Why is it that someone you luv most, when abandon or leave or break up, with u, hurts u most. My girl friend broke up with me, saying she finds me weak and insecure. All i asked - luv, care, support and respect for my parents. First she showed how much she cares and loves me, she used to call me, sms me. She confessed she couldn't live without me, and i should never think of leaving her. But strangely, it happend with me. I am in sort of mental and emotional shock. I am trying to recover, trying hard not to think of her, but i couldn't. I called her, tried to resolve, she didn't picked up the phone, and when she did, she says she don't want to talk with me. It's shocking for me. Even her parents didn't wanted to talk. I am feeling very lonely now, i don't know what to do, where to go. I want peace, happiness, affection and comfort. I don't know what I am asking for. I feel like giving up my life. I don't know how to recover from this phase.
2006-10-12 22:10:04 · 8 answers · asked by Allen Green 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Am hear for you.You have all Cinda of friend in Yahoo.I don't want to put you down but only to help you.You have to learn to love yourself then you can let go.You will feel better about yourself.It took me for ever to let go my ex-boyfriend.I know have a better life.Time will heal.
2006-10-12 22:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I been there, felt that an look am still here, yea just out of the blue i think about her, but hey if u love her, let her be, just wish her the best in the world. i perfer to see my love happy than to be hurt and lonely, just wish her the best, and try to be friends, but for now give her time apart, if she does love you, she will return or atleast try to help you to be the man she wants, you just of to chill, take it easy and don't you dare take your life away, u be wasting your life for someone? and beliveme, there is better out there, a WHOLE world to explore, work your butt off and save money, then take a trip an see the world or atleast go to a nice place like Puerto Rico an hang in the sun... wish you look my friend!
2006-10-12 22:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Tyger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there and you will recover from this pain that you are feeling! It may not seem possible right now but in time you will be happy again! Don't give up and try to stop thinking about her!
2006-10-12 22:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can hurt us an less we let them. write down everything on the paper what would you say to her and never had chance to tell her. read it,and than burn the paper,and remember one thing,i look at life like we go to the store buy very expensive suit, we l;like it in the beginning and than we don't want anymore,so what do we do go and shop for new dress,time will heal, go take some classes,
2006-10-12 22:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is a hurtful thing. No one wants to feel rejected.
But you can't hurry love. If it is meant to be, she'll come back.
If not, learn from this relationship.
2006-10-12 22:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is like war:easy to begin but very hard to stop..!
2006-10-12 22:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by mada m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play GTA San Andreas..
2006-10-12 22:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and be loved
2006-10-12 22:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by zily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋