2006-10-16 05:45:17 · 13 answers · asked by Opeyemi Oyebade 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Love has no condition. Marriage or not, doesn't stop it a bit! The question is, why can't you marry this person?
2006-10-16 05:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Zooya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. There are many forms of love. I still love my son's father even though we are not together anymore, but I'm not in love with him. It is possible to love someone without being in love with them. If you do not wish to marry them, don't. Just be sure to let them know the reason/s you don't want to marry, and the love you feel for them.
2006-10-16 12:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by AKR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck, yeah -- you're likely to love a whole raft of people over your lifetime, and you don't ask to feel the way you do - you just do.
Thing is, then you have to decide what to do about it. If you can love this person (and there are a lot of ways to love someone - are you sure you're not talking about infatuation, or lust? It's good to be sure) in such a way that you care about him/her - want the best for that person, enjoy his/her company, but that's it, then you've got a good friendship going.
If not, if there's infatuation/romantic urgings involved, and it can't go anywhere, then spare both of you a lot of grief and practice avoidance - keep as much distance between you and that person as possible. If you encounter him/her, be polite, but not overly friendly, as urging any closer relationship will hurt, and issue a written invitation to Trouble.
But don't beat yourself up for loving someone - that just means you can appreciate his/her good qualities. Right or Wrong comes into it depending on what you decide to do about loving, not in loving itself. Good luck!
2006-10-16 12:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Love Never Fails..dum dum..why cant you marry..are you ruled by others..dont listen to peculiar people ..be a free spirit take chances that lead to different avenues..its called LIVING!!!!
2006-10-16 12:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
2006-10-16 12:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's possible but why would you want to
2006-10-16 12:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would be the problem....if you love someone and they love you, why not look at a life with them?
2006-10-16 12:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by echolily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes as hurtful as it sounds it can be.
2006-10-16 12:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can, but it doesn't mean they have to love you back. it is hurtful, but it does happen
2006-10-16 12:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why u cannot mary? it's possible if u really prepare the consequences....u'll not be with them forever.
2006-10-16 12:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by ^Daphne^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋