I'd rather not hear any til death do you part stuff...I already know that.
Here is the kicker - He doesn't hit me, or cheat, drink too much or anything like that. I am just very unhappy and he is a total workaholic and I don't feel like I am getting "my money's worth" so to speak. I love him, but we have a daughter that needs him too and he just is NOT available. Work takes priority over everything, then hobbies, then his personal time. We come last.
This has been going on for 3 years....we have little sex and it is always on his terms, i.e. very quick and unfulfilling and he gets up right away and runs back to his computer. NO romance, no real dialogue and he is always angry...not at me, just in general and he takes it out on me and our daughter. I'm at my wits end and have come to realise I am wasting my time, I can do better and he seems to need to be single so he isn't pressured to spend time with any family. I guess I wonder if I moved out for a while, if he would even notice
2006-10-16
02:47:22
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