Last friday night my boyfriend TELLS me he is going to see an old friend from florida who also happens to be an ex on sat. I didnt get angry but it did bother me. He asked if it was ok and i said yeah fine trying to be a good girlfriend. well he leaves at 9:30 at night and didnt come home until 7:00 in morning. never called or anything. when i called his phone at 5 there was no answer. When he got home i was upset, he said he had left his phone in his car. He says im wrong for being angry and that he didnt cheat on me so why am i upset.. I said it was innapropraite for him to be at another girls house until 7 am, it is disrepectful and rude to me . well now were not talking. he never apologized and says im wrong, am i though? i just dont see where i am wrong this time
2006-10-16 03:16:12 · 27 answers · asked by jenny3543 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I say even if he didnt cheat it was still disrespectful to me. We also live together so i cant just leave. Had he come home at a reasonable hour like before 3-4 i wouldnt be so mad, but 7 in the morning? he says im wrong.
2006-10-16 03:23:26 · update #1
Honestly i wsnt looking for a fight, had he come home earlier i wouldnt have said anything. Im not sayin he cant have friends, it was just the way he went about it and now says im wrong.
2006-10-16 03:30:17 · update #2
it was inappropriate,, tell him if you find out he cheated on you there will be hell to pay
2006-10-16 03:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not sure how long you guys have or had been dating but I am going to assume that this was a pretty serious relationship. I think the first mistake that was made in this was when he agreed to see his ex gf without you being present or at least offer for you to be present. The next mistake was you did not tell him how you felt about him seeing her. You said it did bother you but you did not tell him trying to be a good gf, you should have told him how you feel. I think you have every right to be angry and to expect an apology from him. I would move on and find a guy that will treat you like a lady.
2006-10-16 03:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You did your part in trying to be a good girl friend. Now he needs to let you know what happened that night. Maybe he is telling the truth, and maybe not. Usually a guy who visits his ex is asking for trouble. He does not want the girl to get the wrong impression. And some times we can be friends with our ex. What bothers me though is the time he went, and how long he stayed. If he was a good guy, he should of called you, or took his phone with him. This all sounds suspicious to me. You need to decide what you want from this man, and decide fast. Ask him just to be honest with you, if he can't, then I think you need to reconsider your relationship with him.
2006-10-16 03:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just a thought But if you are his girlfriend Why does he need this friend who is a girl? Isn't your relationship all inclusive, Friend, girlfriend, ect. Most of the time even if the guy does not see it, women have other intentions besides friends and will cross any lines to get want they want even married lines. So are you just for show and sex and not a real relationship then are you really everything to him- if so then ask that his friend become your friend too. If she refuses you know the truth about her intentions even if he doesn't. If he refuses after that to let go of her. Let go of him and move on.
2006-10-16 03:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by busymom 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't see where you are wrong either, In order for someone to be trusted, they have to earn the trust. The trust factor isn't just built in. If he spent the night at her house, all those (ex) feelings probably came up, and now he wants you to believe that he didn't do anything with her? If he wanted you to continue to trust him, he should have kept in complete contact with you via his cell phone that was conveniently left in the car, and he should have come home by all means. No excuses!
2006-10-16 03:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't say wrong no, but i do have a suggestion...
Firstly how long have you been together? Is trust an issue? and do you live together?
Yes it is wrong that you waited for him and he never came home, didn't even tell you whats happening, but you also need to trust him, unless he has given you reason to believe he untrustworthy!
Do you have guy friend syou talk to? hang out with? ex's you still talk to?
And also he was honest by telling you who he was going to see and how their past relationship was like.
Try and talk it out with him again, this time be open and listen to him as well as he listens to you.
2006-10-16 03:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by kyliex1403 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i presumed each and every be responsive to it, and theory we've been meant to be at the same time back, Oh expensive he advised you what you needed to pay attention and it worked all he needed became a one night stand. even even with the incontrovertible fact that he's been the single to harm me. he's a jackass, Time to lose touch and pass in this guy is a low existence that makes use of and abuses women. Cry you are able to have slapped his face and walked away. yet another of existence's reports and next time don't be to rapid to leap make him earn the right to make like to you.
2016-10-02 08:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you looked at yourself closely, when was the last time you gave him O to completion or A what about outdoor sex or dressed to impress? Have you put a few pounds, told him you are not interested in playing around whilst watching a blue movie..keep it stimulating and exciting..or it will happen again..and the future looks bleak without him doesnt it?
Stop nagging and whining..NOW
2006-10-16 03:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think you are wrong either. Why would he need to be at an x girlfriends house all night? They broke up for a reason, so i wouldn't get too upset about it. Ask him what they did, and go from there. I too would be upset.
2006-10-16 03:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that you are wrong. If you let it go this time it will happen again. This is a big warning flag because if he cared about your feelings, he wouldn't have met her in the first place, then stayed overnight and worst of all cut contact with you. He is very wrong. How would he react if you did the same thing to him?
2006-10-16 03:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by dena_lisa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No your not wrong he ****** up. I would ask why he needed to see his old friend. I mean after there is a reason they are called the ex. Besides what the hell do you do with an ex till 7 in the morning???
2006-10-16 03:19:56 · answer #11 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋