okay so I really like this guy, at my school, but we are both going to different schools next year, and i cant tell if he likes me its kinda a mystery, but i really want him to ask me out before we both go to differnt schools, i just don't want us to loose touch with each other next year, so how do i make this work? i need to find out if he likes me but how, ahhh, times running out! help please, thanks!
2006-10-16 06:27:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask HIM out!! Dont wait on guys..they take FOREVER!!!
2006-10-16 06:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by taydorbuggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be one of those things that you always wonder about for the rest of your life. There's a chance that by going to separate schools next year that you wont see each other again, that is, unless you can strike up a relationship with him. You should take the chance and tell him that you like him. Ask him out! A strong woman isn't afraid to go after what she wants. Plus, a lot of really pretty girls don't get asked out because boys are afraid of the rejection. They just assume that the girl is too good for them or already has a boyfriend. So, you should go up to him and tell him that he seem very interesting and you'd like to get to know him better. Hand him your phone number and tell him to call you if he feels the same way. And give him a couple days to call because he might be busy one night, so don't freak out. Plus, if he ends up not liking you... you're going to different schools next year! It's not like he'll be around every corner. Out of sight out of mind, right?
2006-10-16 13:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should ask him if he wants to go get ice cream or something and when you have had a good talk and nothing has seemed awkward i would proceed to tell him in a very serious calm manner that you like him a lot and ask him how he feels about you after you have explained how you feel sufficiently
do NOT approach the whole ice cream bit unless he knows you and at least likes you as a friend.
if you barely know him or you get some indication that he doesn't even want you as a friend just leave it alone and you'll get over him quite quickly you'll see
2006-10-16 13:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Clark H. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok dear, do this the easy way, go up and talk to him. Or pass a note with your number on it and tell him to call ya. If he calls he is interested if he doesn't then that would prolly mean he wasn't. Or you could always pull the friend trick and get one of them to ask, they use to work for me, when I was in school. Good luck to ya!
2006-10-16 13:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not worth it. With the both of you going to different schools, it would never work out. Concentrate on building relationships with people closer to you.
2006-10-16 13:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of the 10 points...why don't you talk to him? Tell him how you feel? Why don't you ask him out? The answer is really right there in front of you. Good luck.
2006-10-16 13:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty simple really, just ask for a phone# and also an e-mail address. Oh, and if this person is as socially dense as me, maybe ask him out for a coffee, or something similarly innocent.
2006-10-16 13:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him, it's as easy as that. you can't have any little games or wait. If you like him go for it, espcially if you're switching schools. Just take a deep breath and jump in.
2006-10-16 13:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you can ask some of his friends if he likes you or there are signals like eye contact.. Does he look at you alot?
Do not askk him out ususally boys ask out!
Good luck now...
2006-10-16 13:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to find out is through his eyes, look at his eyes when he talks to you, look at his body language as well. Sometime when dealing with people it is more about what they don't say that matters...
2006-10-16 13:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him girl!!. it's not going to work out any way but ask him asap.
At lease you have a happy memory once with him.
2006-10-16 13:32:12 · answer #11 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋