Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

i have gone out with my partner for 8 years, we have lived together for 4 years. i finished my degree at university 3 years ago to which the plan was with my partner that when i completed the course we would move to a larger home and start a family-that was three years ago and we are still living in the same one bedroomed house-which the mortgage is only in his name. i am 29 years of age and my partner is 32. for the last 10 months i have been in a one way relationship, wanting to know where this relationship is going, i constantly am made to feel guilty for wanrting normal things such as a family. my partner has constantly told me that we will be moving and starting a family-however i have only recently found out from him that he has been saying this to keep me. my partner has told me he wants a family and to move he just doesnt want to do it yet! i am 29 ad feel i am wasting my life with him. im open to any ideas, opinions , support and advice.

2006-10-16 03:26:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-10-16 03:25:17 · 13 answers · asked by Lady_Y 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated my ex for about 4 years. We recently broke up about a month ago but kept talking and hung out once and awhile. I loved her and still do love her. She says she loves me too but doesn't know what she wants. We now talk and hang out more than before, but I don't want to get hurt again. We decided to start from the "talking" phase of a new relationship and see what happens. What does all this mean? Are my chances of getting back together good?

2006-10-16 03:25:10 · 10 answers · asked by Lee M 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked last week if women were bothered if they orgasmed during fore play, but not through penetration. I got some really helpful and useful responses, THANK YOU ALL. Anyway, on Friday night I managed to give my girlfriend an orgasm through penetration, I basically got her really really worked up (but no orgasm) and when I went inside she was a little tighter than usual and I was able to make her orgasm. I was really pleased (and so was she).
If I make her orgasm during fore play then it is harder to make her orgasm through penetration. Maybe I should have learnt this earlier.

Anyway, i asked my g/f if she thought orgasm through penetration was better, and she said it was. So I thought I would share this with everyone and see what sort of feedback I get.

Ladies, should I have learnt this earlier? I was so caught up in making sure she orgasmed during foreplay, she never had the opportunity to orgasm through penetration.

Thanks again.

2006-10-16 03:25:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 03:24:43 · 4 answers · asked by jamie L 2 in Singles & Dating

to chat to somebody on here that u get on so well that u want to meet them even though you are both married and end up having an affair

2006-10-16 03:24:12 · 27 answers · asked by stephen d 3 in Singles & Dating

are we not all humans can we be more as brothes and sister in the human race then enemys cmon people war is dead lets get along and be free together ....

2006-10-16 03:24:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work with my boyfriend and he apparently only loves and cares for me in his own way but he says he is not In-love with me, but he says he would like to see if he can fall in-love with me.

What shall I do? should I try to no see him everyday, should I give him a chance to see if his feelings grow? I find he gets annoyed frequently which makes me believe he doesn't love me as much either.

I love him. What should I do?

2006-10-16 03:23:24 · 13 answers · asked by Treasure 2 in Singles & Dating

Fortunantly, I come from a family where my dad is Surgeon and my mom is a Nurse....so I'm lucky to have come from a family with money.....and they are paying for my college tuition at a prestigious university....so what is your opinion? DO you think college kids are spoiled rich kids too?

2006-10-16 03:23:18 · 12 answers · asked by cutegirlie008 1 in Family

2006-10-16 03:23:13 · 35 answers · asked by Janey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-16 03:22:53 · 10 answers · asked by dipset da chick 1 in Singles & Dating

I've decieded that things are not working with my bf so i have deceided to move out. what is the easiest way to go on and move forward

2006-10-16 03:21:57 · 12 answers · asked by Sheilamarie 2 in Singles & Dating

I seem cant get enough of anything in life.
i want to eat all meals , want to date as many men as i can. i wana study anything. i want to go to the moon.. i wana be very rich..
what can i do :O

2006-10-16 03:20:54 · 8 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 03:20:32 · 16 answers · asked by Wolfscar 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating this guy for a few weeks now. I really really care for him. He was separated from his wife of 8 yrs when we met she really did him wrong she cheated twice and just dogged him out now she wants him back. he says he cares for me as much as i do but he has to try again with his wife and see if shes changed. can you be friends with someone who broke your heart should i even try im just having a rough time figuring this out i dont want to let him go should i try to keep him

2006-10-16 03:20:14 · 14 answers · asked by Catie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-16 03:19:53 · 19 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister is 4 years older than me and I am 27 years old.
we both live together alone and studying same course same univeristy.

any advice.

2006-10-16 03:18:52 · 19 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family

I have a problem, I have dated these guy for one year, I am a guy but I being gone for a long time, we broke up once and got toghere again. but now I am gone again for six months, he tellms that his tire of bieng alone and now he is now dating a girl, he says i am the best thing ever happend to him and that he misses me alot and wish that i was home to forget all his probles, but it's always hard to be together. I am tired and want to let go but I can't cuzI lov e him Can he behappy being with a woman or he is actullly gay and is donign the dating thing with a woman just to not be alone. Anything will help.

2006-10-16 03:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by joe l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 03:17:27 · 3 answers · asked by sophie 2 in Weddings

2006-10-16 03:16:49 · 15 answers · asked by in love 1 in Singles & Dating

Last friday night my boyfriend TELLS me he is going to see an old friend from florida who also happens to be an ex on sat. I didnt get angry but it did bother me. He asked if it was ok and i said yeah fine trying to be a good girlfriend. well he leaves at 9:30 at night and didnt come home until 7:00 in morning. never called or anything. when i called his phone at 5 there was no answer. When he got home i was upset, he said he had left his phone in his car. He says im wrong for being angry and that he didnt cheat on me so why am i upset.. I said it was innapropraite for him to be at another girls house until 7 am, it is disrepectful and rude to me . well now were not talking. he never apologized and says im wrong, am i though? i just dont see where i am wrong this time

2006-10-16 03:16:12 · 27 answers · asked by jenny3543 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 03:15:47 · 2 answers · asked by Chez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-16 03:14:54 · 7 answers · asked by in love 1 in Singles & Dating

Before we got married we decided to wait until he's done school which is in two years from now (which is fair to him, I know). But I've changed my mind. I want them now and I know we're ready emotionally, financially..... But he won't budge.

2006-10-16 03:14:12 · 11 answers · asked by autumn 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 03:13:58 · 3 answers · asked by lou 3 in Singles & Dating

my crush ask me to send him a friendster testimonial, den, i do it, after it, i ask him to send me also a testimonial, den, he do it also, but after i approved his testimonial for me, he deleted it the next day, wat does it mean??why he deleted his testimonial for me??it so sad, im really disappointed on wat he did, i dunno da reason why he's doing dis, sumtyms we're okei, sumtyms, we're n0t.. grrr.... why he deleted his testimonial for me?? im planning to delete also my testimonial to him, is it ryt?? it hurts u know!!.. OMG!!

2006-10-16 03:13:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend lied to me... ok there is this girl who work in the same cmpany that he is working except it is far away so they work over the phone. so they comunicate alot.. wel so i found porn and stuf on his computre that she had sent him and she phoned him late at night(so cant be work) so i asked who phoned and he lied and said it was some one else. when i found out that he had lied to me he said that he didn't want to tell me it was her coz he didnt want to fight about nothing. and i asked him but why do they talk and send stuff like that so he said she is very unatractive and he feel sorry for het and do not want to hurt het feeling by being mean to her??? what do u think

2006-10-16 03:13:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you find it demanding or controlling if your partner/wife ask you to call them if you are going to be late when coming home from work or going impromtu to the pub?I noticed that this was the time when my marriage had started going down the drain.All I did was ask?

2006-10-16 03:12:31 · 31 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is doing records search for information on me to see if I have a record. He called my girlfriend's lawyer on me because he got me confused with another person with a similar name that has a record. He is in trouble because he is being sued for child support and is trying to come up with ways to not pay up !

2006-10-16 03:11:47 · 10 answers · asked by cooperaaaron 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need help coming up with an idea of a romantic night with my husband. We have been fighting a lot lately and I want to show him how much I love him. He works at nights so he is home when I get home, and we don't have much money to spend on things like this because we have lots of bills that keep piling up. Please help with inexpensive ideas. Please be serious. I love him very much and would just like to have some quiet evenings of romance. We have no kids, and not much money. Any ideas are appreciated. Thanks.

2006-10-16 03:11:20 · 12 answers · asked by glitter3317 4 in Other - Family & Relationships