has been a lot, and even though he knows it bothers me wont stop him. he says he will stop, but i keep catching him. and he looks at bikini models, not porn, and gets off on it. is this acceptable? is it a red flag? what do i do?

2006-10-16 05:34:38 · 24 answers · asked by yankeesarethechamps 2 in Singles & Dating

my life long mate or wife has been having way to many self pity parties for and about herself, time for this to end, we have been going thru some ups and down for the last 3 years, now she wants everybody to, feel sorry for her, almost on a daily basis, gotten to point sometimes dont want to be around,same ole stuff all the time, maybe just worded different, any advice would be most helpfull

2006-10-16 05:33:49 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She will be 21 months by Christmas

2006-10-16 05:33:39 · 7 answers · asked by Rachel M 3 in Family

I will just let you read the e-mail:

Dear Trisha,
I am going to confess to a lot of things on this letter that I may not want to but I think you should know the truth about.

The whole story about renee and cheating on me was not a complete lie. It really did happen but like a year ago and I am still pissed about it. I don't know why I even liedto you about that to you.

The whole thing about me thinking your a slut and a lier was me pissed at you and writing something that now I will always regert from now on. I was reading through your profile and I was connecting things in my head about you and a guy named Alex on your profile. Sat. at your work I asked you about luch on Monday and you said that you would email me about it. then on Sunday you asked alex what he was doing for Monday and then you email me 15 min. later saying that you are starting a diet today so you would let me know about the luch thing. I wrote back saying that some plannes have just arissen a

2006-10-16 05:32:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he always wants to give me stuff but i always say no should i take it or no.

2006-10-16 05:32:22 · 15 answers · asked by fenkell_girl 2 in Singles & Dating

For the first time in my life I have two men asking me out at the same time I'm currently getting divorced and I have two kids, one of them is a person I worked with nearly 10 years ago, who was widowed a few years ago with a young daughter, he has a kind face and he makes me laugh every minute of the day, the other is a bachelor who we share hobbies and interests, have interlectual conversations, but I don't find him attractive in anyway?

Which is better in a relationship, interlectual conversations or fun, family and romance?

2006-10-16 05:31:39 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He NEVER wants to get up in the morning and go, I don't know what to do. He stayed home today, said he is "sick". I don't believe him. He is behind on homework.

2006-10-16 05:29:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been single for 10 months and I am not in a rush to get a in a relationship. However, there are some guys that I find interesting.... But when I start talking to them, most of them are either taken, gay are totally not interested! On the other hand, I seem to attract guys which I don't want anything to do with (not even friends...) I am doing something wrong? And no I am not short, fat, and ugly girl; just plain "normal"...
Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks!

2006-10-16 05:29:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my husband. We fuss and fight so much that I find myself not wanting to be with him anymore. I hate the thought of divorce, but I am so unhappy. He is so mean to me, disrepectful, and lies. All these things have caused me to find myself wanting out. We have 2 young children and he has just found out he's going to have to have surgery and will not be able to work for 6 months. He has never provided for our family and now I am going to have to fully support us. And I don't think he deserves my support. He does a lot of stuff that bothers me: ie our son has asthema and I cannot get my husband to stop smoking in the house; i hate how fast he drives with me and the kids in the cars and when i ask him to slow down he is very rude to me. He says I nag all the time and that I am a b*tch, but I am just trying to get him to grow up. I want something better in my life and my kids' lives. What do I do?

2006-10-16 05:29:16 · 33 answers · asked by bamagrits84 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my girlfriend been together for 2 1/2 years , and we have a son together. we broke up and she is living with her brother, we broke up because she was talking to other guys without telling and she would hide, and got back together. Now she gets upset because i go out with my friends, i do spend time with her, now wat can i do?

2006-10-16 05:29:04 · 7 answers · asked by savage_linx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I got dumped last saturday and its been a week since we talked so I figured he was done with me. Well yesterday he sent me 5 text messages and all about what I was doing any plans
and all. Then last nite he calls me and talks about everything says he's been doing alot of thinking and soul searching. When we're talking he's acting like everything is fine and we're on great terms.
Whats up??

2006-10-16 05:28:43 · 16 answers · asked by Blondie<3 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 05:28:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-16 05:27:49 · 12 answers · asked by phyllis_gene_levy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't get it? Is it the McDonald's incident? Could it be that thing with the midgets? I APOLIGIZED to her mother! I just don't understand. It's always rat poison in the coffee, or I'm ducking axes or no neck hitmen. I'm starting to wonder if this relationship is worth it. You would think that a woman would be able to forgive 6 months of Physical Therapy.

2006-10-16 05:26:13 · 30 answers · asked by TheOneVersion2.0 1 in Singles & Dating

there are many types of men and women out there what type would you like to awake every morning too and if you had a choices what race would this man be?

2006-10-16 05:25:49 · 19 answers · asked by annjilena 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My legal residence is the state of Illinois.
We want to know where to begin and what our options are.

2006-10-16 05:25:07 · 8 answers · asked by helphimadopt 1 in Family