the other day i found an email on his msn sayin that he had a new next door neighbour and he was gonna have sex with her because i was away i am only able to see him on weekends at the moment.
When i confronted him he said it was a wind up because he new i would go look and then he had a go at me for looking at his emails dont no wot to do or think help
2006-10-12 23:52:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Another excuse. Been there, heard that.
I dumped him. You can't trust a man if they send emails saying they're gonna have sex with other ladies once you're out of the door. No matter. Even if they say they were 'winding you up'.
2006-10-12 23:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by callieRach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You girls are a riot!!! you always twist the situations around to make you the poor little innocent victim, and we guys are the dirty cheating no good bums all the time. Why don't you keep your nose out of places it doesn't belong? And cheating?? did you know that women cheat as frequently or more often than Men? That's right. We men have way less time and opportunity than you women do. In the suburbs of NY, for instance, we used to pick up married women during the day by the carload, go back to thier houses and pass them around for hours. Most of you would think St Peter was cheating. Oh, and by the way, you love this stuff, 'cause if people didn't cheat and lie, we'd all be doing something very boring, wouldn't we? One more thing, it seems like a lot of you ladies can easily give the 'ol "Dump Him" answer, then a week later, ask " I love my hubby so much but I get lonely when he spends all night at our neighbor Trixie"s trailer, I mean he doesn't even let me pleasure him next morning when he gits back, what am I doing wrong?? I'm so afraid he might "DUMP" me? I know! I'll go and cook him a nice meal before he goes out tonite.
2006-10-13 07:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wouldn't have put it thier just to wind you up, would he ?
Thats just a stupid, crass attempt to hide his mistake and back-peddle.
Its probably just his fantasy and boosting on email.
Only you know if he has the confidence to approach this woman and the lack of respect to do this to you.
But you have to ask yourself why he even wrote the note, is there a hidden "him" that you don't know.
'cos no matter how georgeous my neighbour was, or no matter how bad my relationship was, you'd never catch me saying anything like that.
At the best, he knew you would look at his email and wanted to hurt you. At worst he's either already in, planning, or wants to be in an affair. Niether situation sounds like a stable place to be to me.
I hope your weekend goes well, take care.
2006-10-13 07:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have put yourself in this situation slightly. He might see you as a controlling him and just try and scare you as you are almost driving him to do that. I am getting this from only what you have said so sorry if i am wrong. If you hold someone close and check up on them, they will cheat eventually because thats what you think they are doing anyway, so they will. I would confront him and if he says its a joke, then fine, ignore it, it only hurts if you 100% know its happening. A relationship is about trust.
2006-10-13 08:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place, don't trust any thing that calls him or her self a human bein. I love my girl friend and i can't play with her in such way cos i know that it will hut her feeling, If what he said on the massage is true that means he had it on her mind. so i think u should call him and talk to him, let him know that u love him and should stop playing with u like this way cos it hot so much.
2006-10-13 07:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question shoudl also be should he trust you?
If my boyfriend was snooping and checking my emails, he would be straight out of the door...
2006-10-13 06:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by anthony p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound good.
i dont know what to say,
maybe he is saying that to pass the blame to you which is a typical abusive response,
i'd be very careful, and i'd leave the relationship now. do you honestly see it going anywhere?
there is no trust and with no trust there can be no love.
2006-10-13 07:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by kiki_dees 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's harsh try asking him if he want's to be with you or his next door neighbour if he doesn't dump him
2006-10-13 07:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry? whats your problem? I think you have bigger problems if you cant afford him the privacey that he deserves. Sounds like he knew you were reading his mail. Serves you right. I suggest you apologise to him for your apalling behaviour.
2006-10-13 06:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by simon m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trusted him in the first place you wouldn't have looked.
so obviously he has made you insecure before.
Kick the @rsehole to the kerb
2006-10-13 06:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋