I dislike dating game so I always pay for sex. I don't remember a time in which I did not pay. I have only been in a very short relationship before. No I am not old or anything. I am 24 and good looking(or so I hope). I wonder if I can keep doing this all my life without at one point regret? If you have some advice please share your thoughts.
2006-10-16 02:14:48 · 35 answers · asked by DeadmanWalks 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, thanks for all the answers and thoughts. Btw. Yes I always practice safe sex - condom always on and no kissing or any other body fluid involved.
As for all of you who wants me to fall in some sort of love, know this: I work 70 hours a week.
2006-10-16 02:35:42 · update #1
first things first , wateve u do ,do it wit a condom!
also if ur not in2 comitment stuff find a fck frend whom u can sleep wit but no strings atached....
OR(if rich) find urself a young blond goldigger who uses u 4 $$ da way u ll use her 4 sex.
2006-10-16 02:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by RITI??! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why anyone would want to do some nasty prostitute who probably has the dried leavings of some other guy still distributed over her body. Masturbation is free and safe and you don't have to talk to, much less touch a slutty whore.
I'm only interested in physical contact with someone who only has eyes for me.
I guess it is ok for you to have paid sex. I think you are missing out on the possibility of true love. I think the sex probably stinks. On the other hand, the dating game really does seem hopeless most of the time and I can see how a guy can just give up.
But the bottom line is you need to be true to yourself. Are you disrespecting yourself by doing prostitutes instead of doing the work it take to meet someone real?
2006-10-16 02:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 24 it's probably fine for a while longer but there may come a time when you will want someone to be there in the morning. Until then, it's no problem but should you ever find that you want that too, you may find it difficult without any relationship experience.
All men will tell you that they pay for sex in some way or another anyway.. relationship or not.
2006-10-16 02:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Well, if at 38 you develop a serious illness (not an STD--I assume and hope you are using condoms) such as malignant melanoma, are you anticipating that any of the people you have paid for sex will come and support you in the hospital? If you want children, do you plan to buy one on the open market? I think you might examine your own life-goals, in light of the real-life situations people face, to make this determination yourself.
2006-10-16 02:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by snowbaal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I had sex with someone out of my own free will and for pleasurable purposes, for him/her to hand me cash at the end of the night would make me feel dirty and like a prostitute, no matter their justification of 'financial help'. That's just me. If, however, the two of you have a sexual relationship and you happen to lend him a few bucks just to help financially, and make it clear that it's not for the sex, then all the more power to you. And if you want to arrange this pay-for-sex situation, then that's wonderful as well, but you just have to make it clear that's how it's going to work beforehand, that's all.
2016-03-28 11:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like you don't like the commitment of a relationship,so you pay for the sex part without having to risk anything on your part...hope you use safe sex practices...
2006-10-16 02:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you can last that long doing it it's okay, but there's always going to be that missing part in you thats not the same as being in a relationship. Whats better having someone next to you every night that you could turn to and do whatever you want or have one that you know is not going to be there for long. E-mail me if you can. nrth_rc@yahoo.com
2006-10-16 02:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the game that you are playing is called Russian roulette.. no one can get hurt by it, but you.. Aids is out there at every corner.. but i have no answer 4 you, because you seem 2 want 2 be alone and yet the beat of the jungle drums, beckon you out 2 do the wild thang.. bummer eh
2006-10-16 02:26:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get a sex buddy some one who is your friend but you can have sex with them and then the next day be friends but if you want to keep doin what your doin I guess thats fine to
2006-10-16 02:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to regret when you catch some kind of STD from one of them. Imagine if you are paying for it 1,000,000 other men maybe paying for it just like you!
2006-10-16 02:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by theprince4200 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋