We dated for abt 3 mths. He was very nice to me then. I fell for him then and we become very close. 3 mths later, he said he doesnt want commitment & is not for relationship. Once we had a big argument juz bcoz I asked him if he loves me as he cldnt answer? We broke off. I felt so cheated and lousy!
2006-10-16 02:33:31 · 9 answers · asked by Truesurvival 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first up try not let this get to you too badly . sadly you did indeed get a no hoper ; but life goes on and you will have learnt from this lousy experience . the sad reality is he won't be able to wake up from this and will probably take a few other lasses on the way .
but your concern is not to try and dwell to much on your misfortunes by putting trust into what you thought was a fair thing ; it's difficult , I'm a bloke and been treated the same way , but you have to put it behind you --- there are plenty of other fish in the ocean .
2006-10-16 02:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by bill g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
losing faith in men is not too hard but u know what? that is only going to make u face a fact of life....there are alot of men that never will commit and even when they do....they're kinda 'sneaky'. lol. man, all i can say is good luck. However, what you do is 'NOT BECOME BITTER' . Men are beautiful creatures and if you think of them as pet u might just get used to their silliness & since u won't be setting urself up for a disappointment = you might find them asking U if U love him! Never ask a man if he loves u....that is like showing your cards before the round is up!
Stay cool. Be super strong, don't let anyone make you feel cheated or lousy ever! - oh hey, a good quote I read:
'a fool solves his feelings, a wise man hides them'. a quote from above...
2006-10-16 02:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brishti, you're very type at your coronary heart because once you've this treatment out of your husband and your in-guidelines you nevertheless opt to proceed this marriage. first of all what so ever is the reason of his ingesting habit, attempt to make him stop this sluggish poison both emotionally or medically. Secondly, you're knowledgeable woman, attempt to spend some high quality time consisting of your husband, might want to correctly be out of city, attempt to furnish a sparkling initiate for your relationship. you're a woman and could be understanding a thanks to make your guy loopy. Thirdly, about your moms and dads, this isn't any income of telling them about your difficulty until eventually and until eventually you're questioning about divorce at very last i might want to in difficulty-free words opt to say that your course isn't an basic one, yet nevertheless no longer something isn't conceivable. do not seem for the acquaintances outdoors as anybody will attempt to take income of your stained relationship. desire you'll come out of this mess quickly, might want to GOD BLESS YOU.
2016-12-04 21:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by kuelper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
taste and try before you buy.
would you prefer the relationship was longer if the result was the same?
he did you a favour by telling you the truth early on.
he already knew the relationship wasn't going to suit him long term. he could have lied just to get (more) free sex but didn't.
2006-10-16 04:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about him...he sounds like he's not even worth the hurt. Most guys are a.s.s holes like that, but don't worry cause there are some guys out there who are somewhat decent.
2006-10-16 02:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by ram_this911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you asked him if he loved you and he didn;t answer, it should have become clear at that point that he was a total azzhole and wasn't longing for a relationship anymore.
2006-10-16 02:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by llldeliciously_kissablelll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a man that has faith in Crist and only then have faith in man. Jesus loves you
2006-10-16 02:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by garza4975@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, go your own route now. If you guys were meant to be then it will happen later. Advise: Move on and have fun. Don't be so clingy.
2006-10-16 02:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by j.tech_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was too soon to ask that..... give him time, if he feels something he'll be back...good luck
2006-10-16 02:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by Gabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋