I posted another question about an issue that my fiancee and I are having w/ his ex-wife, but I also wanted to ask this as well. My fiancee isn't 100% sure that their two kids are his. His ex-wife absolutely refuses to allow the children to have a Paternity test done. She won't say why, but uses the children instead, she told my fiancee that if he wants to have the tests done, then he will have to tell the children 10 & 11, why he wants the test. I believe that if there's nothing to hide, then she shouldn't care if they are tested or not, considering that we're the ones who are paying for the tests. And in fact, the kids never have to know any differently if something bad does come out of the tests. He would still pay child support and buy them anything they needed, but it would allow him to get her under a little more control. He's had problems w/ her ever since they got a divorce, which was more than 8 years ago.
2006-10-16
16:12:56
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hope578
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Marriage & Divorce