2006-10-12 23:31:58 · 41 answers · asked by luck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
cut her bank account.
2006-10-12 23:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the teenage is an age where a person is treated in two different ways. At one time he is said that he is not so much grown up to interfere in the matters of elders while at the same time he is said that he is big enough cant he do this thing. So i think in this age u shud try to be friendly with her rather than giving her lectures. Try to find out about her friends, envolve in her hobbies her likes and dislikes. I think this can work.
2006-10-14 01:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by diya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today is a world of understanding and respect. Pl. be clear in defining the boundaries and then set the rules of the game within which she can play and have full freedom and then let them have a free play within the same . Children should know what is acceptable and what is not by the elders . Your communication to your children should be in clear terms and send clear message that what is expected of them in short term and long term objectives. Apart from the above pl. do not forget that they also carry a brain which is in a growing status and look for your support in understanding what is right and what is wrong. Be open and friendly build up trust among yourselves that whatever would be communicated to the elders would be taken in right perspective and with trust.
2006-10-14 17:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by SAN C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well come to the club.
Do not repeat your self time and again.
Whatever you want to say keep it simple and short.
Do not loose your cool
Let her do whatever she wants and ignore her for some time.
Like any un tamed horse your daughter is resisting you knowingly
Like you do with any untamed horse hold on to the lead rope but give enough slack and ignore her tantrums.
But one important thing to keep in mind do not compare your younger days to your daughter's.
Those days are entirely different and even you should change to some extent.
Compromise is the name of the game .
Try this and you will have some peace of mind at home
2006-10-14 23:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by bhimi6787 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers presumably know the difference between right and wrong, so you do not have to go into big lectures. Just remind her and advise her of what is best.for her , and then leave it. You have said what you wanted to say. Now it is her option whether to heed your advice or not. Treat her as a responsible adult and observe the miracles this can bring. (negative psychology). And anything you do should be done with love. Don't say she knows it. Teenagers, in this complex phase of their lives, need reassurances and lots of love. They want tangible proof that you do love them, in actions and in words. So coupled with your advise, say the words. These are magic to the ears. The magic words of "I love you!:
2006-10-14 14:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Madam, you are older and wiser than your daughter. You might have crossed her age. You might be knowing what are all the problems and needs of your daughter.
Act accordingly. Try to solve her problems and provide her needs. Then she will definitely listen to you without any big lectures.
2006-10-14 04:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by Kuppu S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick your battles MOM. I too have a 15 yr old daughter. She's a pig in her room...dresses like a slob....she doesn't take care of personal hygine musts .....etc.
Her room (i shut the door---by doing so I don't have to look at it)----her clothes (well---she's the 1 wearing them)---I do remind her to take a shower every day---and take care of her monthly things----
WHAT is is the point of a long lecture----the kid isn't listening anyway...So save your energy and breath and PICK your battle!!! for the important things!
2006-10-12 23:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to study her psychology. Try to understand her likes and dislikes.Never go against her wishes. Once you create confidence with your daughter, you can expect to hear from you without taking trouble of giving lengthy lectures.
2006-10-13 19:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to talk to my daughter about serious things when she is sitting close on the couch and I rub her head or brush her hair....whichever seems most comfortable. That way she knows and can feel that what I am saying is being said with love and that all my interest is on her. Very hard for her to be confrontational or angry if approached this way. It also gets her to open up about things on her mind while she is relaxing and feeling safe. Works with all the kids really(I have five). They never listen when you yell....automatic tune out. I look at it this way, if someone is yelling at me or making me feel defensive I tune them out. I assume my kids do too.
2006-10-12 23:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by mary will tell you 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers need lectures.
2006-10-12 23:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be a friend to your teenage daughter . Understand her and listen to her . .
2006-10-12 23:51:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋