Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

Such as a husband going out and having an adultress affair, Say you forgive him so you'll not carry the anger (a deadly sin) but How can you forget it was done and move on, especially if you still love this person very very much???

2006-10-12 22:34:31 · 16 answers · asked by Ladeebug71 5 in Marriage & Divorce

im planning to take up as a flight attendant when i go to college. but my boyfriend won't allow me bcoz were going to have a distant relationship and he told me that it'll be hard for us to see each other very often when i take that course. . i don't want to go far from him, anyway. but taking that course was one of my ambition. ,. what do you think. . would i choose the one i love and decide for another course or choose the ambition that ive been planning. . .pls help me. . . it really bothers me.. by the way, im going to college a year and a half from now. .

2006-10-12 22:34:02 · 11 answers · asked by 'Lil bhEb 2 in Singles & Dating

Some people here said that , "You dont need to find true love, You just wait for it and it'll find you"...

I am not sure about this .. I've been waiting since last 26 years ... have met some real nice women. But never been in a relationship ... I guess something or the other made me think "no, I must wait more"...

I have this friend now since last four months ... shes pretty nice .. and make me feel its love .. but sometimes she just annoys me ..

How to decide whether my "wait" is over ... or shud I wait more ???

2006-10-12 22:32:45 · 9 answers · asked by Frank_walker 2 in Singles & Dating

Is he checking me out?Or does he think im a sl*ut??? HELP! Oh yeah and i like this guy.

2006-10-12 22:32:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It would seem to me that women wouldn't be attracted to a guy that is basicly a big f@g, but maybe I'm wrong. Would you rather have a guy that worries about his hair, or one that is more concerned with his mind? Would you rather have one that spends vast amounts of time at trendy clothes stores in the mall, or one that seeks to improve himself in an inward way? I'm know my own opinion is pervasive in the question, but I am looking for an honest answer, do girls actually like the metrosexual guys?

2006-10-12 22:30:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 22:29:35 · 11 answers · asked by Smokey 3 in Singles & Dating

i do not know what to say to her about all this plz help me out and tell me only good ans so that i could tell her in a good way that she understand it well .. and do not hate me ok guys

2006-10-12 22:28:03 · 13 answers · asked by harshverdhan 1 in Friends

Ive being thinking is it really that bad sleeping around i mean its just a bit of fun really humans are sexual beings . It was religions and old skool social programing that says its bad i mean i know loads of slutty girls and theyre the best to get along with . Views please .

2006-10-12 22:27:54 · 13 answers · asked by badass-mofu 5 in Singles & Dating

So little sex or good food beacuse of career priorities of the female of the species?

2006-10-12 22:27:02 · 6 answers · asked by september_serenade 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does size really matter to you?? What is a normal size??
What is the biggest one you have been with? What is the smallest one you have been with?

2006-10-12 22:25:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 22:24:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on the internet but how many women do it themselves? surely out of curiosity theres a few who have taken a look.I know I have and it was a bit of a turn on!! to my surprise

2006-10-12 22:23:51 · 16 answers · asked by poptrash 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Now be honest. He like's movies and long walks. Very long walks. Like 15 miles walks!!!!!!

2006-10-12 22:22:57 · 18 answers · asked by Neopoly 2 in Singles & Dating

is a big deal it is not important i was 20 yrs when it happen to please wait your judgement might be a bit better.

2006-10-12 22:22:39 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Remember folks, we all need love and to be loved...

2006-10-12 22:19:29 · 13 answers · asked by Beechy 4 in Singles & Dating

my son with my ex is 20 and totaly dependant and lives with me and my new husband. i have 2 children with my new husband we have been married 6 years but my ex constantly tries to disrupt our lives with a constant barrage of demands he does not financhaly contribute to anything and i would'nt want him too. does he still have the same legal rights as he had when my son was under 18. ex left me for another woman so why can't he get on with his life and let me get on with mine i am at my wits end and have even considerd putting my son into care i don't want to do this as it would break my heart but if my ex and his gilfriend carry on it will break my mind

2006-10-12 22:19:06 · 11 answers · asked by shaggy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-12 22:17:59 · 4 answers · asked by golupolu_1981 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Tease you , make fun of you , act uninterested you love me and want me bad but when im nice you run like crazy .

My view , woman dont like boys but infact like men who are interesting , challanging , cocky and funny , . This is why you like badboys they do that .

2006-10-12 22:15:42 · 10 answers · asked by badass-mofu 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 22:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by Didgeridude 4 in Weddings

i watched a porno and i am quite young, i wanna tell my parents but i have no courage! to tell you the truth, I'm 12. Sorry!!! BUT i don't know what to do. I need helppp! I CANNOT KEEEP THIS TO MY SELF ANYMORE. i almost feel suicidal. Pleease. help me god and yahoo.

2006-10-12 22:14:13 · 8 answers · asked by lentoken 1 in Family

2006-10-12 22:11:55 · 42 answers · asked by pinkkitten 3 in Singles & Dating

When I'm walking through the City or bored sitting on the train I sometimes calculate the ratio of all girls/women that I see that I would have sex with (hypothetically, of course). I simply count the number of all women and remember the number that are very good looking. The only rule is that they have to be between about 20 and 40 years old. When I play this game, I'm dead fussy, so the average score is usually around 1 in 15. Does anyone else (men or women) play a game like this or am I the only sad person in town??

2006-10-12 22:11:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as i started showing Interest she suddenly moved with another guy in the office . Why do girls do this and play with guys ,now i feel like bashing the *****

2006-10-12 22:11:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that someone you luv most, when abandon or leave or break up, with u, hurts u most. My girl friend broke up with me, saying she finds me weak and insecure. All i asked - luv, care, support and respect for my parents. First she showed how much she cares and loves me, she used to call me, sms me. She confessed she couldn't live without me, and i should never think of leaving her. But strangely, it happend with me. I am in sort of mental and emotional shock. I am trying to recover, trying hard not to think of her, but i couldn't. I called her, tried to resolve, she didn't picked up the phone, and when she did, she says she don't want to talk with me. It's shocking for me. Even her parents didn't wanted to talk. I am feeling very lonely now, i don't know what to do, where to go. I want peace, happiness, affection and comfort. I don't know what I am asking for. I feel like giving up my life. I don't know how to recover from this phase.

2006-10-12 22:10:04 · 8 answers · asked by Allen Green 1 in Singles & Dating

The thing is my ex wants to take the children away from me and send them to Somalia (Africa) where women like me do not have a say. I work full time as a nurse to suport my children, who are age 11 and 6. They have always resided with me since their birth. they also go to visit their dad on holidays. In August this year, he retained my son and refused to bring him back, I went to court and they issied a collection order for my son to be collected. He is now with me. We have an ongoing case and his Lawyer is quite good and asked for the court to do a section 7 investigation here in UK London. He always manipulate the kids and brainwash them that it will be heaven living with him, no homework, eating fast food everyday, go to bed the time they want to etc.

My worries is if the kids says they want to leave with him, will the court decide to take the kids from my care based on that?? i am a wonderful mother for my kids even the schools can confirm that...

2006-10-12 22:09:27 · 17 answers · asked by hanni_mohamud 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently had a big fight with on of my Ex Best friends and she hates me. With a passion. I Used to trust her with anything and used to tell her anything, but Now I fear shes going to tell everyone what i told her. Some of the things are Very personal and I dont want it getting out. Please help me I dont know what to do!!

2006-10-12 22:07:09 · 12 answers · asked by -Ashlee- Eeeep! 2 in Friends

I mean what kind of attributes help them to deceit boys so easily. Then too boys never leave falling behind them, is notthis a mystery??

2006-10-12 22:06:17 · 10 answers · asked by Biss 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 22:04:38 · 1 answers · asked by golupolu_1981 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My elderly neighbour is in her late 70’s and she has already had a hip operation. She has one son, who, like her, is absolutely loaded with money. She doesn’t budge out of the house, as she is scared in case her hip ‘gives way’. She had a very poor experience in the NHS hospital when she had her hip done and now she needs the other hip done. I suggested she goes private, but she says, “I’m loyal to the surgeon and the NHS hospital”. Shall I just leave her be now? She really was treated badly in hospital previously.

2006-10-12 22:04:03 · 10 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Friends

how do you discipline your teenage son/daughter whose on drugs, goes out everyday, steals from you, has bad grades, is into porn sex, wants to drop out of school etc...with all these controls on punishment we can't do anymore;
1- Can't give them a spanking anymore like our parents used to in the 60's.
2- Can't shout at them in public otherwise someone will call social services on you.
3- Can't withhold money from them, otherwise they could call social services and accuse you of 'sexually abusing them' or 'harrassing them'.
Ps: my eldest kid is 5 so not there yet, and hope never, but am just curious how parents are holding up with these kind of kids? any advice.

2006-10-12 22:01:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family