4 months ago i fall in love with cousin i dont know is it love r not but i have same feeling 4 her even 4 states away from 4 months i have not talk 2 her ,tho she has a boyfriend ,n i know my family will not like but this n many other things dont matter 2 me n my mind.n bcoz of this i started drinking 24hrs 7days a week but now im sober but in this mess i lost everyone around me.now i dont have anyone .i feel lonei .please try 2 get me out of this mess.
2006-10-16 18:24:00 · 18 answers · asked by Amit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
TRY TO BUSY WITH YOUR JOB. WAKE UP EARLY IN THE MORNING HAVE LOTS EXERCISES. JOIN ALSO YOGA DO NOT SEE TV UPTO LATE NIGHT. KEEP YOU CALM DO NOT THINK ABOUT SEX.
2006-10-17 04:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in love with my cousin once ... Sally was 5 and I was 7 . . . I think. I was so disappointed when I learned how sick it was that a cousin loves his cousin. I should hope that you are older than 7. Because even 7 was too old for that. Maybe I was 6 and Sally was only 4. I am just not sure. It was a long time ago. It's not a past that I am proud of. We just had that one Summer fling . . . Just like your cousin . . . She was several states away. Of course, I was much too young to be turning to alcohol. Back then it was ... But now kids do it a lot.
2006-10-18 12:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your life back together.you are just a victim of the love game.first of all enter a rehabillitation centre somewhere and get yourself away from all those drinks and stuff.secondly start writing your feelings for that cousin of yours in a book like a diary.then i need you to cosider just one thing can you be happy with this girls.just guessing i think you are an indian.in indian culture we consider our cousins as our brothers and sisters rather than other ppl.i feel you havent been close to your family so you just cant deal with the fact that that personm is a cousin.love is not bout bein able to live wit someone or like someone its more about being not able to live without someone and really ready to kill yourself for someone.you need to place the peices of your life baclk together.i dont understand how you could have let such a thing disrupt your life completely.anyways get yourself away from drinks.complete you education and get some medical help.have a therapist or even better a psychologist to help you.then start working and mee4t other ppl.make friends and try living a better life and with a nice life and bright future apologize to the ppl whom you have lost.looking at your improvement and feeling to live life you will be surprised at the fact that they are actually willing to help you and support you.all this will take time but you will improve and will start enjoying life again.if you are a better person and still think that she loves you then maybe she will be with you.if its really love then things will get better.hang in there and start your life the way you want it
2006-10-16 18:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by s4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you can't help who you love or fall in love with, but.............I don't think that it is o.k. to have feelings for your cousin in that way
Drinking will def not solve your problems it would just make you a AA member
If she has a boyfriend she has def moved on, and hint... maybe you should too
Go out and stop relying on Alcohol 2 cure the "Pain"
I am 100% sure that their are other girls out there that you can be in a healthy loving & relationship with besides your cousin, I do not know what you guys had/have but it needs to stop it is not healthy
for you and her
2006-10-16 18:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend ,
This is not new to you to fall in love with ur cousin, even some boy fell for her own sis. Man it is natural tendency to get attracted towards opposite sex but a strong man is the one who gets out of it and suggest himself that thiis is not fare.So dont punish urself by drinking.Instead of this mix up with good friends , make urself busy in your work so that you dont think about the girl.I m confident that you can come out of it bkz nobody but urself alone can help you comeout of this mess.God Bless you .
2006-10-16 18:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by ravinder b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the girl. Forget the booze. Get an education. Get a good job. Become a millionaire. Everyone will love you again.
2006-10-16 18:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS NO FOOL, IDIOT,STUPID, PERSON LIKE U IN THIS WORLD. IF ONE FEMALE IS GONE FORGET THERE IS ANOTHER FEMALE,AND THIS IS A SILLY MATTER TO DRINK 24 HRS AND 7 DAYS .
WHY DON'T U TAKE EVEN DRUGS , AND KILL U R SELF.
HAVE U EVER THOUGHT OF U R PARENTS WHOSE DREAMS ARE ALL ABOUT U . R U GOING TO HURT THEM JUST FOR A GIRL.
NO MAN U R DOING A BIG MISTAKE.
2006-10-17 02:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by shakthi v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not what life is. Talk to her first. If she also likes you and would like to make a permanent relation with you, talk to your family. They will accept, may after some hiccups. Alternatively, we must learn to take success and failure in the same stride.
2006-10-16 20:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
behaving like an obsessed lover or a sore looser will only keep you busy with things and thoughts that might distract you from living life to the fullest.you might also loose your golden chance to finding true love.Get a grip on your life..you only live once
2006-10-17 00:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by Swan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good that u got hold of ur life before completely ruining it.... now that u have realised ur mistake, try to build up the lost realationships again.... no doubt it will take time....but ppl will eventually notice that u have changed...and KEEP AWAY from booze ... its not a miracle cure that will help u to live ur life... uurself will have to decide wat kind of life u want and are u willing to go for it ..... take care... best of luck...
2006-10-16 18:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by ace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋