I don't know what to do - I'm 31 and still single....I want to be married and have kids so bad, but I can't find ANY guy of quality. I'm very attractive, in shape, own my own home, have a successful career, my bachelor's degree, a great family....all I attract is losers and I don't want to settle. I feel like there is something wrong with me.
2006-10-16 02:40:56 · 10 answers · asked by sunnyinsyracuse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gay?
2006-10-16 02:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are what alot of guys want. Just goes to show that finding true love is harder than the other things you have done.
I have no idea where to go to meet a quality woman. I'm not a pick-up artist, I want to kind of get to know someone before I ask them out. As a guy it seems to me that women have it so easy if this is what you want.
In all my hobbies and sports it seems like the ratio is always about 15 guys to each female. Alot of the guys are single and the women rarely are and never stay that way long.
Pick a hobby or sport that you are interested in and then have your pick of guys. Take a class in glass blowing, kayaking, rock climbing, scuba, sailing.
2006-10-16 03:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably scaring the men away. Your ultimate goal is to be married no matter what. I'll bet when you meet a man, this shows through in what you say/do. How about being happy being single, then you will start to attract more people toward you. Start by dating a guy just for the sake of dating. Then if he is a "keeper" you can start thinking about marriage.
2006-10-16 04:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by Thundercat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you're going to have to figure out what it is within YOU that attracts losers. I would say part of the problem is your desperation. Losers tend to be attracted to desperate women rather than independent, confident women. Also in your desperation you ARE settling. First you hae to change within yourself in order to find those "quality" men.
2006-10-16 02:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be looking in the wrong places... or you might be putting too much emphasis on looks. Try taking a class (art class, yoga, rock climbing, whatever) and you might find something. Also, if you haven't yet, try online dating... it's a cool way to meet guys. Just don't be in a hurry for a relationship... be happy in life and be patient. Good luck! :o)
2006-10-16 02:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as the perfect guy. Go for someone you think you like and they like you, but dont scare them off with commitment questions, make them fall in love with you and then tell them about your dreams. Go to places you dont normally go, maybe your normal enviroment is filled with losers. Try holidays in other towns and cities. Dont look for the perfect man, look for a guy who loves you.
2006-10-16 02:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever asked...someone whom you always meet, someone who is attractive...in you way for a cup of tea? Talk to those people who you are attracted to...tell the you like to have a cup of tea and talk...be cool, confident...open for any thing questioned asked... smile...do not talk about relationship too often.... just be yourself.... do these and please write me after ...I will be toasting a glass of wine in your name...Good Luck.
2006-10-16 02:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by Montel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh oh..."all i attract is losers." absolute thinking in an otherwise attractive and successful person...time to go to therapy.
2006-10-16 02:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, there is nothing wrong with you. you got the total package... the question is, where asre you meetiong them. bars are no good. yuo got to go where the cool guys are.
2006-10-16 02:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by swndawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There probably is
2006-10-16 02:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by F&S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋