I had a good friend for the past eight years I met at work. I was always attracted to her but she was with the same guy (and eventually married) the entire time so I did not really think about it happening and was just a good friend to her, and I was cool.
Well she left her husband and decided that the best time to tell me she knew I felt that way about her was after I had some sort of hope it might happen, and she did not want to go there with me. She also picked the worst day of my life to say it (family member's funeral). I could get over her not having those feelings for me, but I couldn't get over her knowing that I was in for a letdown someday (she knew, her words, that her marriage wouldnt last) and never told me, and the really bad timing of it coming out, not to mention she basically got it out of me before I was ready to tell her (like maybe when she wasnt married, I am not the cheating type of guy). I told her I didn't want her in my life anymore, so did I overreact?
2006-10-16
14:46:43
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