My best friend is male. We've been friends for 10 years and I just recently found out that his little brother has had a crush on me all this time. I'm attracted to him. Is this okay?
2006-10-16 18:03:25 · 27 answers · asked by Angela A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend is married and his brother is my age
2006-10-16 18:10:38 · update #1
i've heard age aint nothin but a number but i dunno
2006-10-16 18:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by mnd2nite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems kinda odd to me that after 10 years your just noticing his brother since u know hes had a crush on you all this time, i think you should take notice to ur best friend. maybe he has feelings for you and you dont notice it because your too focused on his little brother...and he doesnt think its the right time to tell u how he feels..so my advice, ignore the brother...it could mess up your relationship with ur best friend if he has feelings for you.
2006-10-16 18:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by B* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend first some people really don't like it. This happned with a friend of mine and it sparked a fight that lasted a few months. You just have consider the feelings of your friends beacsue they are more importnat than a potential relationship.
2006-10-16 18:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by 1st time prego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off how old r u and how old is the brother and does ur friend like u or sumthing or do u think he doesn't but usually some guys get uncumfortable by this but otherwise u go 4 it
2006-10-16 18:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by Absolut Winter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the best friend has a crush on you, too, then I would say no. But you may be opening a can of worms.
2006-10-16 18:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by retorik75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how much older are u compared to ur best friend's little brother?
did she mind if u like her brother? if she mind about u two going out, who are more precious to u, ur best friend or her little brother?
ask urself these questions. i cant make the decisions for u.
2006-10-16 18:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by miza n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,It all depends on the age limit.Then ask her what your befriend would think about it if things go that way?So she wont feel left out.Good luck and have a nice night.
2006-10-16 18:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont see what the problem is but just to make sure you ruin a friendship ask your best friend what he thinks.
2006-10-16 18:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my sister's official point of view,yes he is out of the question!On the other hand there is always an unofficial side of such cases!!!
Go for it!
2006-10-16 18:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by Yannis K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur best friend about it. see wt he says. dont just go out with his little brother it might upset him. make sure its ok with him...U REALLY DONT WANNA LOSE A FRIEND, they r hard to come by nowadays.
2006-10-16 18:12:15 · answer #10 · answered by Keeta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister had a similar situation, but the friend and the brother were both trying to date her. in the end, she went out with one of them (i forget witch one) and the other quit being her friend. my advice, go fir it! if your friend doesn't ever talk to you again, tehn they wern't a good friend to begin with.
2006-10-16 18:09:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋