A girl I was seeing very casually (we agreed to be just friends) bumped into me recently. We had a chat and when we left I went to kiss her on the cheek but she kissed my lips.
Am I reading too much into it? If I work on her hard enough do you reckon she'll be interested again?
2006-10-16 02:04:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she went for the lips, she likes you. Then again, what if she's teasing you? Showing you what you're missing? Never can tell with women. Anyway, getting off track, you don't need to "work on her", you need to call her up and ask her what the deal was about the kiss. If you like her answer, ask her out. Take things from there. Just don't forget why the two of you decided to be friends only in the first place.
2006-10-16 02:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dunno, is she especially affectionate as an individual? The only reason I ask is because my friend always kisses me on the lips to say goodbye. Yeah, we have made out before but I never really thought more about it. Judging on her personality, I doubt if she ever thought more about it either.
Therefore, if your prospective girlfriend is just a very wild and friendly person, dont give her more intensity than she really is. On the otherhand, if she is quite a sincere and not overly touchy with every Tom Dick and Harry, then you really do have a chance.
Look for signs of low level striving - what this means is, look for signs where she requires attention of admirers, speaks well/eloquently in order to please others and speaks in a way that sells the benefit of a situation that would actually benefit her.
Look at her character, character is the only way without a guarantee that you can look at a person's heart and have a better chance of seeing what she would do in any given situation.
2006-10-16 09:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by bitemebiteme27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if she may still have feelings for you, stand back and assess the situation, does she usually act this way with other friends, ie...kiss or hug them when she sees them or says goodbye.
The best advise I can give you is not to put to much pressure on her, maybe ask her if she would like to catch up and do something on a friends level...If she agrees you should be able to read the signs as to whether she is still interested and it will all come naturally, just dont make the mistake of putting the pressure on her to soon, you may push her away,
It may take a few friendly outings, as the best way to win her back would be to make her feel completely comfortable...
Hope I could be of some assistance
bye
2006-10-16 09:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by (*)STARDUST(*) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i think u should try and find out for your own sake and get closure or more. But u need an answer. ANy gal that kisses a man on lips...even if they say friends... to me they are saying i want to kiss u intimately and this means they more then like u as a friend. Some women will say no strings to keep the man happy but deep inside they are connecting alright perhaps more then u know... so find out and if that means chasing DO IT
2006-10-16 09:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by cleo_alter_ego 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm
interesting. She was doing either one of two things:
1. she was trying to pull your chain, and play mind games with you.
2. she is interested and is playing a little hard to get. she may be playing to win
Good luck w/ her. Just dont over do it and play a little hard to get yourself. Most women love a challenge. Just dont be rude or egotistical...be the sweetest thing she ever saw...but dont call her all the time, leave her wondering a bit.
2006-10-16 09:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by candi k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By all means give it a go, she may well have been trying to send you a signal. But on the other hand, don't be disappointed if it comes to nothing, it may be that she was just in an exhuberant mood that day and meant nothing by it. Good luck!
2006-10-16 10:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by jude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you shouldnt read too much into it. If she did mean it to be something more than it was i am sure that she will call you to talk about it. But if you cannot wait that long just be direct and ask her what she meant by it if anything.
Good luck!!
2006-10-16 09:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by cezza 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A kiss on the lips... I think you have a good chance.
2006-10-16 09:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was it a deliberate kiss on the lips? is she usually that open with other friends?
if it was deliberate, and she isn't usually like that.. then she probably does still have feelings. If you do too, then WORK HARD on her! and GOOD LUCK!
best wishes mate!
2006-10-16 09:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by tinikk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course if she didnt have feelings when you kissed her she just would of backed away but she went farther and kissed your lips
2006-10-16 09:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋