me and my friends got into a fight, and they all seem mad at me still. they just igonre me, and act like im worthless? do i try to be their friend again? or do i find better ones?
2006-10-16 06:16:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like your so-called friends need to be replaced. I'm in my mid 20's and STILL have the SAME friends I had since I was in middle school. Real friends don't treat their friends like they are worthless or ignore them. I don't know what you did to get them to act this way but whatever it was, if they love you like a real friend should then they should learn to forgive you.
Don't waste your time with girls that only pretend to be your friend when its convenient for them. I see my friends as my sisters. I only have a handful, but that's how you know they are REAL!
Good luck! :)
2006-10-16 09:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends, if you were right then forget them. Give them time to think about where you had problems. If it was something stupid then sometimes you got to be the first to apologize. When you make the first move sometimes they end up apologizing right with you. As you get older you weed out the fake friends and real friends. Then there are the friends that you just have to learn to agree to disagree. Meaning that you have your opinion and they have theirs and neither of you will change your opinion. Learn to not fall out over disagreeing learn to say well we disagree and say case close then change the subject. It works and you will still have your friend.
2006-10-16 06:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU GO TO YOUR FRIENDS AND LET THEM KNOW THAT WHATEVER REASON THEY ARE STILL MAD AT YOU FOR TAKE IT TO GOD IN PRAYER AND LET GOOD FIX THE PROBLEM. IF THEY WANT TO HAVE AN UNFORGIVEN HEART THEN THIS IS NOT WHERE YOU SHOULD BE. AND YOU CAN HAVE A BETTER LIFE WITH GOD BEING YOUR FRIEND IF THEY CAN'T BE MORE EXCEPTING. TELL THEM JUST THAT AND YOU WILL FIND OUT IF THEY WERE YOUR TRUE FRIENDS ANYWAY. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS....REMEMBER ID DON'T ANYONE ELSE LOVE YOU GOD LOVES YOU BEST AND IS THE BEST FRIEND ANY ONE COULD EVER HAVE.
2006-10-16 06:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by O.E.S. Lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to each friend on their own, tell them how sorry you are and how much their friendship means to you then say you understand if they don't want to be your friend anymore then walk away and leave it at that. They will think about what you have said and should forget about the row and get back to normal.
If they don't want to know after your apology then you'll have to put it to experience and make new friends
2006-10-16 06:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have already appologized and all, and they are still mad at you, that is their issue, not yours.But if you havent, then say sorry for whatever.....
In that case, you need to go out and find some cool friends. Good Luck.
2006-10-16 06:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to dump the other ones and start a new bunch tells me you can not be over 12-13yrs. so dump the bunch and get a new group, just remember always take a step up when making choices. Good luck
2006-10-16 06:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by uwantfacts 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be your own friend and do like the good book says ...be nice to those that are on your back and treating you less than you are and in turn you are the bigger person and in the long run youll find that your only true friend is GOD and yourself for in those two you can find true happiness .
2006-10-16 06:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by whatisthisallabout? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry can't help cause i've never fought with any of my friends although we do have disagreements sometimes but everyone are entitle to opinions cause we are adults and we handle things the way adults handle and we respect one another
2006-10-16 07:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to try and figure out what u did that has made them angry and then either change your ways or yes find a new group of friends where whatever u did won't make them angry
2006-10-16 06:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell them how they are making you feel and if they still don't seem to care, find new ones. You owe it to yourself at least to get in the last word with them.
2006-10-16 06:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by boredatwork 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋