Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

i dont get it..
what is it ??

2006-10-16 15:35:59 · 6 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 15:35:42 · 15 answers · asked by Kevin L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The ex wife is stating that she "lost" 3 months of child support and is now asking for more money. I do not know what to do and have had it w/ her lying. She's bad mouthed me to her family and now my fiancee's family as well. This is a total nightmare and I'm considering leaving my fiancee because of this constant problem with her, so any advice would greatly be appreciated. Even her own brother says she's mean and she'll always be like this, not to mention that my fiancee, her ex-husband, is her brothers best friend...so it gets even more complicated. Oh and by the way, my fiancee is over in Kuwait and won't be home until the middle of December. Please help..................

2006-10-16 15:34:48 · 10 answers · asked by hope578 2 in Marriage & Divorce

All I keep hearing is "Get a lawyer." But I can't afford one! I've known this guy for 10 years. We dated for 4 years, and I got back with him on a rebound from a 3 year relationship. We were together for four days and then got married, because he insisted. And my stupid @ss went right along with it. It's been 2 months, and we've been separated for one a couple of weeks. How do I get out of this marriage????

2006-10-16 15:34:22 · 10 answers · asked by WTF 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He has alot on his mind, and not the MOST romantic, but anything, even just a little sticky note would be nice. But how do I get this to him without being obvious?

2006-10-16 15:34:16 · 8 answers · asked by LexieLynn 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 15:34:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was thinkingof changing my name to ashley indiana olsen or axel foley but i dont know what to chocie if i choice ashley indiana olsen i would think i would get some stick from my mates for ashley olsen because of the olsen twins but i was thinking of ashley as in ash in the evill dead series or axel foley as in the beverly hills cop series which i love those movies if i choice any those should it matter if my mates should think if not what do you think would be a really cool names and also i would be thinking of a really good gangster name something like tony montana of scarface i would love a really good movie name

2006-10-16 15:33:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 15:32:26 · 8 answers · asked by curious cat 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 15:32:22 · 11 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Who the hell invented marriage and relationships? Guys have a natural instinct to mate with a lot of females. They fight off challengers for the right to have sex with all the chicks in his group. Why do we fight natural instinct? Marriage and monogamy is unnatural.

2006-10-16 15:32:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 15:31:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have 2 boys and a husband. We are in the military, and I'm in the nursing program. Don't get me wrong, I love my family; however, sometimes I feel like a heavy weight is on my shoulder. I feel like I'm playing tug-of-war when it comes to dividing my focus on each member so they can have my attention. I guess all the responsibilities I have are just a little much at times. How do you feel about life after marriage and children?

2006-10-16 15:31:18 · 10 answers · asked by Ana 4 in Family

I have liked this guy for the past 6 months. I have never liked a guy for this long. Usually if I like a guy and find out that they don't like me back or that I might not have a chance with them, being away from them for a while usually helps. But this is different. He is a sort of friend of mine. We get along well, and for a while I used to think that he liked me back but apparently not. He is usually busy with school work. So I don't like inturrupting him in case he might get annoyed. I don't share any classes so the only time I see him is when i bump into him or when my friends and I get together. He once asked me to watch a movie over at his place but, asked me to bring a friend along (any friend), so I got upset. I thought that by avoiding him I would be able to get over him but I'm always wondering what he's up to. I feel silly since we're not even close to dating. Do you guys have any suggestions???

2006-10-16 15:30:35 · 5 answers · asked by Puffgurl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 15:29:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok my gf Brittany just told me she just wants to be my friend and then this weekend I saw her at the store when I was with my friend and I saw her I almost lost it I had to run into the parking lot. I can't stand it anymore I love her but I don't know what to do. She sends me e-mails but I can't even read 'em without balling. I'm supposto be a tough gothic vamp but I just can't without her. How do I get her back? Please help me. I feel like I'm dying without her.

2006-10-16 15:29:22 · 15 answers · asked by nothingforthebest666 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm feeling so down in the dumps. I just lost my job and I don't know what to do. I'm on the verge of being really depressed. I just need someone to talk to.

2006-10-16 15:29:22 · 16 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Friends

My boyfriend and I want to get married (no wedding though) have a child, and THEN have our wedding. How can we do this?

2006-10-16 15:29:19 · 20 answers · asked by Curious&can'twait 2 in Weddings

2006-10-16 15:28:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this person. His name will be...Guy.
So, Guy and I work at the same theatre company. We are permforming Oklahoma.
I am the lead, and so is he. We are suppossed to be all in love and we sing lovedy dovey songs. Normally, I would not have a problem with this. But. I like Guy. A lot. He is attractive. Funny. Nice. Smart. But he doesn't seem too into me, and I am not letting anything off that I am into him. It is rather complicated. Sometimes, it appears as if he likes me, I have caught him staring at me wistfully. But then, it seems like he doesn't like me at all, even as friends. I know it isn't very good to get involved with cast members, I have been in theatre for many years, but, this is really hard! I have just met him, but he seems nice and fun. I am really bad and shy when it comes to men and relationships. How do I let him know that I like him, or maybe at least get him to be close friends with me? Any help would be nice. Thanks.

2006-10-16 15:27:53 · 6 answers · asked by Norah 6 in Singles & Dating

I called my ex and told how I wanted him back. I mentioned about him cheating, and he said with a straight trustworthy voice he didn't. I don't know because now he's in a school 3 1/2 hours south from here. It sounded as though since he's "busy" he didn't want me back. We didn't have a full conversation since he's "busy". I think he was. What should I do? I know I will feel terrible double the amount if he says no. What do I do if that happens? Was I foolish telling him that I wanted him back? I'm the one that called it off. What do I do now?!!!!!!

2006-10-16 15:27:41 · 3 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 15:27:18 · 10 answers · asked by brainsandcute2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im 18 years old...and i really like this girl. she is 27 years old. i really like her but i dont know if she really likes me. we were at a party and we danced for a very long time. she held my hand and i held hers. we both were smiling and havin a great time. the next day we hugged for a bit and we just took out some cute pics. i known her for a wile. does anyone know how to tell if she likes me? and is it right for me to date her or have a relationship with her? She makes me very happy and i cant stop thinking of her....is she just flirting with me...am i reading the clues rong? What shood i do?

2006-10-16 15:26:47 · 9 answers · asked by kazuya80 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok.... this may sound stupid.. but I just recently started seeing this guy.. we had one date.. but we talk every day.. So I'm going out with him this coming sat night..actually just pizza and movies at his house.... do I bring something for sweetest day? Like bake a cake.. What do you think? That's not too much right.. We get along really good.. but I don't want to seem to forward....

2006-10-16 15:25:35 · 5 answers · asked by cincyduck97 1 in Singles & Dating

can you tell me what guys like to hear from there wife I don't mean to be cold with him I just want to do something nice for him .

2006-10-16 15:24:45 · 5 answers · asked by nursetech 2 in Marriage & Divorce

whats this mean, please help?
ok about a month ago, i spilled my guts to one of my friends, told her that i like her alot, and all this stuff, shes only 13. well she wrote me back and said she hasnt ever seen us as more thanfriends, and that she dont like me like that but she dont want it to ruin our 8 year frendship.. well..over the past month, I've been avoiding her, simply for my sake, just simply not to bring those feelings back up, cuz when I'm around her they all come back. but she emailed me yesterday, and said she was sad, becauze it was straining our friendship. and she wants things like they used to be, well i told her why i had been avoinding her, and she said she totatlly understood why. well, I know she dont like me like that now, but am I crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the future, cuz she was obvioulsy ( she said) she was really sad, seeing us like this, and since shes only 13, am i crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the next year or two? she also said, " dont take the rejection to heart

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13 minutes ago
that the reason was probably stupid anyway, whats that mean?

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3 days ago
and for those who say, I am punsihing her, I am not in any way. We have had very friendly discussions, and she understands why, things have been this way. And I have reassured her, promised her, that I will make things the way the used to. Do u really think I want to lose the friendship as well? I mean, that hurts.

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12 hours ago
I mean, its not like I'm ugly, I'm very atractive, and so is she. I mean I'm fit, I play varsity baseball, and am only a sophmore, It's not like I'm a geek or anything. And the same with her, she is very good lookin, has guys hitting on her all the time, and is on the national swim team, I just dont know what to do, cuz i swear to god i love her more than anything in this world

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3 days ago
i mean i just cant get over her, I have never in my life, liked anyone, or felt so strongly for somone. Believe me, this isnt a crush, I have had many, but htis is more

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4 days ago
but, since me and her are friends again, we were talking about this girl who likes me, but i dont like her... and the girl i like, said i should just tell her i wanna stay friends, just incase i ever change my mind....?? which is the exact same thing she told me.. what it mean??

2006-10-16 15:24:09 · 22 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 15:24:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If men didn't like fake ones then why are there so many fake ones now days? Very curious...

2006-10-16 15:23:47 · 30 answers · asked by ♥Always 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am financially fit.yet when i told him about a homeless man who wants to sleep in my driveway and needed help, he ignored this.why would he be concerned about me ,when he doesn"t care about a homeless man who needs help?he told me that this man should go to the red cross and that i can not live his life for him.Do you see something wrong here?

2006-10-16 15:23:03 · 18 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 15:22:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it wrong to sleep with someone out of lonliness, horny-ness, and just plain need of attention?

2006-10-16 15:21:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating