i've been with my girl for about seven months and it's been great for the most part. we never had any big problems until last week, and last week was horrible, but i think we've worked everything out. i feel like we're closer than ever now. see, when we finally made up on sunday night, we confessed our true feelings to each other for the first time. it took so long because we were both holding back out of fear of being hurt. i feel like we won't fight for a long time now, and our little talk really helped.
the problem is, i met this girl at work the other day, and i've been feeling a major pull from her. i don't even know her name, but i can't stop thinking about her. and i think she feels it too. what am i supposed to do? i've never had a problem like this before. it's not a sex thing either, it's just a really warm feeling i get from her. so why now? my girl and i just had a breakthrough, and i'm not afraid of committing or anything like that, so what's the deal?and why so intense?
2006-10-12 23:59:22 · 3 answers · asked by That Guy Drew 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey there.
it seems that if you love your girlfriend you would want to stay with her and focus on her. i mean marriage is a big commitment. if you had a breakthrough everything should be kosher, but maybe you are not totally secure that something of this sort might not happen again. it could be some kind of connection pulling you to this girl. like you both are supposed to play some role in each others lives. but your girlfriend works at the same place, and she doesn't trust you talking to other girls. so i would let it go, if you want to keep your girlfriend. or just talk to her if you're feeling lucky that the gf won't mind, or if she(gf) isn't the one. good luck and well wishes.
2006-10-15 15:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren & Lindsay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The big deal is that you just got back that spark with your girlfriend. Do you now want to mess it up with someone else whom you don't know and whom you're not even sure will date you. You were afraid of being hurt, if you go for this other girl, you will be prone to being hurt.
The ball is in your court. The new girl or your girlfriend. I would suggest you keep your distance from the new girl and put boundaries on your friendship cuz its still infatuation or sex whether you want to admit it or not.
2006-10-13 07:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just have a crush, so what, big deal, if you're happy and want to be with your current gf, don't screw it up for this other girl you barely even know, at least get to know her and if you end up wanting her, i guess do what makes you happy, personally i wouldn't ruin a relationship i just invested 7 months into for someone i don't even know
2006-10-13 07:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bailey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋