I asked this question of the Single and Dating people last night, and was wondering if you all could offer a different perspective. When you were still playing the dating game, do you ever remember yourself getting too "caught up" in your relationship? You realize that you dwell on them too much, think about them too much, and spend too much time worrying about what they're doing? Does it ever feel like it's one sided...basically you're doing it but they aren't? This used to be the case with me, until I started feeling like I was putting in all the effort and he wasn't. Problem was, I was just focusing too much on my relationship and not enough on myself. Having girls night out on the weekends, getting more involved in my studies, and getting a gym membership helped me put an end to that. So, what advice can you offer to someone that's dating, on how to live your life for yourself, and maintain a relationship at the same time? Also, do married couples face this same dilemma?
2006-10-16
02:25:21
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