Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

Dear All

My wife has been living away from me based on flimsy / non existing grounds and doesnot want to talk to me. I belive the first corse of action is restoration of congigual rights. Can anyone guide me on the corse of action required.

2006-10-16 00:31:52 · 14 answers · asked by Ritayan B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was the one who asked about my husband lifting & some of you told me to get a job. fyi i make more money than my husband. we have a 2 income household. just wondering why so many assumed the woman was a lazy bum?

2006-10-16 00:29:50 · 16 answers · asked by trippydee 2 in Family

Did your feet blush red and tremble. Did your veins show up more on your feet after the kicks.

2006-10-16 00:29:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 00:29:28 · 6 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

Shes a little too uhhh wats the word direct no???She also reportded me like wat the **** is her problem!!!!

2006-10-16 00:28:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-16 00:27:40 · 20 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

I married for the first time at 16 because I was unhappy at home. This lasted 4 years and produced a son. At 23 I married again, this lasted 7 years and produced another son. Both the men I married were very weak and needed me to take charge of running the home. I married for the third time at 33 and this marriage has lasted 18 years and produced a daughter. My present husband is 13 years younger and comes from a different culture, is very strong but he left our home 2 months ago to be on his own because I found out he was cheating. He said he wanted to be free of responsibilities and felt tied down. I have always been independent but emotionally needy I admit. Two months later and he comes back to the house every weekend, is making plans for our future, treats me well, but I am afraid of the situation because I still think about our age difference and whether he has ulterior motives, like getting his hands on my savings. I am afraid of the future, am I destined to be alone?

2006-10-16 00:26:43 · 15 answers · asked by Angela F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-16 00:24:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

or cant you just wait?

2006-10-16 00:24:04 · 37 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Do you think more women hater their fathers?He's so controlling and he is always treating me like I'm a chlid. NA dhe's always saying that I can't go out because I'm a girl and he's always treating me like I'm weaker. I'm more of a man than my little brother,who cries like a baby. I don't need a father.

2006-10-16 00:21:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-16 00:20:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 00:19:49 · 17 answers · asked by Adrianne 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 00:16:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well this has been goin on for 2 months now .. I haven't responded so far but I shall soon have to do something about it .. I like him too (not love) but I know that this relationship isn't going to get anywhere! ... and I cannot afford to upset him!! What to do?? Im 18 ..

2006-10-16 00:16:07 · 20 answers · asked by sugagloss 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex only has 12hrs weekly visitation and rarely seen him . now he moved out of state and is coming back next week for a visit. i ask why he claims because he misses his son. what do i do legally he has the visitation but he has only seen his son once since january of this year. so do i have the right to stop him from taking my son. just so you know the facts he does drugs also abuses alchol and only moved out of state so mommy and daddy could pay his child support and save him from being put in jail

2006-10-16 00:15:22 · 9 answers · asked by lisa h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

yesterday, i met some guys talking about nations. at a point one of them said that the only thing good about black men is thier

2006-10-16 00:15:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iv been wid this guy 4about3months now&really like him.There is only1problem he has a son of1wid his ex which doesn’t bother me I actually think he is rather cute.The problem is her,im not a jealous person&don’t believe in letting other girls come between a couple at the end of the day its u that there coming home2but she’s still the main girl in his life,I don’t mind her contacting him regarding the little boy but it does not stop there she phones him all the time&is always there when he goes up his mates house as she is mates with them.She takes his little sisters out&even started tellin him how she wants to be a family again&crying that she is not happy with her new boyfriend.

He reassures me that its me he wants to be wid&that he does not want to get bac wid her but can I really have a relationship wid some1that’s still so close2there ex?I know its still really early days but I really love him&don’t want2let him go.

How can I tell him2distance from her widout sounding jealous

2006-10-16 00:14:57 · 12 answers · asked by stacy c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so it is normal to make love. but me and my partner are not careless.we use protection since we started doing it.my period was due last sunday (oct 15). the first time we did it was 2 weeks before and the day i was expecting my due.he said he did not had condom break nor felt leakage.we were so careful.im not on the pill though..what do you think could be the cause of my delay? i do have irregular period sometimes but this worries me.he said he is positive that i won't get preggy.and if ever i do,he will be there to support me and our child..should i stop panicking and try to relax and wait? or should i get a pregnancy kit and test it? thanks guys.

2006-10-16 00:14:42 · 22 answers · asked by peek-a-boo 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy in my art class who i talk to sometimes and i really like him but i dont no how too get him too really notice me any ideas?

2006-10-16 00:11:55 · 11 answers · asked by natalie d 1 in Singles & Dating

im going out with a girl "A" from a different town and all of a sudden my on and off gf "M'' shows up on my door step crying that her now ex hit her i called my buddys and went to this kids house then i got tired and went home andto my suprise "M" is in my room with a friend of hers "M' says ty and looks into my eyes i look in to hers and we kiss..and one thing led to another i love her with all my heart and im going out with "A" who is devine has a wonderful personality and a devine singing voice and shes a great kisser. andi love her to no end as well and i dont know what to do SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLZ I NEED SOME INSIGHT PLZ HELP

2006-10-16 00:10:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In India where "Mata Pita Guru Deivam" ,meaning Mother, Fatherand Teacher should be considered equivalent to God.This value system is slowly disappearing.When elderly parents emotionally and physically need support, why are they being dumped to fend for themselves.Particularly mothers find it too hard.

2006-10-16 00:10:06 · 11 answers · asked by Ram 1 in Family

It is said that more and more women is making use of porno, now the question is what do we think of them?

2006-10-16 00:09:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

wahat is the responsibility of our world to protect children not to come out to strait?How do we Minmiz raping and and finally avoid it from our world?

2006-10-16 00:07:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok here it is is it posible that there are other ways to get pregnet?

2006-10-16 00:07:01 · 9 answers · asked by rkk_24 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 00:06:57 · 13 answers · asked by callieRach 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 00:05:55 · 29 answers · asked by barb b 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm confused. I met a guy a month ago and sometimes we hook-up, without sex. He's invited me to a couple of his friends' parties, including that of a girl who he expressed interest in having sex with. He told me that he found her "pretty hot" but he was "not sure if she was his type to actually date." He tells me that he's trying out the dating scene because he just got out of a long-term relationship. Anyway, I've met both his roommates and some of his friends. I can't figure out what he wants from me. We talk about how confused the both of us are in life and how we're trying to find what we're passionate about...I mean, what does he want from me? Why does he invite me to his friends' parties? He also then tells me that he met a "cool" girl at a bar, and I said "why, because she'll f*ck you?" haha Anyway, he comes home to my apartment after the parties without me asking but we don't have sex. What does he want from me? He calls me about once a week to hang out...

2006-10-16 00:05:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I received a mail from one Malaysian nationality asking me to provide my details so that i can be called the next of kin of one foreign business man whom he is saying he died in 2003 together with his family and so now they are looking for someone to take his money. I have got a number of those letter. Can this be really true or this person is after something? Is there anyone who once received a mail from this person (Dr Malik Abdul)

2006-10-16 00:04:44 · 17 answers · asked by abigailmac2000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was at a friends engagement party (dinner for 24) last night and sat opposite a lovely guy. We chatted most of the night but in our group of 4/6 not just the two of us. He offered to walk me home to make sure i was safe in the evening and was a total gentleman. It was a lovely walk home laughing and joking no awkward silences. He did not hit on me or try to kiss me. We had been talking about music/films all night and he offered to burn me a dvd of some stuff. So I said excellent get my number of our mutual friend and when he dropped me off he gave me his business card and said its a bit formal but at least youll have my email. Hugged me goodbye and left.

1) i have emailed today to say thank you for walking me home and for the offer of the dvd - when shld i expect a reply
2) Do you think he is interested in friendship or more?

2006-10-16 00:03:51 · 22 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

a lot of times (lately) I find myself daydreaming about the kind of appartment I'd like to have; something simple but stylish along with my fave pet - an American fuzzy lop bunny, :))

the problem, as always, is financial, :)) i know i may never have what I desire but I just can't stop thinking about it.

how do I deal with this little escapist fantasy

(in order to make this happen I'd have to write a bestseller or something, :))

thanks

2006-10-16 00:02:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family