I recently had a big fight with on of my Ex Best friends and she hates me. With a passion. I Used to trust her with anything and used to tell her anything, but Now I fear shes going to tell everyone what i told her. Some of the things are Very personal and I dont want it getting out. Please help me I dont know what to do!!
2006-10-12 22:07:09 · 12 answers · asked by -Ashlee- Eeeep! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do not get perturbed. Whats done cannot be undone now. The best thing now would be to wait and watch and see how much of details about you are getting revealed out and tactfully crossing each hurdle as it comes. Simply brooding over all this will only make you less impressive in the society.
2006-10-12 22:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a situation, really. there are ways out,but. if u think u can still hang out with her and stand her, try apologizing, maybe, she feels her ego'll get hurt if she apologizes. second, if she really was a BEST friend, she would never reveal anything. If u patch up, like gift her something (come on, girl, someone should take the initiative) on her birthday or any spl day. But if u feel shes not worth being ur friend, atleast be on talking terms with her(try saying good things about her- dont badmouth) and remember never to reveal intimate details until u are sure u can really trust that person. for now, try the patch-up formula!
2006-10-13 05:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by sweet gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you've learnt that you shoudnt be telling you deep secrets, family is the only people you can trust (and Jesus). Im sure you ex friend will resolve this. Communication is a strong key to any relationship, so why dont you guys talk and sort things out. Maybe it will work. I dont think your ex friend will spill your secrets out as she knows you put all your trust in her and she also had her trust in you wen you were tight
2006-10-13 05:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Marilyn F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like it doesn't matter. Don't let her know it bothers you. Work not to let it bother you. If she knows, maybe it shouldn't matter much if others know, because others are much more important than she is. You might even laugh and say that she's a sucker and will believe anything anyone tells her -- but only say this if she starts telling personal things about you. Make it seem like you think these things are boring and are a waste of people's time.
2006-10-13 05:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing for sure if she's a civilize person she will not tell a single soul about your secret since you trust her with your secrets maybe she's really a great friend! why not talk to her? your best friends then, try to make things better by talking about your problem face to face with her so she can tell things she didn't like about you and vice versa and maybe can still be friends learn to forgive and forget for the sake of friendship!
2006-10-13 05:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by beng_ganda25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can make up with her or you can just let her talk and deny everything or ignore it. I would be very careful in the future not to tell anyone anything personal. People will talk.
2006-10-13 05:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by lucy02 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she was good person than she will not tell anything to no body, and if she dos just deny.tell she just making up stories about you because you had a fight.
2006-10-13 05:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About all I can say is from now on don't tell real personal stuff!
2006-10-13 05:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, she probably told you some personal things too, she just might be afraid too that you might tell, stop saying or doing things to make her know that you're worried and afraid.
2006-10-13 06:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that you don't like your business been told to other people.Let her know how it make you feel.If she still keeps on doing so don't hang out with her if it makes you feel uncomfortable.
2006-10-13 05:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋