Am I crazy to think things are on the up and up?

Question

Been with my girlfriend for over two years. She hangs out with ex boyfriends occasionally. Saturday night she went to her alma mater college for homecoming. I called her twice at night and she didn't call back. I called her in the morning and she called an hour later. A couple ex-boyfriends from college were around. She sees no reason for me to be annoyed that she didn't call me back. She calls me shady if I drive to the city and go out with a buddy and crash on his couch, and call and tell what I am doing, and call and talk to her before I crash on his couch. In past relationships she has overlapped, cheated etc. She still talks to one ex in particular and the d-bag moved close and tried to talk her into getting back with her. He conviently was at homecoming. Can someone tell me one reason to stay? By the way, a really attractive cool girl asked me out at the bar when she was away not returning my calls. That further messes up my thinking.

Answer 1

"Girlfriend", "Boyfriend" it all BS. You are dating. There is NO REAL commitment there. Do you see yourself married to this woman, if not go have fun and date. There are no set social rules in dating. Many people start up new relationships before ending current ones. Its not good because they can become dependent on being in a relationship and not know how to be strong on their own.