Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

i have been married for 27 yrs. i need help. i luv both guys but i am not in love with my husband and my friend sometimes i feel he is just using me for what he can get or as a stand in. i know he has other relationships which he says is ok because i am married. have not slept with my hsuband in 12 years due to a medical problem.any suggestions

2006-10-16 18:25:07 · 6 answers · asked by TBALL 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

4 months ago i fall in love with cousin i dont know is it love r not but i have same feeling 4 her even 4 states away from 4 months i have not talk 2 her ,tho she has a boyfriend ,n i know my family will not like but this n many other things dont matter 2 me n my mind.n bcoz of this i started drinking 24hrs 7days a week but now im sober but in this mess i lost everyone around me.now i dont have anyone .i feel lonei .please try 2 get me out of this mess.

2006-10-16 18:24:00 · 18 answers · asked by Amit 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Autamasha "Shay" Bridges

grew up in central Ohio, moved to Illinois, at least for a while. Just wondering what she's up to.

2006-10-16 18:23:55 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

that its ok for guys to have sex with a lot of women, but not for women to have sex with a lot of men? why is he being congratulated , while shes being called a whore? whats your opinion?

2006-10-16 18:23:43 · 6 answers · asked by Jeanniegirl 5 in Singles & Dating

Please describe him in detail: his physical features, his hair, his height. And also describe the type of personality and how he would treat you. Also tell me what types of things you would do with him.

2006-10-16 18:23:40 · 4 answers · asked by joshooog 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a controversy with one of my dear frnd. he says only money is imp in life n nothing else. one can earn good name, become rich n also one enjoy splendid life and b happy at the same time..his ultmate view is if we r rich, then v can b happy. But i'm quite anti to this. I feel money is only a part of life. But can't put an end to all problems. Pl. i request everyone to give their suggestion on this as i wanna show ur answers to my frnd.

2006-10-16 18:22:39 · 26 answers · asked by mahi m 1 in Friends

2006-10-16 18:18:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone, I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years since I realized I wasn't happy with him. I have this friend that I met in college while we were both in a long term relationship, and when we met and became friends I bet he also thought "If only I were single...". Since I graduated from college I haven't seen him in a while and we never did go out (since we were both committed), but we are still in touch. The thing is we are incredibly alike, compatible, can talk for ages and I think we'd be perfect together. The catch is he told me in May he's engaged and the wedding is next April, he's been with his girlfriend since high school but I can tell their relationship is not great and they're getting married just because. Now that I'm single I'd like to test the waters and find out how he feels about me and if there is actually any future for us. What should I do? I want to do this right!!

Thanks for your help, SS82

2006-10-16 18:18:16 · 17 answers · asked by strawberryshortcake82 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 18:17:48 · 21 answers · asked by Scorp 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm over 21 so it's not illegal. When I was in his class he flirted a lot. He asked me out now and I was a little stunned. All I remember doing was nodding. Now I'm wondering if I should have just told him politely no. He's a lot older than me. Is this unethical?

2006-10-16 18:17:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was told that...but no idea what it means

2006-10-16 18:17:17 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

i know some one who is beautiful .but so over weight, and she just keeps adding pounds,

2006-10-16 18:16:36 · 11 answers · asked by marie b 1 in Friends

My friend lives with her parents and their house is really gross..They have a bunch of dogs and that is exactly what it smells like. I dont like going over there because there is urine and feces that lay around for days before someone cleans it up...their house barely ever gets cleaned....I haven't brought it up to her yet because i dont want to hurt her feelings but i care about her and her wellbeing....I know i would be stressed living like that...how can i help her?

2006-10-16 18:16:09 · 15 answers · asked by Elle 3 in Friends

2006-10-16 18:13:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

your boyfriends to massage your feet after they serve you breakfast in bed or do prefer to keep them warm under the blankets? I can never tell which my girlfriend wants me to do in advance.

2006-10-16 18:11:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i like a girl from church and i had a photo of her in my mobile.Then today on the bus home my friend that goes to the same church as me found out that i like her.Then he said she's taken but i think she isn't.He also said that don't come to church this week and i asked why and he replied i dont know.I'm not sure if i should ask the girl if she is taken and i would ask the guy if he likes her but i know that he will reply no.Please help i don't know what to do:(

2006-10-16 18:11:17 · 8 answers · asked by Andrew Y 1 in Friends

I was in the dream and she had comeback to be my girlfriend and we were kissing and stuff. Then we did just friend stuff and I was so happy. Then I woke up I realized it was a dream and my heart sank and I punched a hole in the wall and sat there for 2 hours thinking about the dream and almost crying! What should I do? Oh yea the girl in the dream likes me back but have not sceen her for 3 months and she lives across town and her phone don't work :( And I have had many others like this after but not as good?

2006-10-16 18:10:19 · 14 answers · asked by hey 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy says luv ya' every time I have to leave yahoo messanger. I am starting to wander what this means. I am not going out with him technicly but he still says it.

2006-10-16 18:09:20 · 35 answers · asked by softball blonde 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 18:09:00 · 18 answers · asked by KelBean 4 in Family

I went to the store I saw these there guys and they woulden't stop looking at my body two weeks ago my litlle sister went with me to the store and some guy asked me if he could **** me and hard

2006-10-16 18:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

If my friend get annulment done with his wife in Singapore (as this is a fraud marriage). The marriage is being carried out in India. Is it possible to make the annulment valid in India. What are the procedures to make the annulment valid in India?? Is it possible to just submit the annulment documents to India govt after annulment is being done in Singapore?? I need professional advices or resources, please!!

2006-10-16 18:07:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have spent countless hours on the phone each and every night. I know how she looks and she knows how I look. It just feels that everything's clicking when I talk to her just as if I have found the right one. I know I miss her and think about her every day. And she feels the same towards me. So what's going on here?

2006-10-16 18:06:13 · 18 answers · asked by ckthepilot 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my 20s, blonde, petite, very attractive North American girl, but I'm totally hot for older East Indian guys with turbans and long beards. What's up with that?

2006-10-16 18:04:15 · 7 answers · asked by Mmmmm 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is male. We've been friends for 10 years and I just recently found out that his little brother has had a crush on me all this time. I'm attracted to him. Is this okay?

2006-10-16 18:03:25 · 27 answers · asked by Angela A 2 in Singles & Dating

we're college students, and we were planning to see each other oh thanksgiving break, but we may not have enough money to see each other until christmas break. i am going to be going to school with him in fall smester of fall 2008

2006-10-16 18:03:25 · 5 answers · asked by anabelle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 18:03:00 · 3 answers · asked by ivening byhot 1 in Singles & Dating

we all had such a hard life with his dad,but it is not a excusse to destroy his future.he is not working,firends mean the world to him,doesn not pay respect to me aftre all i have been through with his dad.i am so desprate for right advise.pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

2006-10-16 18:01:33 · 17 answers · asked by roya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My question is me and this girl been talking to each other at work alot and most of the time she would just walk over and sit next to me and talk to me or maybe flirt a little like whenever we talk she tends to touch my shoulders with her hands or lean her body and head on me. does this mean she has feelings for me?

2006-10-16 18:01:05 · 11 answers · asked by jason w 1 in Singles & Dating

I've know this guy for 5 years before we decided to take it to another level. I usually wait about 3-4 months into a realtionship before I give into sex, but this guy I let him have it a little sooner. However, thatnks or changing. He doesn't call as much. When I called him yesterday he said he just feel like being bothered, and that he love me he just have a lot on him mind. I know the sex was good because when we are really around each other we can't keep our hands off of each other. Does he still want to be with me in that way? Or do you think he just likes me for sex? Does it matter to men if they've know you a long time? What I'm trying to ask is do you think he would play me like that after knowing me for this long.

2006-10-16 18:00:45 · 5 answers · asked by Heaven 2005 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 18:00:08 · 11 answers · asked by allie s 1 in Family