Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

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2006-10-16 06:12:07 · 3 answers · asked by jonesreport.com 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner & I go to counceling to try & get over past issues & get back together, She moved out over 6 months ago, Yesterday she sent me a real nice Secret Love Letter greeting card over the internet & then turned around & put her profile on the internet. What do you make of this? I fell like counceling is a game & she is not honest or sincere about it.

2006-10-16 06:12:04 · 3 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 06:11:27 · 10 answers · asked by dreamy 5 in Singles & Dating

After a big fight, what is the best way to make up? My girlfriend is stressed out to the max with her ex and it is causing trouble with us. How do I assure her I am not going to just pack up and go? How do I end this fight when its over nothing?

2006-10-16 06:10:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and they freaked out about it? Or how did they respond?

2006-10-16 06:09:31 · 9 answers · asked by MiZmeL 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf (in the beginning) was always kissing me, we had sex all the time (twice a day smtimes) and slowly his interest has peetered (pardon the pun) off to the extent of null & void.I bring it up occasionally and we'll talk, but it always seems to be something. His extra pounds, he's tired, sick...I know he loves me tremendously (that's NOT the issue).He's NOT having an affair (I'd wager my first born on that truth).If he's depressed, but not to the point of sleeping all day and not curled up in a ball in the corner(you've heard of walking pneumonia, right?) I guess I need encouragment to hang in there. I have already walked away from my last two marriages when in hinds-sight, I could've stuck it out. I want to see the rewards for standing by someone thru their troubles without my own needs causing me to run into the arms of someone else who won't meet them all either. I've never had a bf or hubby who did not think I was all that & a bag of chips!This is new for me.

2006-10-16 06:09:04 · 18 answers · asked by Barbie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm really having a difficult time dealing with the end of a relationship and i NEED to move on so badly. What do you do that helps?

2006-10-16 06:08:59 · 16 answers · asked by goddess1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have just enrolled my children (one and four )in a franchise daycare facility, and will be going back to work soon. My one year old needs more attention and love, and I'm not feeling quite right about this placement. Please help!

2006-10-16 06:08:47 · 1 answers · asked by nicole f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

cheaping out. I had my brother deliver my birthday present to my mother because he was going over there anyway. She says it's more fun to get it from a delivery guy? Is this true? Geez, I thought saving $40 was a good thing.

2006-10-16 06:07:37 · 27 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If you do what you doing?

2006-10-16 06:06:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-16 06:06:32 · 15 answers · asked by Kristin 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy little over a week ago. He shows up at my house 3 days later (not sure how he found my house???) to get my phone # coz it didn't save in his phone.

Well, since then, this pshyco showed up 2 more times (1 time I wasn't there, next time I was - he said same reason with the phone#).

Then he shows up again, UNINVITED and I reluctantly invited him into my home and he left about 40 minutes later. As he was leaving, I told him how it drives me nuts when people show up at my house uninvited (although that doesn't apply to close friends/neighbors - only people I don't know well). He said, that's fine, I will call ahead from now on. Well he called 3 times in a row Saturday night but I didn't answer. 10 Minutes later, he shows up at my door. I again, reluctantly invite him in. I practically ignore him the whole time as I was piss**d off that he showed up again. uninvited. I told him again, not to do that.

How do I drop this guy gracefully. He is so clueless! Thanks

2006-10-16 06:06:29 · 18 answers · asked by bewildered102 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i am living in South Africa and i don't know with u guys out there but here in SA the new thing is to have a Sugar Daddy and the whole idea around it is to spend spend spend, and then he sleeps with you. i personally think its disgusting but what do u guys think and what are the trends in your countries regarding having sugar Daddies.

2006-10-16 06:06:27 · 13 answers · asked by Thobie 3 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend and she has headlice. she has a lot of nit eggs and a few nits. we have told her about them (because we thought it was the best to let her know) but she doesn't seem to have done anything about them for 3 or 4 weeks now and its getting annoying. i seriously DO not want to catch them so is there anything other than nit lotion i can put on my hair to stop me catching these little buggers? thanx.

2006-10-16 06:05:41 · 23 answers · asked by honey 2 in Friends

If you feel your boyfriend or girlfriend is lying to you, do you have the right to snoop in their email, mail, cell phone etc to find the truth. Are you justified if you find out they have been lying to you??? Is it okay to protect yourself, when you have talked to them, and they deny any accusations, but you find out they have lied??? Is it ever okay to lie (you know those "innocent" little white lies ie. he may not be cheating on you but he says he hasn't talked to some girl, which is a lie~they just emailed or talked to each other on the phone, while it seems innocent he/she is lying so as not to upset the other person.

2006-10-16 06:05:06 · 8 answers · asked by fancyfree 2 in Singles & Dating

well whitch do i take i like my truck alot its a Ford Lightning 1995 red and also a 1998 dark blue ford mustang GT and the gas are both the same too and i dont know what to take sum times yup ok

2006-10-16 06:04:16 · 11 answers · asked by MUSTANG SALEEN 281 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband is talking with his ex girlfriend say he dont know if he want to stay in the marrage with me but that he love me i just need a frend to talk to

2006-10-16 06:03:22 · 25 answers · asked by mandyp66 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mohamad is justified by his folowers for marryin his favorite wife at 40 years old who was 9 years old! sico

yet if he found out she was an unbeliever according to the koran he would have a higher place in heaven killing her- the spirit spoke to mohamad and told him "Prophet! make war on the unblievers."

Jesus says to love your enemies-1 Peter 3 "If your mate is an unbeliever, dwell with them, and by your actions win them to me."

Jesus said, exept you repent to me and be born again, you can not see the kingdom of heaven."

who is right Mohamad or Jesus-or are they both wrong -they cant be both right!

2006-10-16 06:03:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-16 06:03:08 · 15 answers · asked by Dustin Schneider 1 in Singles & Dating

He gave me his password to check something on e-bay. I used it & peeked at his e-mail (big invasion of privacy, yes, I sure do know that) I found out that he's still getting e-mail from other women he's met on dating sites & responding to them - refers to himself as single, makes no mention of a new g/f, but mentions his ex-wife. I'm crushed, I feel physically ill about this. Does this mean he's cheating on me - or looking for someone else? Of course, I can't confront him with what I know - since I wasn't supposed to
know about it. Now what do I do? Distance myself from him? Dump him before he can dump me? Pretend I know nothing & go on as before? Would appreciate advice - serious answers, please.

2006-10-16 06:02:55 · 25 answers · asked by pumpkin 6 in Singles & Dating

we've been dating for 5 months..and we just recently broke up..we remained good friends but this randomGUY is saying i selpt with him, while i was with my ex...now he didnt beliveme n said all this crap..about loving me when it was a lie n bringing me into his life n family...he hasnt found out it was a lie yet..but trust it is and he is already sorry, because i havent been talking to him at all.. he came over my house last night when my father was at work, and said he was going to do somthign stupid n hurtful to himself when he left...so i had him spend the night..when my dad came homehe found him hiding and now im kicked out of my house n i dont know what to say to anyone.i dont have a mom..she lives in FL and we dont talk..the only person i do have is my dad..but he doesntwant me? should i stop talking to my ex altogether.because with him around in total i have made some pretty bad decisions im in my senior year..2nd month n i missed 4days of school, and my father is not happy @all

2006-10-16 06:02:27 · 11 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how is love blind? If so how is it we know when we are in love.
tricky tricky!

2006-10-16 06:02:24 · 20 answers · asked by Jade H 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 06:02:13 · 6 answers · asked by j 3 in Weddings

I'm in college & I went home this weekend. All she did while I was there was talk to him on the phone in her bedroom with the door shut and IM him on her computer. I have four younger siblings, and she's neglecting them because of this; I'm very worried about them. She rarely pays attention to them--things like feeding them, washing their clothes, etc. The youngest is 11. She's divorced (18 mo).
I'm especially worried because this guy seems very jealous, and I know that's an early sign of abuse. I picked up the phone while they were talking Saturday, and I heard him laugh at her when she got angry/upset about something. He always wants to know who she's talking to or what internet sites she's on. She doesn't know I listened to them on the phone; I lied when she asked because I'm scared of her. She doesn't listen to me, even if I speak calmly. She blows up in my face, won't let me come over and see my siblings. I can't talk to her about it; what can I do? I'm angry & scared.

2006-10-16 06:02:08 · 10 answers · asked by kacey 5 in Family

I am 22, and my boyfriend of over one year is 27. We are planning on getting married very soon. I love him so much and honor him as a man. But he worries about money A LOT!! I am still in college, and since we want to have children before I hit thirty or so, we are determined that I finish soon. So I have to work part time, and that just covers my bills. So he gets stuck with rent and etc. He has a masters and a good job, but it still puts strain on him. Plus, we want to move to Tx (from CA) and buy a home that we can raise our children in (4+ bedrooms). I still have about two years of school left. I'll have my BA in Market & Advertising. And then I'll have only a few years to get estabilished before we have kids. Then go back for my masters and continue working. It seems like a long string of waiting and planning. Is this typical?? Will this eventually lead to arguments and stress?? Help!!

2006-10-16 06:02:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-16 06:01:49 · 9 answers · asked by La Femme 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in the market to buy a mattress. Money is not really an issue. I am going for durability, and somthing really comfortable. I hat e pushy sales people and need to be educated a little about the products . I f you know any stores , brands or bed names it would be really helpfull. I live in the LA area. Thanks.

2006-10-16 06:01:38 · 3 answers · asked by bcrawford1980 2 in Family

The boyfriend lives in Tx and I live in Wis. We communicate via the internet and he phones me almost everyday. He has loved me for 40 yrs but is also married. His wife found out about us and thinks we are no longer communicating. My husband is the kind that would kill if he found out. I do not love him anymore and I want out and my love and I want to be together. I am 57, he is 59. The relationship with my boyfriend has gone on for 2 yrs and we haven't seen each other for a year. Please help me out here and let me know what you think.

2006-10-16 06:01:28 · 28 answers · asked by Cowgirl Q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

alright....im 26 yrs old and there's a woman that im more or less crazy about.... we've hung out and she's the kind of woman that more or less attracts men of all ages. Well she turning 48 and we,ve kissed and slept together but thats it..... no sex. she tells me how attracted she is to me but how she just wishes i was older and if i were how she love to be with me. Obvisiously i can't do anything bout my age, anyway she has a birthday coming up in a couple weeks. So i was hoping for some ideas on what I could get her for her birthday. Something thats sweet and shows her i care but nothing that too extreme though.... i would love to her your idea women so please get back...... i appreciate it

2006-10-16 06:01:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my guy for about a year and some..in the beginning it was all about lets take it slow, I am not ready let just give it time...I always felt like he was doing something or someone..I have been checking his voicemails for a few months now..I heard two message from two different girls or it might be the same person (not sure). what i gather from the first message is that he had a relationship with her or he still might but doesnt really pay her attention the other girl buys him stuff and I think she may work in the same area as us (my boyfriend and I work in the same building). he tells me that he is not cheating, I am the only one, he is no doing anything wrong (no I did not tell him what I found)
it is hard for me to continue like this when I know for a fact that he might be doing something but don't have enough evidence as yet...
what should I do...HELP

2006-10-16 06:00:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating