Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

She claims that since I contribute no income and have a gambling problem that the account is off limits to me.
I think she's being a control freak but she keeps bringing up my gambling and drug problems. I say isn't a marriage about sharing? but she throws the whole "spending the rent on booze & prostitutes" incident back in my face, & that was like 8 months ago!
So, is it reasonable for me to steal her credit cards that she keeps in her moms house?

2006-10-16 05:24:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just to explain: I was wasted when this happened, and I've never done anything like this before. I've never had a one night stand till now..... and it was a HUGE mistake. I love my boyfriend; I was his first everything and we've been talking about getting married and spending the rest of our lives together. BTW, we are in a long-distance relationship right now. I'm so guilty, sad, and miserable. I've told him, and he is staying with me (thank goodness!), but I don't know what I can do to make things better. I'm not gonna drink anymore, or even party with guys at least for awhile......Please help.

2006-10-16 05:23:29 · 35 answers · asked by Amanda S 1 in Singles & Dating

and babysit my son so I can finish school. I am trying to work on my Masters, but haven't started yet because I got pregnant..I'm in no rush to get the degree because I have a great job and can wait a couple of more years ..I'm only 24 so I really don't mind. She is insiting on quitting and I really don't want her to. How do I convince her to keep working?

2006-10-16 05:23:13 · 6 answers · asked by Meda1nonly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

lets say hypothetically that we were in a relationship and you acme home and found me on the floor with your sister/mother/aunt/best female freind and i looked at you and said want to join us? how would you react to such a blatant disregard for the sanctity of or relationship? would you be angry? p*ssed off? or would you be like yes ill join you? thank you for your time you women are great you all should be worshipped like the goddess you are i really mean that thank you and have a pleasnt day!

2006-10-16 05:22:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hear some people keep a list of a string of people they have bedded..or do you remember?, Please tell me the number, and do you like the adventure. Are you adding on? What is your target? . I am just curious( Honest answers only)

2006-10-16 05:22:13 · 7 answers · asked by havemercy 2 in Friends

Theres this gurl i like in my classes. I've started sitting next 2 her and once i even gave her a teddy bear and i've been really nice 2 her without her acting diferent in any way. But in the last few days i've noticed that shes acting diferently around me even asking me if she could keep the pen she borrowed from me. When she says bye 2 me shes starting 2 say it in that i like u-ish tone. Has she picked up my signals and started 2 like me or is it just my imagination? (If u've already answered dont bother urself)

2006-10-16 05:21:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Celebrity to have sex with who would it be ? OK HERE'S THE KICKER It has to be someone that you wouldn't normally admit to wanting but secretly you want them, for me It's a Toss up Between Billy Bob Thorton and Bob Sagat.

2006-10-16 05:21:17 · 23 answers · asked by candidworker 5 in Singles & Dating

I have seen alot of "How do I get my bf to marry me?" questions today. So, how long does it take a man to know if he wants to marry his girlfriend or not? A month? A year? Two years? Does it make a difference if you live together? Just curious about your answers.

2006-10-16 05:20:46 · 17 answers · asked by Lotus 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm gonna try to ask this guy at work but dunno his name we only say hi to each other.

2006-10-16 05:20:30 · 12 answers · asked by LiL'BiNt 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm a guy but i truly wish to be a girl. all my friends are girls and we have so much fun together, shopping, hangin' out, just having fun. how do i let them know i really love being feminine and do you think they'll say it's ok. the other day they kidded me about doing a make-over with me and my heart just pounded so fast. i don't know if they were just kidding or if they thought that would be cool. thanks so much.

2006-10-16 05:20:16 · 13 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Friends

goodbye to him? Whats wrong with him? The girl cried all night!

2006-10-16 05:19:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 05:19:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it when you are going through a divorce as a result of your husband having an affair people are sympathetic and supportive. Then as soon as the divorce is final and you try and establish some sort of relationship with your ex for your kids sake people start looking at you as the bitter ex wife? People assume you are still trying to control his life when all you want to do is make sure your kids are okay. It is so frustrating and unfair!

What is the right amount of contact with your ex? I contact my ex only when I have to discuss things about our kids. But some weeks that can be often if there are things going on in school, sports, etc. Should I even worry about it and just focus on my children? How do you deal with your ex?

2006-10-16 05:18:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

true or false in your oppinion

2006-10-16 05:17:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I am just learning that my husband has a shady past. He owes a lot of people money that I did not know about and they are calling for it. We have even had our number changed and they still find out and keep calling. Should I try to pay them or let him handle this on his own.

2006-10-16 05:17:56 · 11 answers · asked by babydove1821 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

You have to choose just one choice not the 2 lolll ;)

2006-10-16 05:17:36 · 9 answers · asked by Nesrine 1 in Weddings

Didn't call, text or come to see me the whole past week that i have been recovering. We have been together for almost 6mo and he was pretty much living with me. No; how do you feel, do you need anything or are you ok. I have tried to talk to him and tell him it really hurt my feelings that he was being so unsympathetic but to no avail.

I don't really know what to do. He spent the night last night but I didn't feel 11:00 was the best time to talk about it so I left it alone.

What would you say?

2006-10-16 05:17:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

it can be anything, from personality to small things like you think girls are cute when they do "__________". please. i would love to know.

2006-10-16 05:17:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had to have emergency surgery 3 years ago which entailed me being cut open downwards from my bellybutton down to where my pubes start. There is a guy I really really like and I want to know if my scar which is fading a bit now, will turn him off? my previous boyfriend dumped me 'cos he said I was ugly, will I ever be able to have a loving boy/girl thing ever again - I'm 46 yrs old

2006-10-16 05:16:04 · 28 answers · asked by l 2 in Singles & Dating

And I'm going to have a baby (our second) for two months.
I'm 100% sure he's cheating on me.
I'm confused,I hate him and her.They both betrayed me.
What should I do?

2006-10-16 05:15:51 · 80 answers · asked by Madelain M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in love with my girlfriend, and we have been going out for about a year and a half, most of which was while i was at college. Right now i am a sophomore in college, and she is a freshman at a college nearby. I get to see her about once a week.

I really want to be single, as i havent been single yet in college, but i am still very in love with her. I dont know what to do. my brain wants me to be single, but my heart wants to be with her. I want to be single and explore that side of college life, but i am still in love with her and I dont know what to do. Stay with her, or go it solo? Give me some advice, or just get a few points by saying something stupid.

2006-10-16 05:15:32 · 11 answers · asked by John W 1 in Singles & Dating

Been with my girlfriend for over two years. She hangs out with ex boyfriends occasionally. Saturday night she went to her alma mater college for homecoming. I called her twice at night and she didn't call back. I called her in the morning and she called an hour later. A couple ex-boyfriends from college were around. She sees no reason for me to be annoyed that she didn't call me back. She calls me shady if I drive to the city and go out with a buddy and crash on his couch, and call and tell what I am doing, and call and talk to her before I crash on his couch. In past relationships she has overlapped, cheated etc. She still talks to one ex in particular and the d-bag moved close and tried to talk her into getting back with her. He conviently was at homecoming. Can someone tell me one reason to stay? By the way, a really attractive cool girl asked me out at the bar when she was away not returning my calls. That further messes up my thinking.

2006-10-16 05:15:27 · 1 answers · asked by orangecrate 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm going to hang out with an old friend of mine. things between us aren't the same as before. we were once close when one of our friend was alive. he held us together. once he died our friendship died away. now we are trying to make our friendship work again. his last wish was us to be friends forever. how can we?

2006-10-16 05:15:18 · 3 answers · asked by honey + biscuit 4 in Friends

Didn't call, text or come to see me the whole past week that i have been recovering. We have been together for almost 6mo and he was prety much living with me. No how do you feel, do you need anything or are you ok. I have tried to talk to him and tell him it really hurt my feelings that he was being so unsympathetic but to no avail.

I don't really know what to do. He spent the night last night but I didn't feel 11:00 was the best time to talk about it so I left it alone.

What would you say?

2006-10-16 05:14:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been out of an abusive relationship for over a year now and i still get scared when people argue, i think that it will go further then words, also i am scared that when i get back into a relationship with someone else that i will then be violent towards them, which i never was before (i used to fight back/defend myself with my ex that is).
my mind blanks most of it out, but parts pop up every now and then.
any help?

2006-10-16 05:14:18 · 6 answers · asked by jesie girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

READ MY PAST QUESTION!!!!!!!!!!..... How can i forget him ...I call him and he completely dosnt care .. i love him so much and i know i should move on but i dont know how... and it kills me .one day im fine one day i need him and i hate it ... he dosnt even think of me ? , how can a person forget everything in less than 1 month?

2006-10-16 05:13:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean come on people...quit being such P*SSIES!!!

2006-10-16 05:12:45 · 5 answers · asked by Father Martin Louis 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I are having a disagreement so we figured we would ask you guys. What time is best for a wedding....noon or 5 pm?

2006-10-16 05:12:36 · 25 answers · asked by faery1219 2 in Weddings

These two women are living with me and my nanny we do not get alone we stay fussing over the phone and water but every time we get into it they call martha when they fell they were right and it seems she get mad at me and i think she dont want me here because my mother died and now i live here and i am preagant and i really don't want to leave martha because i ve been living with her sence i was 6 mts and when she get mad at me i think its because i not here real child then when i miss school she tell me she don't want me inside all day but she let them sleep all day and she fell sorry for them because they have nowere elese to go.what should i do move out or stay in here and face the facts?

2006-10-16 05:12:18 · 6 answers · asked by smile030498 1 in Family

2006-10-16 05:11:43 · 2 answers · asked by cindy61892 2 in Marriage & Divorce