He's a wonderful man, has a huge heart and loves me to death. I do love him, but there is no attraction whatsoever. There really never was a physical attraction. He on the other hand has a strong physical attraction to me.
2006-10-16 02:05:10 · 9 answers · asked by ginacaitlin1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no attraction are you sure that you are not going through a phase in your life when your hormone levels are out of wack or did your husband gain a lot of weight which you find physically unattractive. If you truly love him you can work through this. I wish you had told us how old you both are it sometimes helps when giving an answer. If you were never physically attracted why did you marry him it kind of goes hand in hand with loving someone. Sounds like you have to make some serious decisions and since you made the wrong decision in the first place how are you going to fix it now. People throw the word LOVE around pretty lightly these days. True love is when you wouldn't want to continue on with life if your partner were to die tomorrow. It also doesn't care if he /she has bad breath, smelly feet, crooked teeth or wears the wrong color socks but stays strong through good and bad.
2006-10-16 02:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately without physical attraction and emotional attraction as a package it just won't work. He sounds like a wonderful man, but u have to "want" him physically too. My suggestion would be to let him go because he really loves u and he is going to be hurt but the more u continue the worse it will be for him. Whatever u do though don't tell him the real reason why, that would devestate him for sure. It sounds like u love him more as a good friend than a lover, and that doesn't make a relationship.
2006-10-16 02:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that you are not attraced to him anymore. Then you say there never was a physical attraction. Was a physical attraction important to you when you first met. Is a physical attraction important to you now. Is the love you have for him enough to make you stay together. What suggestions can you give him to make him more sexy. If you dont know, dont go. Research, talk, dicover. Make an inteligent decision, not a dumb one.
2006-10-16 02:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by sunline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and see a marriage councelor. I there has never been an attraction, then it's a sad situation, but not all relationships are purely based on the physical.
2006-10-16 02:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by cyber chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is a relationship based on physical attraction? No. You're a bit egotistical.
2006-10-16 02:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you kind of started seeing him because he was .."nice"..wow that's a new one! most women don't do nice. They have to do attractive and hope they get nice, and end up disappointed every time. this is something you need to think about...hard!! How would you answer this question..."Is appearance more important than personality?". Good luck hun the rest is up to you.
2006-10-16 02:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you read some of these ?'s on here alot of women want a good man so if you really love him let him go so he can have someone in his life that deserves that type of love.
2006-10-16 02:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is not attracted to you anymore. Wow, you believed him.
2006-10-16 02:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him so he can find someone who deserves his love
2006-10-16 02:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋