go into our daughter's bedroom to kiss her good night every night before he go to bed? Our daughter is 6 years old.
2006-10-16 16:08:22 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Of course not! There is nothing wrong with a father giving his little girl a good night kiss! He must love his daughter! If all he does is give her a good night kiss, what is wrong with that? Is there some reason you are suspicious? If not, it is wonderful that he shows your daughter appropriate affection and makes her feel secure and loved.There are fathers out there that don't even want to see their children! Consider your situation blessed! God bless all the good fathers out there!
2006-10-16 16:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a mother of three girls and I have been married for 15 years to my husband. All three of my children are by my husband. Sometimes, he will go in and give them a hug but he does not give them a kiss good night. My girls tell me all the time why does Dad not give us a kiss or hug all the time. it bothers the girls that their dad can not show them the love they want but in turn he does say he loves them very much and he says he loves them all the time. This really bugs the girls that he does not give them the affection they want from their Daddy. If you feel there is something wrong with that, then ask yourself why and then ask your daughter if it bugs her that Dad gives her a kiss each night. If your husband has done nothing wrong to your daughter then I don't see a problem with him giving her a kiss at bedtime. Most Dads have a strong bond with their children as mothers do. I hope this helps you because I never had my Dad kiss me at night because my parents divorced when I was little and I never had the chance at a good nights kiss from my Dad.
2006-10-16 16:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by None 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not if she is awake. The way you stated the question appears that he is going to bed and she may be asleep. If she is, what is the point? The whole idea of kissing a daughter good night is that she will feel loved and cared for. If she is sleeping, the act is lost to her. In order for the message to be effective, the reciever needs to hear what is said. He can call her and say good night over the phone if he can't say it in person.
2006-10-16 16:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mark B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I kiss both of my babys before I go to sleep EVERY night without fail, unless I'm away for the night. They are 6 and 8. I also tell them I love them and to have sweet dreams, even if they are sound asleep. If I die in the night or have a stroke and can't talk, I want to know I told them how I feel every day all day if I can. I would tell my oldest daughter 24 and son 20 that I loved them also if they still lived with me...I doubt my son would let me kiss him though..lol It's different for dad's and girls they are closer for some reason until they get much older then they get closer with mom once they start doing "women things" dating etc. Same with mothers and boys. Unless he is trying to kiss them in some sick way then you are over reacting. I'd be concerned if he DIDN"T kiss them good night. Means he doesn't care in my book.
2006-10-16 16:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by flashpro 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I dont think your husband is doing anything wrong but I can understand your worries there are so many sickos in this world. I have a 7 month old little boy. I was so terrified of having a little girl because in the past I have been molested twice and almost raped and I was scared that I wouldnt be able to protect her. You have to trust your husband but keep a close eye on your little angel because if something happens to her like it did me she will never get over it. Trust your instincts!
2006-10-16 16:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by Chrissy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no no why would that be wrong has he had a history or something in his past that u are worried about
he loves his little girl and its ok to show it that should make u feel good that he actually wants to make a effert to kiss her every night before bed
my boyfriend makes shure he kiss s my daughter before bed its a good thing not a bad
2006-10-16 16:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by JESS 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My finace and I kiss my daughter good night. Sometimes its a hug but some times a peck on the cheek. I see nothing wrong with that.
2006-10-16 16:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heck no...I think it's wrong that you don't accompany him if you thought anything was amiss though instead of making these insinuations on Yahoo Answers...I mean there's enough disgusting things going on in this world to our children. You have some serious issues you need to be addressing if you find your husbands affection for his daughter disturbing enough to put out there.
2006-10-16 16:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish more men would be effectionate to there kids. there would be less teenage girls looking for relationships so soon.
If you have a weird feeling something is going on, go to the bedroom door and watch then blow kisses and say goodnight also.
2006-10-16 16:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by talk4now2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Observe him if it bothers you so much. If you have a sinking sensation that something isn't right about it, check it out. Otherwise, it's perfectly natural for a daddy to kiss his daughter on the cheek or forehead at any time.
2006-10-16 16:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by odessa2469 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋