Well i like a girl from church and i had a photo of her in my mobile.Then today on the bus home my friend that goes to the same church as me found out that i like her.Then he said she's taken but i think she isn't.He also said that don't come to church this week and i asked why and he replied i dont know.I'm not sure if i should ask the girl if she is taken and i would ask the guy if he likes her but i know that he will reply no.Please help i don't know what to do:(
2006-10-16 18:11:17 · 8 answers · asked by Andrew Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
All of your answers are similar and you guys gave me hope but what happens if the guy already asked her out and she said yes or i ask her out and she says yes but then what do i do to the other guy?
2006-10-16 18:33:10 · update #1
Don't worry about the guy's feelings.
He evidently isn't worried about yours. And,
sounds like he wants to get his move in before you do.
Ask the girl out....then she will know you like her.
Ask her in person, No text messaging.
Something simple with a croud....like bowling.
Good luck.
2006-10-16 18:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by COOKIE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like this girl, why not become her friend first, get to know her and just hang out. Later on down the road you find out that she isn't taken then take a chance, you just never know what might happen. Plus if she is taken your better off friends, just be patience, good things come to those who wait.
Good luck
2006-10-17 01:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking her out before Church starts so if the guy tries asking her out she'll be taken.But if she's taken don't worry about it and just keep in touch with her.
2006-10-17 01:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by gatonaonao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First in first best. Ask her is she has a boyfriend. If she hasn't, ask her out. Hurry or you may miss out. If she prefers your friend, she will say no! Good luck!
2006-10-17 01:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, ask her out. If she's taken, she'll say so. And she'll know you're interested, so when she becomes available, she may seek you! Your "friend" has a crush on her too.
2006-10-17 01:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this friend of yours who found out ...i think he doesnt want you to ask her b/c maybe he likes her too...he didnt give you a reasonable reason to not go to church you see...so maybe you should ask her out and if she is taken she will tell you...
2006-10-17 01:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her then pursue her, your friend likes her thats why he said not to come to church this week.
2006-10-17 01:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being honest and up front is the best policy
2006-10-17 01:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋