so it is normal to make love. but me and my partner are not careless.we use protection since we started doing it.my period was due last sunday (oct 15). the first time we did it was 2 weeks before and the day i was expecting my due.he said he did not had condom break nor felt leakage.we were so careful.im not on the pill though..what do you think could be the cause of my delay? i do have irregular period sometimes but this worries me.he said he is positive that i won't get preggy.and if ever i do,he will be there to support me and our child..should i stop panicking and try to relax and wait? or should i get a pregnancy kit and test it? thanks guys.
2006-10-16 00:14:42 · 22 answers · asked by peek-a-boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is it wrong to have sex when you are most fertile? if so, when is the best time to do it?
2006-10-16 00:23:01 · update #1
i did not havd my peroid yesterday..not even today.should i wait a little longer then if after a week i still don't got it,should i get a pregnancy kit at once? how accurate are those?
2006-10-16 00:36:42 · update #2
Besides abstinence, the protection method would be the pill in combination with the condom.
I would never ever have unprotected sex and when one is orgasming, they are not thinking at that second about the condom breaking, everything just feels good.
You can get pregnant at ANY time of your cycle, even during your period. So forget the calendar or rhythm method. If you worry, however, it does cause stress which delays your period.
Get to a doctor and get on the pill. Or stop having sex. Good luck.
2006-10-16 00:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are saying your period was due yesterday - the 15th? You are not even a day late, which is normal. Stop worrying, the more you worry the more you delay your period through stress. Not worth the expense of a pregnancy test but if it will put your mind at rest then do so. No, it is not wrong to make love during your fertile time as long as you take precautions. Again, if it will put your mind at rest then don't. Your fertile time is normally 14 days after your period, in other words, in the middle of your cycle.
2006-10-16 00:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a few more days. Stress can cause your period to be late. If you have not had your period within a week of the due date go to your doctor's or do a home pregnancie test. For future reference if you are not sure whether the condom has split, get him to put it under a tap and put water in it-you will see whether there are any holes or splits. If you don't want to go on the pill then you can try the injection, this is much more reliable-you can ask your GP about this and other contraception. Hope this has helped. Good Luck!!
2006-10-16 00:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be due to your irregular periods and you might not have anything to worry about. If your under any stress that can also delay them. To put your mind at rest you should get a pregnancy test, if it turns out that you are you can start to come to turns with it but if your not you will be able to relax. Good luck.
2006-10-16 00:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sihanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a problem with becoming pregnant a NO would have been a better action. However perhaps the next step is a morning after pill, though it might be a bit late now.
Finally did he actually ejaculate into you. If he did the chances are that you are pregnant. You must check yourself out and deal with it as you feel suits you.
Also what a chap says before the event and what actions he takes after the event can change to the complete opposite.
2006-10-16 00:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do a pregnancy test. doesnt cost much and gives you a hint what the delay might be about. and if it is positive, consult your doctor. mostly panicking causes the delay to be even longer, because you are stressed and you body reacts on that. do you eat enough? sometimes a heavy diet is also the reason for not getting the period regular or at all.
2006-10-16 00:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by dorotti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did have sex when you are most fertile...but your period could be late because you are worrying too much. I think the best thing to do is to get a pregnancy test...
Good luck and I hope everything turns out how you wanted it to!
2006-10-16 00:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by crazybex2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a pregnancy test as a precaution but if you have used a condom and he is sure that it caused no problem then you should be ok. the delay could be just due to anxiety and reacting to this. but get the test done either your doctor or a kit from the chemist
2006-10-16 00:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by rphilsell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait until you are about 7 days late before doing a test, as for a safe time everyone is different i got caught with me 3rd child a week before i was due on When according to the health professions this is not your most fertile time but for me it was,
best of luck.
2006-10-16 00:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by margie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you should calm down, it is extremely normal to just be irregular, i know that i'm all over the place and so definitely just relax, get a pregnancy kit just to check but i'm sure you're just overreacting. Good luck
2006-10-16 00:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by Star dust 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋