Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

okay so I really like this guy, at my school, but we are both going to different schools next year, and i cant tell if he likes me its kinda a mystery, but i really want him to ask me out before we both go to differnt schools, i just don't want us to loose touch with each other next year, so how do i make this work? i need to find out if he likes me but how, ahhh, times running out! help please, thanks!

2006-10-16 06:27:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont have any children

2006-10-16 06:27:17 · 25 answers · asked by the star fairy 2 in Family

giving her too much responsibility was like a prick of a thorn. he had been trying to keep from rushing headlong into taking too much responsibillity at once. the result had beena long series of disagreement.She did not have the decensy to lett one dispute finish before she began another

2006-10-16 06:26:27 · 2 answers · asked by marsh 1 in Family

my friend carson is fun to be with, but it bugs me how she pictures life. she thinks that god believes we're all idiots, and we waste life and then go to hell. she seems sorta dissapointed because of these thoughts she has. i've been trying lately to make her believe what i believe, that we will go to heaven and life is great to enjoy. she never believes me, no matter how much i try to persuade her. my parents, my other friends, my teachers, my preist, and a few others think my theories could really be possible, but why doesn't carson think the same? i sound like a know it all, but these are just thoughts, and i'm trying to get carson happier about the experience of life and look forward to the afterlife with god. i feel guilty about it, though. and sometimes, when i try to make her think i agree with her now, i say "your right. my ideas are stupid" and she just says, "yep. i think logical, and you...dont." other times, i actually start beliving her becuz it could happen her way. idk.

2006-10-16 06:25:33 · 3 answers · asked by Me Being Me 4 in Friends

2006-10-16 06:24:38 · 8 answers · asked by Samantha or Sam 1 in Friends

This concerns Asian Female/white male hypocrisy:

Asian American females often assert that Asian males are intolerant of Asian female/white male interracial relationships yet the truth is that any intolerance with Asian interracial relationships exists with white males who support Asian female/White male relationships yet denounce Asian male/white female relationships or any relationship involving white females and nonwhite males in general. Not only do white males have a history of violence and prohibition against these kinds of relationships but they have shown their discontent of these relationships through violence, laws that inhibit these relationships and in modern times divergent depictions of support for white males in interracial relationships and disapproval of Asian males in relationships with white females and any relationships of nonwhite males with white females in general.

Asian females do not have the right to question Asian male tolerance towards Asian female interracial relationships with white males as Asian males have been more than tolerant with these kinds of relationships probably to a fault. The fact that there aren't news stories about Asian males acting disapprovingly towards Af/WM relationships by spitting, punching, verbally abusing or trying to physically or socially inhibit these relationships prove that Asian males are more decent guys than white guys when it comes to these kinds of relationships. White males have had a history of inhibiting their women from having relationships with nonwhite males even to this day through violence, passing of laws, social and media conditioning and other despicable acts of intolerance.

In modern times, white males are prevented from committing racist and hypocritical actions to prevent nonwhite male unions with white females by law, yet these racist and hypocritical sentiments are shown through social disapproval and media disapproval of nonwhite males with white females and support for white male/nonwhite female relationships. This includes violent and threatening actions shown to relationships between nonwhite males and white women.

If white males were given the power, they would make every effort to inhibit relationships between white women and nonwhite males. In modern times, the only real way the white male can control interracial relationships is to manipulate images in the media hoping that these images would shield white women from interracial relationships with nonwhite males and if possible promote nonwhite female relationships with white males.

It's difficult for white males to manipulate the black and Hispanic community in this regard because their population sizes are too large and because they have political and social influence that Asians do not have. Blacks in this country have the NAACP, Nation of Islam, Bloods and Crips street gangs to defend against white media denigration and manipulation of their people. If they can't influence the media to control their image through politics, they can thug their way to make sure that their images are portrayed correctly. Hispanic groups have a huge population base with bordering nations which minimizes them from the negative effects of the American media. A majority of them keep true to their identity which makes it hard for the media to control their social patterns.

Asian people neither have a large population size in this country nor do they have any prominent social or political groups that can defend against the negative manipulation of the white media which allows whites to divide and manipulate Asian Americans. They have made Asian female interracial relationships with white males acceptable yet denounce any unions between Asian males and white females. Though this hasn't stopped Asian male interracial relationships with white females, they are doing their best to make sure that Asian males have a hard time with these relationships.

Asian women are deserving of the "sell out" moniker not because they're in interracial relationship with white males but because even though they know that white males have a history of racist hypocritical patterns when it comes to Asian interracial relationships, they see no reason to question this hypocrisy yet finds it easy to blame Asian males to boaster their hypocritical behavior.

Asian females do not have the right to question Asian guys for questioning their interracial relationships when white males have had a history of making it illegal and in the present time denouncing Asian male relationships with white females. It is because of the Asian female's unquestionable acceptance of white male hypocrisy and racist pattern which includes constant deriding of Asian males to support their relationships that they are worthy of the sell out moniker from Asian males and everybody else who’s familiar the meaning of word "decency."

2006-10-16 06:24:14 · 9 answers · asked by sidewinder45 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

lets hypothetiacally that we were in a relation ship and you suggested to get a little wild in the bed we try bondage and i said sure why not you only live once so i tie you to the bed handcuff your hands behind your back blindfold you and put on one of those ball gags i believe they are called and after you were tied up i just left the house for lets say 24 hours and left you tied up like that also for 24 hours upon my immanate return and once you were unbound would you be angry? very displeased in my actions? how would you react to my haphazard behavior? and dont forget these questions are for entertainment purposes only no one was harmed in the making of these questions they are hypothetical statements used to gauge the female perspective thank you one and all who answer this question

2006-10-16 06:23:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How come daddy helped my cousin Gangsta B*tch Barbie get an Escalade??? What does she have that I dont besides the fact that she is more flexible???? HUH????? ITS JUST NOT FAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-16 06:22:51 · 25 answers · asked by Trailer Trash Barbie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 06:22:38 · 11 answers · asked by ABCD 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

were planning our wedding for next year...but which month should we choose???

2006-10-16 06:22:26 · 19 answers · asked by anne 1 in Weddings

begins to confide in you the things that please her sexually? I know it means she might think of me that way, but I'm not just in it for that. It is understood the physical won't happen until we know each other better. Is this some kind of tease or a way of peaking my interest? What gives?

2006-10-16 06:22:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you feel about people that post situations about others that deal with private issues, just because someone works in the healthcare field does not give them the right to post details, they should have the common decency not to post the particulars about the patients they deal with...

2006-10-16 06:21:54 · 13 answers · asked by Pale 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

and i want to continue i think its because i haven't thougt about girls that much, you know its best if i work then play education comes before anything else in life, so thats why ive decided to finsih school then go after a girl, iam i doing the right thing?

2006-10-16 06:20:32 · 11 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 06:19:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-16 06:19:02 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Am I wrong for not wanting all these girls to call my husband (soon to be ex)? We were going to try and work things out but I just don't trust him. Is it insecurities or instincts? What would you do if your husband always had girls calling him? He says that they are just friends. Some are 20 years old even. 12 year difference in age.

2006-10-16 06:18:50 · 31 answers · asked by Just Because 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with my best friend, but she's going out with someone already. Should I ask her out while she's still going out with him and see if she will choose me over her boyfriend or wait for them to break up (if they ever will...)

2006-10-16 06:17:48 · 16 answers · asked by tigert92 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf/husband watches porn and it makes me feel bad/sad/degraded...............
i say so what? i enjoy watching it-preferably with a partner-but anyway, its called sexual stimulation. How many other women like porn??
cause i am sick of the women that get so worked up over it.
And for strip clubs-i go once a year and have a blast-wouldn't mind bf going to that either, can cheat anywhere-if thats your fear.

2006-10-16 06:17:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my friends got into a fight, and they all seem mad at me still. they just igonre me, and act like im worthless? do i try to be their friend again? or do i find better ones?

2006-10-16 06:16:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If a guy has kissed his gf, had a very intense affair , used to hug her, embrace her breasts...loved her....but on seeing her with another guy abused her. then stopped contacting her...n told her tht he cant believe n trust her in this life when the girl told her a 100 times tht he is the only guy in her life n she loved him. Bhen he started sending text mesgs tht she is a cheap girl . the girl got so upset tht she sent a text mesg tht she doesnt hav any feelings for him, doesnt miss him, he isnt the guy she wanted to be with ...the guy replied back.."ok" ...WILL THE GUY FORGET HER N LEAVE HER OR WILL HE CONTACT HER AFTER SOME DAYS??? DOES HE LOVE HER?? CAN GUYS FORGET THT EASILY?? WHAT SHOULD THE GIRL DO AS SHE WANTS HIM BACK COZ SHE LOVES HIM A LOT

2006-10-16 06:16:04 · 6 answers · asked by duck 1 in Singles & Dating

lets say, there's a really cute, smart & nice girl but she has disability in walking ... would u ever ask her on a date?

honest answers only ok ... please explain why is it a YES or a NO!

2006-10-16 06:15:41 · 16 answers · asked by misspinkvodka 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 06:15:17 · 16 answers · asked by southernlane62301 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 06:14:45 · 7 answers · asked by thinkbalckladey 1 in Singles & Dating

My problems are my dad walked in on me making out with my girlfriend my best friend hates that i got the girl he liked and my dad said he hate me what should i do

2006-10-16 06:14:15 · 6 answers · asked by Tyler 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

iv been married almost 2 years we have a baby together we always argue but we love each other. last year it was worse we argued alot i used to chuck him out cause i couldnt take the stress he was giving me he used 2 stay out and come the next day this went on and on he started making excusess to argue so he could storm out every weekend i started getting suspitious he changed alot towards me he was very aggressive each time he was out his phone was switched off. i got hold of his friends num. when i called i found out he went clubbing when he came home we argued bad he swore it was a 1off and that he would neva go again i nevabelieaved him so i called his friend and asked they went 4 times behind my back places where he went wen he was single where dirty cheap girls go i confronted him said u lied 2 me he said only so he wont lose me ever seens iv been suspitious if he cheated on me i spoke 2 his friend on msn said hav u told her bout the girls wot we been up he said imnot stupid 2 say

2006-10-16 06:13:46 · 16 answers · asked by erin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I Know His Name And His Wifes. Please HELP
Thanks

2006-10-16 06:13:03 · 13 answers · asked by derren_sally 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you prefer for christmas..
a top digital camera or a mp3 player??
what would you prefer??
i have narrowed it down to these 2 for my boyfriend, and help will be appreciated! :o)
Thanks alot ;o)
xXx

2006-10-16 06:12:46 · 11 answers · asked by Fader's Girl 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would really appreciate it if i get some responses.

2006-10-16 06:12:31 · 4 answers · asked by SHORTY 1 in Friends

I was wondering where a good romantic hotel in dublin is? i have done some research but does anyone have any advice or secrets about Dublin? Any and all information is greatly appreciated!

2006-10-16 06:12:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband stopped smoking over a year ago, but recently I found receipts for cigs and my son told me that he saw him smoking the other day. When I questioned him about the receipts he told me that he bought them for one of the guys he worked with and I let it go (this was before my son told me about the smoking).

My question is...why would he hide that he's smoking again? It's not like I would be mad (I smoke to and yes I know its a very bad habit so no lectures please). It is his personal choice whether or not he smokes and as I smoke to so it would be hypocritical of me to say anything about it. What irritates me is that he lied about the receipts and the fact that he's hiding it.

2006-10-16 06:12:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce