Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

i've been with my girl for about seven months and it's been great for the most part. we never had any big problems until last week, and last week was horrible, but i think we've worked everything out. i feel like we're closer than ever now. see, when we finally made up on sunday night, we confessed our true feelings to each other for the first time. it took so long because we were both holding back out of fear of being hurt. i feel like we won't fight for a long time now, and our little talk really helped.
the problem is, i met this girl at work the other day, and i've been feeling a major pull from her. i don't even know her name, but i can't stop thinking about her. and i think she feels it too. what am i supposed to do? i've never had a problem like this before. it's not a sex thing either, it's just a really warm feeling i get from her. so why now? my girl and i just had a breakthrough, and i'm not afraid of committing or anything like that, so what's the deal?and why so intense?

2006-10-12 23:59:22 · 3 answers · asked by That Guy Drew 6 in Singles & Dating

If anyone could answer

2006-10-12 23:58:53 · 1 answers · asked by sudhir k 1 in Friends

my brother is 22yrs old, living in zimbabwe we have no other family in zimbabwe my older sister and i live in uk both born here and he was born in zimbabwe our older brother passed away last year and he was refused entry for his funeral we havent seen him for three years and we want him to come and visit, if anyone knows how we go about applying please let us know thank you

2006-10-12 23:56:08 · 2 answers · asked by bannister 1 in Family

i have begun to like my faculty.i admire his way of teaching, his dressing,all his activities.i have not talked with him ,not even once (not even to clear my doubts in the subject).
but i find myself talking abt him with my friends most of the time.is something wrong with me?i dont really know much about him.

2006-10-12 23:54:32 · 12 answers · asked by dont_kknow 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 23:54:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In all aspects, including sex

2006-10-12 23:53:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I joined both and they have wasted my money . I will have to sue them. They lie to you making promises of all the people you will meet and then after you jopin, you get basically no or hardly
any dates. Any one with any expericenes with these 2
servieces, pleas write....

2006-10-12 23:53:17 · 4 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Singles & Dating

the other day i found an email on his msn sayin that he had a new next door neighbour and he was gonna have sex with her because i was away i am only able to see him on weekends at the moment.
When i confronted him he said it was a wind up because he new i would go look and then he had a go at me for looking at his emails dont no wot to do or think help

2006-10-12 23:52:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am considered to be a very diirty girl............ but the truth of it is................well.......thats for me to know.................

Any suggestions........... I'm open to offers.............

2006-10-12 23:52:36 · 23 answers · asked by Kristal L 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 23:52:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 23:50:03 · 14 answers · asked by zily 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been going out with a guy for nearly 2 years, but Ive grown out of him. I dont want to hurt his feelings and really really want to remain friends with him. Hes a kind of "all or nothing guy" so Im frightened that if I dont stay with him in the relationship he wont be my friend (I dont have many as I moved away to be with him). He's extremely jealous and would say he cant be my friend because he couldnt handle seeing me with some one so would rather not know after the relationship. Help....

2006-10-12 23:49:22 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wedding will be very nice, but cost efficient, but I still want to do some of the standard procedures like invitations. I hope there is a web sight thst I can go to to order African-American invitations. Any help will be greatly appreciated.

2006-10-12 23:47:46 · 3 answers · asked by neferetti 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what should i do if my gf wont put any effort into our relationship, and by that i mean that she never does anything for me, she never comes over to see me, she never wants to drive me anywhere or anything, but yet she will drive her friends places though. anytime i want to see her i have to be the one who drives over to see her, i have to be the one who drives everywhere when we go places. i mean the only thing she makes an effort to do is call me. otherwise im stuck doing everything else. but as long as im the one putting in the effort then she is willing to go places and do stuff with me. she wont put any effort though. is the relationship worth keeping? what should i do?

2006-10-12 23:47:02 · 16 answers · asked by darkinmate16 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend says that because she is FAT she won't ever get a boy friend is that true?

2006-10-12 23:42:34 · 22 answers · asked by arshi 2 in Friends

2006-10-12 23:42:17 · 9 answers · asked by clowns l 1 in Singles & Dating

if your considering starting a family and your both still young and your partner goes out with his friends about twice a week is this still acceptable to do when you do have children?

2006-10-12 23:39:15 · 31 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what if i like a guy and he likes me, but hes like a foot shorter than me popular than me i know he likes me because a boy told me he did and he didnt deny it.hes always flirting with me,

2006-10-12 23:39:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, we have been together almost two years, have a 7 week old baby girl, trying to get our own place, im the only one working right now. and im the type that goes all out and gets namebrand stuff, expensive jewerly and try to spend money i dont really have when it comes to b-days. her b-day is the 29th and i dont know what to get her, i know i should save since i am the only one right now with a job, for the baby and house. so what should i do. i always get a dozen roses but those die, so i thought i would get 11 roses and one fake one, and a card sayin something like i will love you til all these roses die. then there an engagement ring that i want to buy but i need to save! what do i do?

2006-10-12 23:38:15 · 13 answers · asked by preludesir007 2 in Singles & Dating

If you've read my other questions you'll understand what i'm on about!!! My fiance was assused of having an affair and he denies it, I believe him completely and i want to go back to him. But Because i didn't want others to think i've made a mistake by believing him, i've told them that the girl accusing him called me and said that she was lying. It's backfired!!! They now think that he made her say that?!!! Help!!! What to do?!!!

2006-10-12 23:35:56 · 30 answers · asked by Monster M 1 in Weddings

I've known this guy for a while well 2 years, he knows that my feelings for him are more than friends, but we have never got past being good friends which is fine with me. What i dont understand is when he starts flirting and acting like he does feel something for me and then goes back to acting like he doesnt. I'm really confused we have so much fun when we are together and get on really well but his actions confuse me..................help!?!

2006-10-12 23:34:10 · 18 answers · asked by life_vamp 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 23:32:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-12 23:31:58 · 41 answers · asked by luck 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok my ex-gf is just a be-atch and thats one of the reasons i broke up. Now that i did, she just immediately goes and gets another boyfriend either to make me jealous or just show me that she needs love, but i dont care. She's been very rude lately when she comes over to her friends house, whom which i hang out with her brother (not my gf's brother). She just keeps swearing and acts so rude, and when i try to be nice, she just shouts! I wanna be the rudest and act like i dont care, besides ignoring! Can u help me?

2006-10-12 23:31:00 · 7 answers · asked by No Name 1 in Friends

guys, i have been wondering about this so help me out..............

what type of girl would be more attractive to you?

1) the flirty type who makes it obvious she likes you and makes it easy for you to 'read her like a book'

or

2) the playful flirt who makes it hard for you to understand whether she's into you and thus, leaving you guessing?

2006-10-12 23:25:34 · 23 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

Phew! It's so lively!

2006-10-12 23:24:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One boy in my class has asked me to be his GF.I said ok. Its just that we are flirting around. One boy in a higher grade has asked for frendship I said i'll be your friend but i think its more than that. The boy in the higher grade and some of his friends r trying to scare my BF. What do i do now?

2006-10-12 23:22:52 · 22 answers · asked by Sweet Shraddha 1 in Friends

2006-10-12 23:22:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 23:21:34 · 24 answers · asked by seilygirl 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and boyfriend want to get married but loans seem so expensive and what with bills and mortgage I don't know how we'd manage. Average weddings they say are around 17,000 now!!! Was wondering if we could have a lovely day for 10,000, I think this would be our max on a loan that we could afford, and does anyone know if we can cut any corners by doing anything ourselves. We both want a lovely day (don't we all) but its so expensive. We really want to get married! Everyone else seems able to do it, why can't we. Thank you. :-)

2006-10-12 23:21:19 · 37 answers · asked by Fudgecake 1 in Weddings