my life is screwed up (im sure im not the only 1 dealing with crap).for some reason i feel kind of lonely,like somthings missing in my life,i just dont kno what it is.im 15,and i got raped about 6 or 7 months ago by a used to be so called best friend of mine.i had twins ,they were prematures and didnt make it.i kinda took it hard on myself.well,this guy didnt give a sh** about me (like most teenage guys).i felt like my parents didnt give a crap about me.well,a few weeks later i hooked up with this guy,we've liked eachother since 6th grade and finally had the guts to go out.he supported me all the way.there really isnt a point of telling u guys this..but anywayz,i have everything i could ever want right now,(besides the fact that my parents are kicking me out)well,the point is i feel like somthings missing.i have everything i need,but im not happy.and to make things worse my bf is moving to texas wich is 2-3 days away from where i live.hes the only thing i have,i dont kno what to do?
2006-10-16 02:25:50 · 8 answers · asked by kimberly z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey, you are dealing with so many issues all at once...and too much for a 15 year old. You are dealing with a rape, the passing of the children from that rape, rejection and abandonment by him and your family, and now the separation from your now boyfriend.....You have to get some counseling, or talk to someone about this stuff. First YOU have to heal. Please try and find some professional help---a rape hot line may be helpful for you;and they may be able to direct you to some professional help in your area...God Bless You...
2006-10-16 02:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me it seems like you have some inner isues to resolve. Did you confornt your parents and tell them that you are hurtting. Belive it or not, they love you and they may not relize how much hurt you really have in you. In my opinon what you are missing is a good parent child relationship. You need to have a serious talk.
Im sorry that you had to go through two of the most devistating experiences at such a young age. Im sure you hate to hear it but you are so young to be in such a position. You should be able to concentrat on being a kid. Not THIS! I also think it was too soon to start a new relationship. Only a few weeks went by and you had another person to worry about!! To much strain if you ask me!
2006-10-16 02:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feeling the way most teen girls feel. You're missing your family. You need your parents right now even if you think they hate you. Talk with your parents and try to mend ways with them. You have had a lot happen to you at a young age. You should really be focusing on you right now not another boy friend. Happiness doesn't come from men. It comes from understanding your self. You should really find someone to talk to about what has happened in your life. You need to understand what has happened and get those feelings out. And if this guy really is the one then he will be back. But it sounds like you have attached your self to him because he is safe. He doesn't judge you or make you feel bad. Which is good but you need that from your family not a boy friend right now. Family doesn't seem important to you now but they are the ones who will be there threw it all. But you have to let them take care of you. You need to understand they are trying to protect you not make your life worse. Talk to your parents they were teens once too.
2006-10-16 02:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by lynx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are missing yourself...when some one raped you they took a part of you, you are so very young, you don't need a man in your life you need to find yourself and find God. make sure you get some counseling hun you think you feel empty now just wait till you are older and you realize what actually did happen to you and I am so sorry for your loss.
2006-10-16 02:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety pls don't try to do this on ur own. u need proper help. i don't even noe u and i wish i could hug u and tell u its going to be okay. in the darkest times it never feels like it will be ok. if u like try listening to this song. its by Guy Sebestien (2003 australian idol winner)the song is called my beautiful friend. everything ur missing will come to u. everything happens for a reason. pls try ur best to listen to this song. it gets me thru. i really want it to help u too.
2006-10-16 03:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by pOppY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a church group or family group that deals with those type of problems...nine times out of ten they will be able to give you the support and advice that you need...stay strong, there is more to life and yours is just now getting started. ---Duane
2006-10-16 02:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by duane b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help now.
2006-10-16 02:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray
2006-10-16 02:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by dawggiestile 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋